Things Men Say That Women Often Misinterpret
What you think vs. what he means
You think he’s, in a tricky way, hoping you’ll say, “Okay, obviously you don’t want to come so you don’t have to.” He is actually trying to say, “It’s important to me to do things for you that are important to you.” He’s saying he will come, because you have said you want him there. He is telling you your needs are important, regardless of whether or not he “wants” to fulfill them.