Are You Sex-Matized?
Sex is an addition to a relationship; not the basis of one. Well, that is unless you’ve had that ‘good-good’. By that ‘good-good’ I am referring to sex that’s so good it causes you to make decisions that you normally wouldn’t make. Your judgment is off because the sex is so good; and at times you even question why you stick around. That is until your next sexual encounter.
If someone would have told me years ago that sex could tremendously alter decisions, change opinions or even make or break a relationship, I’d chalk it up to silliness or a lack of self-control. Now a bit older, I’ve seen the effects that sex can have on relationships. It can cause a woman (or man) to leave a relationship or even prolong his or her stay in one.
In her song conveniently titled ‘Good Good’, Ashanti brags about having the type of sex that ensures her man comes home. Although we know sex alone doesn’t keep a relationship together, it can have a positive or negative effect on one if you let it.
If not careful, even the most strong-minded woman can allow good sex to alter decisions in a relationship. So how do you know if you’re in a relationship solely because you’ve been hypnotized or sex-matized by that ‘good-good’?…..