White Girls & The N-Word?

June 9th, 2011 - By LaShaun Williams

Just in case you missed the memo, use of the n-word was recently approved for white girls. Well, at least in the Bay Area.

Kreayshawn, a white female rapper from Oakland, California, has taken the Internet by storm with her catchy anti-consumerist anthem “Gucci, Gucci.” The self-proclaimed swag assassin and her crew (Lil’ Debbie and V Nasty) known as the White Girl Mob have launched a “movement” of sorts. Hailing from the hard, impoverished streets of East Oakland, they exude and speak all of the ratchetness mainstream hip-hop has become—bitches, n*ggas, blunts and other destructive ways of dealing with crappy childhoods and depression. I would be lying if I said these girls didn’t have the swag they claim, decent flows and infectious style. For artistry, they get the nod; for thinking they have been cleared to say N-Word n*gga, well…There lies the problem.

Who gave the thumbs up for white girls to openly say the n-word?

In a recent interview with Complex magazine, Kreayshawn cleared the air about her use of the n-word:

“I don’t use [the n-word] at all. It’s not in my vocabulary, especially not my everyday vocabulary. I’ll say it if I’m quoting or I’ll say it if I’m making fun of somebody else who is saying it. But Vanessa [a.k.a. V-Nasty] was raised different. She’s done a lot of stuff, you know?

She went on to note:

“It’s different out here in the Bay Area. A Mexican will call an Asian person that. An Asian person will call a black person that. A black person will call a white person that and a white person will call him that back and it’s all good. You don’t think twice. It’s just another form of slang out here. People will say it, just like people will say “blood” and “cuz” in the same sentence out here.”

“If you go anywhere else it’s a racial thing, because of that I don’t use it. I was on Twitter the other day and I said it quoting DMX. I even said it in the Tweet, ‘DMX voice.’ But since that ‘Gucci Gucci’ video there were bloggers picking it up and writing about it. That’s something that I don’t want to get all misconstrued.

“I told Vanessa, ‘If we’re going to be in the public eye all the time, you either need to know what you’re going to say when people ask you that or make it sound smart. Instead of just being like ‘Yeah, everybody call me that. I don’t give a f***.’’ But I’m pretty sure Vanessa’s not going to bite her tongue for anybody.

It’s not just the Bay Area. American slums and suburbs across the country are home to Eminettes. Everyday White girls grow more comfortable with their perceived proximity to blackness. But, I don’t blame V-Nasty and friends. White women are only drinking the Kool-Aid we gave to them.

Black women and men who have given passes to their “down,” token white friends are the reason these girls show no reverence. They “act Black” so you let them quote bars verbatim and playfully poke fun in conversations as if being poor and ignorant is a means of entry. Black doesn’t mean poor; it doesn’t mean ghetto; it doesn’t mean reckless.

N-Word (and all varieties of the term) will always embody the essence of defamation, racism and sub-humanization. It is a word that personifies the abuse on which this nation was built; from a white mouth, it almost instantly elicits division. It is the tortured corpse of Emmett Till; it is the incineration of four little girls; it is the assassination of Martin Luther King, Jr.; it is Republicans demanding President Obama’s birth certificate. Door-knocker earrings, tattoos and a shared love for rap music do not change that.

Whether or not Black people should use the term amongst themselves is questionable, so for anyone else it should not be considered an option. Yes, we are all humans but race separates our experiences. At the end of the day V-Nasty and girls like her are still White in America.

History is to be remembered in order to create a better future. Erasing racism doesn’t begin with widespread use of a word that defines so much of it.

White girls want to rap? Cool. Permission to use the N-word? Not.

LaShaun Williams is a lifestyle and relationship columnist, blogger and social critic. Her work has been featured on popular urban sites, such as The Grio and AOL Black Voices. She has made appearances on the Tom Joyner Morning Show and Santita Jackson Show. Williams is also the founder of Politically Unapologetic, a blog where she unabashedly discusses culture, life and love. Follow @itsmelashaun on Twitter, Tumblr or Facebook.

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  • MixedandProud

    By saying white people can't use it, you're being racist. It should either be something no one can say (no matter what the race), or anyone should be able to say it. Because race shouldn't matter.
    A bad word is a bad word, PERIOD.

    If white people are called "white trash" by blacks, then should no one else be able to say it but white people? NO. And by blacks saying it to each other, you make it okay for others to say it.

    That's why black people are so rude in the ghetto, they are taught that they can call each other whatever they want, but if someone of another race says or treats them the same, they pop off.

    Now quit whining and either make it a taboo or don't.
    And yes I'm half black half white.

  • Anonymous

    I only say the "N" word to my brother, and a friend, which is still vary rare. I wouldn't dare say it to anyone in public, and if I did, I would slap myself for it. It's just not nice.

  • BrownMan

    I say it all the time, but I never let a brother hear it. I think so much fun to say it. I've seen white girls say it too.. in a fun way, but they are smart enough not to say it in public or let black people know they said it.

  • Stacy

    It's either okay to say the n-word, or it isn't. Unless you are a racist yourself, the race of the person speaking it doesn't change the offensiveness of it. I'm really surprised to see so many people here unabashedly separate out blacks from non-blacks and assign different behaviors as okay.

  • Bill

    I love how all the blacks act all tough about the "N-word" online but if they came to my area and were called the "N-word" they'd be scared for their lives and rightfully so.

    I'm not saying this to threaten folks, but sometimes someone has to bring a little reality into the conversation. White folks using this word in Detroit or Memphis are likely to get a beat down…white folks in some backwoods town in Mississippi or Alabama using that word are about to give a beat down.

    I think this article is just pure garbage. If a white chick is dropping N words, she probably is a no good coal burner anyways.

  • John66

    I'm white, male, age 66, retired military (Navy.) This is my OPINION: I heard the N-word all of my boyhood. It was commonly used (by whites) in the Navy until about the 1970s when everybody was required to undergo race relations and inter-cultural training. The term started to disappear among whites, mainly because it could get you discharged or thrown in the brig on bread and water. Our instructor said, "We know that this course won't change your personal attitudes, but we're damn sure going to change your BEHAVIOR…or else!" So I can say I was alive to see the n-word's slow death, at least in my little world. Black guys still used it with each other, but not to the extent is is used now, and as a senior enlisted man I knew the difference between two black guys joking around with each other, and two white guys talking about some black officer or chief. I would personally think nothing about the former, but would come down hard on whites using against a black shipmate. Things did change…again, in my opinion. But there has been a huge increase in the word's usage in the last decade. I'm kind of proud to say that I was able to throw a handful of soil on the n-word's coffin, but I'm I feel like crying because, like a vampire, the n-word has risen from the dead, is in use by everybody (it seems,) and I see no signs of anybody trying to kill it again. What a shame.

  • wanderwonder

    The N-word is used openly in rap music. My generation despises the word, but for the youth it's rapidly losing the harsh negative connotations. Seriously, if rappers use it openly, it's out there for everyone, and it will become mainstream before we know it. If you don't want it out there, it can't be okay for anyone, regardless of race. But if we use it in our culture, it's fair game for anyone else and hypocritical double standard to say otherwise. Honestly it's racist to say we can use it but whites and hispanics can't use it the same way we do. It's fine to say it can't be used to demonize blacks, but if it's a term of endearment, a casual greeting, a friendly banter, it's just silly to say white girls can't use it just the same way.

  • Denis

    I was with you on this article until you included 'Republicans asking for Obama's birth certificate". Questioning Obama's qualification to be president of the US is not racist and should not be the concern of Republicans only. Obama should not be excluded from criticism just because he is black. I'm tired of any questioning or criticism being thrown his way being classified as racism. I would never, nor would or have most people, claim that a black person questioning former President Bush's qualifications as racism.

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