Fat and Black: The Issue is Not that Complicated

June 28th, 2011 - By LaShaun Williams

 

 

Toccarra Jones is an example of a woman who is thick and fit.

Black culture is one that appreciates full-figured, voluptuous women, also identified as thick. Not to be misconstrued with being overweight or obese, thick is curvy and at least somewhat fit. A thick woman may have a muscular build that leaves her BMI (body mass index) on the cusp of overweight but nowhere near fat or obese.  Big black women are notorious for denying the applicability of the BMI chart and attributing their weight to racial predisposition.

We have to get our minds right. Unless you’re some sort of bodybuilder, five foot four and 150 pounds is too heavy. Even more so than the number, we have to take into account how we look and feel (in respect to how quickly you become short of breath) and stop making excuses for what’s in the mirror. The longer you remain in denial, the fatter you will get and that can lead to a multitude of other things like depression and diabetes. Acceptance comes before change.

While diet and nutrition are very important in terms of losing and maintaining weight, improvement rather than strict regulations should be the focus. Fried chicken, collards, cornbread and macaroni and cheese are perfectly O.K. You just can’t eat like that every day. Balance and moderation are the keys and, as long as you are active, you can eat foods you like.

Activity is the main ingredient in healthy physical being. In spite of being a former college athlete, I’m not fond of distance running or working out. After 15 years of year-round competition I prefer not to sweat my hair out, either. But, health is far too important to be hindered by the superficial. You have to find what works for you and create a system.

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  • Alexandrew Hintzen

    Hit it right on the nose. Denial, inactivity and poor eating. Lets do better.

  • Penelope J

    Muscle does not weight more than fat.  The density of the two is what’s different, but a 150 lb muscular women and 150 lb not-muscular woman can weigh the same and look completely different.  Muscle does NOT weigh more than fat.

  • http://Www.SeanShuemate.com Sean Shuemate

    I run a personal training & motivational company called Shue Fit & Conditioning, and my wife & I cater to plus-sized women. What I hv to say on this subject could fill textbooks. I wrote a book called, “Size 3?! Not for Me!” How to Love Your Body & Yourself – Unconditionally. It’s a best-seller. We were just featured on Fox 5 – KVVU television because of our unique motto – “Its not about getting skinny, it’s about being healthy!” you can read more on my website www. SeanShuemate . Com

  • Diva23

    I can’t front for us big girls and say oh I’m happy being big. I felt left crap going out w/ my sorors and being the big girl…I'm only 25. I feel so much better now that I’ve dropped only 20lbs. I was never considered an ugly female. Just big. And even then people were shocked that I was pushing 287lbs. Thank God for proportions. Anyway, my point is you gotta take care of you. Figure out what your issues are and work on them girlfriend. Because in the end this is the ONLY body you have…

  • Diva34

    I am going to have to say that it first begins with wanting to be healthier. We as black women have to stop and think about what we are putting into our bodies. My weakness used to be ox tails… Now I don’t even eat beef or pork. Then you have to deal with the mental aspect. I'm from AL and I went to another city to work for about a month and a half. While I was there I was able to drop 15 pounds. I won't say it was effortlessly, but I made time to work out every day and I paid attention to what I was eating. I got rest and I didn’t have all those distractions that I had at home. Once I got home I realized that all the issues that I'd left behind were still there and I also noticed that my eating habits were being dictated by those around me and my need to feel satisfied. It hurt me bad when I realized that most of the time I was eating when I got anxious or irritated. Food was my supplement. I thought, “Oh dear God, what have I let happen to myself.” However, after I recognized it I was able to change it.

  • Shariese Hurd

    Some of us need to lose weight or atleast be more active and eat better. I have diabetes and I lose weight to get out of taking the medicine. Do it for your health. This isn't about getting a man it is about being healthy. I see black men with some of the obese white women quite a few.

  • gennie

    thank you for addressing the author's harmful comment about being 5'4/150 as being heavy.
    I am very fit, I work out faithfully, I am a healthy eater and I am 5'2/148lb. I wear size Small , 4-6 (and not just old navy small, LOL, bcz they are generously cut)
    I have always been surprisingly "heavier" than how people perceive me. I have been told I have a muscular, athletic, gymnast's build.
    I have been called everything but FAT, overweight, etc.

    I fault the author for not realizing or clarifying that muscle is dense and weighs more than flab will any day.
    My body is powerful. I'd rather be strong than wispy and weak any day.
    And BTW, I am approached and complimented on my beauty by men from all races, not just Latino or Black.