If you’re a fan of the show Being Mary Jane and you caught the past couple of episodes, you know that MJ has a cut buddy…aka, friend with benefits. While she’s trying to get over the love her life who is having a baby with another woman – and entertaining the advances of a hot, accomplished older man – she’s getting broke off properly by an NFL player who may or may not be catching feelings for her. In the last episode, he seemed a bit caught off guard when she told him she wanted to chill on the booty call activities in order to pursue a relationship with someone else. While it’s not considered common for the man to catch feelings in a jumpoff situation, it can and does happen. If you’re in a friends with benefits situation and you’re not sure if your man friend is catching feelings, look out for these signs to see if you should cool things off a bit…or take it to the next level.