Confident vs. Clingy: Are You Too Desperate When it Comes to Dating?

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Scenario:  You meet a really cool guy at a party and leave without exchanging information. 

Desperate Reaction: You ask every single person who went to his alma mater/is in his fraternity/lives in his neighborhood how you can get in touch with him. You search him on all social networks and add him on a few.

Confident Reaction: If you have a friend in common who attended the party who may be able to make the connection without coming off with a thirst bucket, ask them to do so (i.e. if he was invited by your friend from college who knows him from work, it should be cool to ask him to link you). If that isn’t the case, look him up on Facebook. If you all have a good number of mutual friends, feel free to send a request; if not…just hope you run into each other again.

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