Wow, I can’t believe any person can feel that lowly about themselves that they would remark such a negative comment to someone. Yes, you can feel and be fabulous. We, as black women have the potential to be just as fabulous as any other race does. I know because those are the kinds of people in my life. It’s the negativity and self hate from some of ourselves and others that makes us think that we can’t, because that’s the kind of self have that we often promote within our communities. We have to get out of that state of mind and know that we are better. To the sista who wants her man to adore her, it is possible to have that in your man, maybe the one your with is that man, maybe he isn’t, but there are men out here who not only love their woman, they also adore and would do anything for them. Those are secure and usually God fearing men. Don’t let the negative views of another convince you of anything different.

@Reese

"live the best life you can" sounds you're like you're saying we should life fabulous and therefore, your entire comment fell through the cracks…sigh

Ery woman should be adored by her mate, or companion, I want my man not only to like me and love me but simply adore erything about me..