Well, the most messed up thing that my ex did to me is call cps on me the day he got child support papers in the mail.

To all of the brothers n sister on here going back n forth about who’s more wrong and right and who causes the most pain and stress in each others lives…please stop it….the black family will continue to fall apart if we continue to bicker back and fourth about trivial matters….both black men and woman have their fualts and no one black man or woman’s problems all the same…America has already broken the black down and created a system that targets him and ensures he will spend time in prison(not all but there are a lot of traps for young brothers these days) and just as fast as they removed the black from the family they where able to attack the black woman, the cornerstone of our family structure. Point blank woman u need us just as much as we need u…and to the replies that state that this is a website for woman, I like to read up on what todays modern black woman thinks of the black man..and from what I’ve seen this site does have some articles that can come off as male bashing..some articles may have some truth to it but Damn how many post do u need to point out the flaws of some black men…instead of pointing out flaws maybe we should have more articles highlighting solutions to the problems we face

Thank you Rodrick.

To Daywalker: Black women are submissive by nature as any women are. One thing you fail to mention is the circumstances that black women face which is caused by black MEN. 70 percent of black homes are fatherless. This leave black women with NO CHOICE but to step up. I myself have no children, but if I did and the father didnt step up I would go get two jobs or go to grad school to assure I can care for myself and my child well. According to the Journal of Blacks in Higher Education, at least 60 percent of black students who get awarded college degrees are women. Black women make up 71 percent of black graduate students. So the bottom line is: BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT MASCULATING THEMSELVES AS MUCH AS MENS GUILTY CONSCIENCE IS EMASCULATING THEMSELVES

Oh please

Mr. OWENSBY, you sir, are a fool…I am always a "GENTLEMAN", yet NEVER a "GENTLE MAN". Sorry if this offends you, but the men in my family were raised to be men, and by being a man, I wholeheartedly dismiss the whole notion of men being effeminate, emasculated, and castrated by WOMEN!!! My god, man get a grip!! Does your woman carry your balls in her purse??? Can you not see that men in AMERICA as a whole have been turned into a nation of (FOR LACK OF A BETTER WAY OF PUTTING IT) BYTCHES for the most part??? Men were NEVER meant to deny their true nature, and that nature is one in which MEN are DOMINANT, and WOMEN are submissive. Anything else is hogwash in my opinion, and to be honest with you, on average, the AVERAGE man and womMERICAN WOMEN have issues with finding a man, because BY NATURE, MEN ARE NOT SUBMISSIVE…..WOMEN ARE.an could physically get into an altercation and even if they weighed the same, A MAN WILL STILL OVERPOWER A WOMAN in most cases…I didn't make this rule up, MOTHER NATURE DID, so spare me with your diatribe, because in order for things to be on an even keel, WOMEN NEED TO BE SUBMISSIVE to men. THAT is why so many AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN cannot find mates, because MEN are not submissive by NATURE…….WOMEN ARE.

@ Magister and Seek

Don't get mad at the mirror (i.e. the article). Get mad at the reflection.

This is hands down the most entertaining article I have read since coming on this site.

Any male that is quick to tell me that he doesn't like wearing condoms is the same male is tacky. Why give each other the go ahead to get pregnant or STDs.

You want to be able to slip the box across the pharmacy counter to be rung up… Not having the nurse at the Free Clinic slide you a couple of free ones.

But really… Why do men do this? Why do they believe this is normal and acceptable. Stop IT! Because of your stupidity Maury Pauvich is able to renew his contract till the year 2100…

Grow Up and Be Better!