Pop Mom: Ashley Graham, Sports Illustrated’s First Plus Size Cover Model, Hates the Plus Size Label. Is She Right?
This year’s Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issue is hitting newsstands this week and while I could normally care less, this time I have something to cheer about. Ashley Graham, one of my favorite Plus Size models, is on the cover. It’s exciting because Sports Illustrated models are known for starving themselves months in advance of a SI shoot. That Ashley could make the cover by being her size 16 self is inspiring to women like me who struggle with weight and unnatural beauty standards. Go Ashley!
I’m reading an interview with her in People magazine because I can’t wait to hear how she feels about the iconic cover, and she says something that surprises me.
“I hate a label. I just want to be recognized as a model. Yes, I got curves. Yes, I got things that I like to flaunt and talk about and be called curvy, sexilicious, but at the end of the day I don’t want a label,” she tells People.
Really? She hates the label? I mean, if I were to have some size to me and I looked like Ashley I don’t think I’d mind being called plus. Call me whatever you want cuz I’m making my money. And honestly, as gorgeous as I think she is, I love her because she’s plus. If she were a size zero she’d be like everyone else.
But at the same time, I get that she doesn’t want to be labelled the ‘big girl’ model she’d rather just be the model. She probably works out just as hard, if not harder, as anyone else so why separate her? It reminds me of a conversation I had with a white person who once said that Denzel Washington was a great actor and role model for Black people. Hunh? Why couldn’t he be a great actor and role model for everyone?
Sometimes labels do put us in a box.
I think about my six-year-old daughter and how much I emphasize labels, especially when it comes to color. She’s brown with a short Afro so I make a point to single out beauties who look like her. Lupita Nyong’o, Maybelline’s newest spokesmodel, and even the woman who works the cash register at our local grocery store gets praise. “Look at how gorgeous she is!” I exclaim.
My hope is that I’m building her self-esteem. All one has to do is read of how Brazil’s first visibly Black Carnival Queen was stripped of her title for being too dark. Colorism is alive and well.
But am I laying it on too thick? Am I actually giving my daughter a complex by speaking in terms of color so often, even if it’s pro-color? Did Ashley Graham’s mother point to plus size girls when she was growing up, and say, “Look at that gorgeous size 16! Give her a magazine cover!?”