Can Women Have Sex Like Men?

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July 26, 2011 ‐ By madamenoire

You’ve thought about it… a few times to be honest. But have you ever actually attempted to have sex like a man? Let me rephrase. It’s unfair to assume all men have the same thoughts and behaviors when it comes to sex. I mean could you have sex with multiple partners with no commitment? This very question was addressed on the first episode of the ever-popular HBO hit “Sex and the City”

Well counselor and therapist Elisabeth LaMotte answered this question over at Your Tango.com.

Check out her answer here.

Have you ever tried to have sex with no commitment or with multiple partners? How did that work for you?

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  • Truth Hurts

    No wonder Black women have the highest rates when it comes to every STD known to man. Black women are so busy acting out in anger that they risk their own lives just to get back at men. You're willing to die just to prove a point? Go ahead, screw every man in sight, the world is better off without you.

  • just wondering

    thats cool sweetThang! just wondering can you "logically "explain the difference between people who act and think like you and prostitutes,,,,without copping out,,,,,,,,,prostitutes at least get money,,,,while people like yall do it for free!,,,,,,,,,,are you better cuz yall fck different men but dont get any money??,,,,thats pretty damn dumb,,,,y not get paid?

  • chocolateman

    NO BUT MOST BLACK/MIXED WOMEN DO THAT IS WHY THEY ARE SINGLE AND CAN'T MARRY!

    • dunbar

      thats got to be one of the realest things ive read on here! but i bet no female will ever respond

  • SPIDA

    YEA GURLS CAN BE HOS JUST LIKE MEN, JUST STRAP UP, AFRICAN AMERICAN GURLS ARE HIGHEST RATE IN AIDS

    • u wish

      they get it from black men!

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    I do believe so!

  • Pink

    This is a stupid topic! Women, please do not fall into this self destructive ignorant behavior. Its ignorant on the part of men and any women who use mens ignorant behavior to justify their own. All these men are affected by sleeping around, that’s why most or all of them have emotional connection issues and lack serious self control. As a man, I am begging you women out there don’t fall for these lying insecure men who like to make it appear they are “living the life” sleeping around. Its a lie they have engrained in their hearts and minds and being with such a man (person) is extremely dangerous when they have become comfortable lying to themselves.

    • LaVerne Torres

      If there was men telling the respect truth. Its ggod that your view is on that level. You need to run a service to teach to other men, how to not to sleep around. They are sinning against their own body. Some women don't respect there own self. Hebrews 13:4, and
      Galatians 5:16, 17.

  • BeautifiedLies

    Maybe the title of this should really read ‘Can Men and women set some standards’ Why is it that for about the past five years everything is geared toward this “Think like a man” attitude? Is sleeping around or not all that there is to a person. Male or female. But for the sake of this post ill keep it simple. I have made sexual mistakes when I was around 19 and none of them felt good….or liberating after it was all said and done. Of course women can sleep around it’s quite easy, will be accepted? Probably not. And flit shouldn’t be. Until there is no high

  • Why even bother

    Someone should spray some water on that soapbox you're standing on… Because you need to slip off.

    • JustAshley

      Why? Are you feeling guilt cause she pulled your card?? LMAO.

  • Lyndon

    I know plenty women like this!! And they also have trouble maintaing relationships, severely depressed, live daily with shame, and wonder why they can't be accepted for being sexually free. Obviously their spirit doesnt agree with it either.

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  • homie

    No thanks, my body means so much more to me.

  • Why even bother

    That's fine and dandy but what will the men do?

    • Why even bother

      Men have no sense of restraint… and society allows them to give into that.

      • Why even bother

        Not for long.

        • Why even bother

          I feel like that is such a lie.

          • Jarred

            a realist knows that in reality, there are some odd billion number of men in the world and to clump them all in one boat is foolish

            • HoldingTheMirror

              Don't blame me… blame your cohorts… They are doing much to improve the landscape.

    • Kayla

      i meant that for men and woman. but of course. that will never happen

  • WHOISBSQUARED

    YEAH SUMTIMES U GOTTA JUST RISE UP ABOVE BULLISH 4RM PPL….IM ALLERGIC TO IT NOW LOL

  • WHOISBSQUARED

    YEAH I CAN RELATE….BUT MY OPINION, FEELINGS CAN DEVELOP IF U LET IT. CUZ WHEN U ALREADY HAVE A MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING OF THAT RELATIONSHIP JUST BEING, "CUTTY BUDDY'S", THEN THEIR SHOULD BE NO POINT OF THAT PERSON BEING MAD/ DISAPPOINTED WHEN THEIR SEEN WITH SUM1 ELSE….AM I MAKING SUM SENSE?

  • Just another guy

    She is only stuck because she wants to and she is desperate. Also stop comparing men with women, we are not the same when it comes to this. Any decent chick could get any guy to sleep with her. All she has to do is give them the green light. A guy has to try much hard whether it is through game, dating her until she lets him etc. etc.

  • L-Boogie

    No, will not do it. It is trifling when both sexes do it.

    • JustAshley

      Thank you! Agreed!

  • TG, IL

    yes it can be done…especially when you have been hurt by men numerous of times. guess that is why my BFF says that I think like a man because I will get what I want from them and then disconnect myself real quick :) Thank goodness Im done with that stage in my life now waiting for Mr. Right to come along :-)

  • Why even bother

    The day I can do that would be the happiest day of my life… I am so sick of men doing the hit and run leaving me in the dust.

    And then after I do it, destroy his entire ego. But he's a man… there is no such thing.

    Men are stupid and shallow.

    • Prissy

      PREACH sister. I agree with everything that you have said.