When I Reminisce About You – 10 Things It’s Okay To Miss About Your Ex

While perusing my Facebook feed, a friend posted that he was about to meet an ex for lunch and that he had “butterflies in his stomach.” He wondered if this was normal when thinking about an ex. Most people commented that he probably still has feelings for her, or missed her in some way and didn’t realize it until that moment. Fast forward two days later and I literally bumped into an ex of mine from college while racing through Grand Central Station. Both of us in a rush he says, “Facebook me and let me know if you’re free for lunch. We can catch up!” I said okay and ran off, not really giving it much more thought. While I have plenty of exes that I would say I’m friendly with, there isn’t one that I’d consider giving another chance or who I felt was the one “who got away.” Once it’s over for me, it’s done – but that doesn’t mean there still aren’t some great memories to linger over every once in a while. Not all breakups have to be mean or bitter, and there’s nothing wrong with missing a few aspects of an old relationship…even if you don’t miss the PERSON. Here are ten things that I find are perfectly okay to miss about your ex (relationship) even if you’d rather pull your fingernails out one by one than get back with him.