5 Ways to Ensure Your Child Starts The School Year Off Right

August 16th, 2011 - By madamenoire

By Earl Martin Phalen

Every school year is a chance for a new beginning for your child.
I’ve seen hundreds of children move from being “C students” to “A and B students” by the end of the school year when they have the right focus and engaged parents. As the consequences of the drop-out crisis have shown us, young people need to know that they will only obtain their material and emotional long-term desires by staying in school and getting a great education.

Although I was born into the foster care system at a time when 70 percent of my black male peers would end up going to jail, I was adopted by an incredible family that valued discipline, hard work and education.  As a result, I ended up attending Harvard Law School and was a classmate of Barack Obama’s.
I truly believe parental engagement can make the difference in the life achievements of a child. So if last year your child’s grades weren’t up to par, or you just hope to keep them afloat if they’re already excelling, here are five tips to start your child’s school year out on the right track. Try these five tips, be persistent, and you will set your child on the track to becoming an all-star student.

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  • Trambom

    at the end of the day..its all about the kids…preparation is key to a great education and experience in school..
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  • Anna N

    Awesome article – I would add one thing: failure is not an option. My parents were both teachers and I knew each year that certain grades were not even on the table for me. They knew my strengths and my weaknesses. A "C" in my toughest subject was not celebrated but if I worked hard for it they would accept it. A "B" in my favorite subject was considered failure. They knew I had an "A" in me!

    • readmorebooks

      That point of view is unrealistic. It doesn't take into account an individuals limitations. Recognizing and accepting that one will not be great at everything is an important part of helping a child to mature. Not accepting failure tells them that they will never live up to your standards and thus never be good enough for you. Everybody has attempted something given it their best shot, and failed. They may be an athlete or a musically gifted but not be an academic. Or they may be well rounded educationally but socially inept. They are one in a million if they have the total package. The idea is focus on the good. Work on the weak areas, but as parents supporting our kids is key, not riding them to prove we are good moms and dads to our peers.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002442843012 Vicky Rogers Burks

    To all PARENT'S who VALUE your CHILDREN EDUCATION,SUCCESS in LIFE,PLEASE READ THIS? From a PARENT who DARE to CARE for all of our CHILDREN. JUST KEEPING IT REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002442843012 Vicky Rogers Burks

    She's a true BLACK SISTER! JUST KEEPING IT REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!

  • http://theculturepollution.blogspot.com/ Culturepollution

    5. Just to add to this point. Even if the child is unsure of what their career goals are ,as many children (and adults!) are then emphasis the role good education and knowledge has by keeping more paths open to them so when they finally decide on a career path they are not dissapointed because they may be underqualified.

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