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When I was in a toxic relationship years back, I heard a very helpful phrase from a good friend. I was telling her that my boyfriend at the time was depressed a lot, that he wasn’t very optimistic about the future, and I couldn’t help but find myself attracted to other guys—happier guys, ambitious guys, funny guys. She said, “Water seeks its own level.” She said that I was more up-lifted and uplifting than my boyfriend, and so I couldn’t help but be attracted to people who were the same way. Self-love and positivity are like a tide that draw in people of a similar mindset. So, if you’re looking to land in water of “your own level” (i.e. trying to find a happy, self-loving man) you need to love yourself, too. Here is how a man can tell that you’ve got plenty of self-love.

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