It happens all the time: you meet a guy and right away you’re kind of sure he’s something special. You think about him at work, after work, on the ride home — pretty much all the time. But you haven’t actually spent any time with him.
And that’s not always a good thing. Before you let a guy monopolize your thoughts, it’s better to make sure he’s worth it first.
When you build a guy up in your mind, it can stop you from seeing the real him. Sometimes it’s better to put a new guy on the back burner until his actions prove that he’s worthy. A little skepticism can go a long way toward protecting your heart before you’re too invested (or texting him back to back).
Sound easier said than actually done? Here’s how not to obsess over a new guy until he proves he’s worth it.