You could probably be married by now.
Engaged…
Or have a boyfriend.
Instead, you are complaining about no-good men, working your life away and nursing an affinity for self-pleasure.
Why?
Feminism.
Correction: misguided feminism.
Professionally, feminism has done wonders creating opportunities for women to flourish in the workplace. Many of us are entrepreneurs or climbing the ranks at a Fortune 500 company, inching closer to equal pay. Socially, we have gained complete control over our bodies. Thanks to birth control, sex doesn’t guarantee nine months standing barefoot and pregnant. We have the option of planning for motherhood and limiting family size.
Though it has been a source for economic trajectory and independence, feminism has also taken a toll on our love lives. A surge of scorned baby-mamas, bitter divorcées and those plagued by daddy-issues propagate singlism and wear their “mule” title as a badge of honor.
Much of the abrasiveness, attitude and other testosterone-driven antics that run good men away are products of feminism gone wrong. And, it is to blame for many of the single, black female’s woes. Here’s how:
