Tammi McCreary: “Who The (Bleep) Did I Marry?”

What do you want other women to learn from your story?

Wow. It’s so much. It’s so much that you learn from the story. Initially it really used to hurt my feelings, when I used to read the comments that people had about the story. People thought, “She was desperate and she thought she had a doctor.” I mean I had a decent life before him. It’s just not what people thought. People look at it and think, “You should have known he wasn’t this and you should have known he wasn’t that. How could you be so stupid?” It just really used to bother me but it doesn’t now because everybody has their point of weakness. Nobody is fool-proof. Maybe you wouldn’t have fallen for this but maybe you would have fallen for something else. I guess my opinion is to, when you meet someone, just take your time, really, really research the person and their background. If you’re not able to find anything, if you’re not able to find any information, then that’s a red flag. Don’t be in a hurry, Check things out and go with your gut. Because I did have a gut feeling, which is why I started trying to prolong everything. But I didn’t have anything to confirm the feeling so I just moved forward.

Tammi’s full story will air on Investigation Discovery’s series, Who the (Bleep) Did I Marry? on Wednesday, July 13th at 10 pm (EST)