EFFed Up Things Men Do

July 28th, 2011 - By nativenotes

 

1. Selling dreams

I’m tired of watching women become emotional wrecks because they believed the grandiose dreams some man sold them. A four carat engagement ring, the house, the kids and even some little furry creature to take random dumps that you’ll clean up. I’m talking about the types who have you meeting their moms, hanging with the family and doing family trips but nothing is ever really going to come of all this. Then he hits you with “you could be the one” — you’re not but you’re convenient as hell and you’re allowing yourself to be exploited by a sh**y salesman.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/Chizzraw Charles Simms

    where is the article about the effed up things women do?

  • proudofmyblackskin

    I find it funny that you are blatantly blaming women for having the higest rate of HIV when we get it from the very men that we trust and love. Men who sleep with other men. Black women have the highest rate of HIV beucase the Black skin is the most seen in the jail cells! I dont care if you find black women less attractive than white women, you my friend are a sick and twisted individual. I have never seen a grizzly over look another grizzley and mate with a polar. Its unnatural. But I guess with you trying to fit into a society that rejects you- it seems perfectly fine. NO one seems to care why that sister wants a thug. We just care that she doesnt have any kids that we have to feed. All the while that sister has never seen a man educate himself, fight adversity, etc. Dont be so quick to judge the color of your skin is what every single non-black person in this world. And you will never know just how many times your white girl is calling you a "n" word in her mind. And you for damn sure wont know how many times her gradnada told her she has dissappointed the family. You need to sit back adn think about things. Before you end up shuckin and jiving just to be in the big house.

  • maggie

    this list is called G-A-M-E, period.

  • MsRita

    At women can be faithful and not running around looking for other men when we are in a relationship. Some men need to learn how to turn it down when you know you have a good women in you life.

    Mostly women that actually know me and see how I'm treated and want the same thing. However after I divorced him she was crying he does nothing for her why because he is still doing whatever I want him to do.

  • judge

    Skank alert!!!

    • MsRita

      Wow my exHusband best friend would try to come in our house while he was at work i was a stay at home mom. When to told him he can't come in he said well his first wife let me come in when is working. I told him welcome to his new wife that will respect myself and not have any other man in my house when he is not here. So just call him and see if he is her and then you can come over. Please stop ringing my door bell everyday. So what did he say to my husband I don't you new wife she is a B. Guess how that turned out their 15 year friendship ended. Did I expect that no and I did not know he called me out of my name until my husband told me.

      • Mikkalotious

        Very smart Sistah!!!… As far as the name calling….small thing to a giant… you know who you are and what your name is and… it probably wasn't the 1st time someone had gotten your name completely wrong and it won't be the last…. any time that happens … I let it roll off my back like rain…. peace~

    • Mikkalotious

      LOL

  • http://www.facebook.com/msgotitlikethat Meagan Turner

    Well, the most messed up thing that my ex did to me is call cps on me the day he got child support papers in the mail.

  • Freebee33

    @tpe
    Although I agree that the few trolls we have masquerading as 'real black men' on this site are annoying, It's unfair to lump all black men in one category…

    Besides…I don't know any 'real black men' or any 'real men' for that matter who spend their time trolling womens' websites for the sole purpose of posting angry and unnecessary comments…

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  • chitownkush

    To all of the brothers n sister on here going back n forth about who’s more wrong and right and who causes the most pain and stress in each others lives…please stop it….the black family will continue to fall apart if we continue to bicker back and fourth about trivial matters….both black men and woman have their fualts and no one black man or woman’s problems all the same…America has already broken the black down and created a system that targets him and ensures he will spend time in prison(not all but there are a lot of traps for young brothers these days) and just as fast as they removed the black from the family they where able to attack the black woman, the cornerstone of our family structure. Point blank woman u need us just as much as we need u…and to the replies that state that this is a website for woman, I like to read up on what todays modern black woman thinks of the black man..and from what I’ve seen this site does have some articles that can come off as male bashing..some articles may have some truth to it but Damn how many post do u need to point out the flaws of some black men…instead of pointing out flaws maybe we should have more articles highlighting solutions to the problems we face

    • MsRita

      My Marriage fell apart because he could not keep in his pants. I not going to work that out however we did have pre-martial consuling and during are marriage and still did not work. I really think is was because I was making more money than him. At first I was a stay at home mom and I found something in one of our cars that caused me to start working again.