Exclusive VIDEO Interview: Chilli Opens Up About Her Quest for Love

March 22nd, 2011 - By madamenoire

Chilli, mostly known as one-third of the r & b group TLC, sat down with Madame Noire to talk about her search for love on her reality show “What Chilli Wants.”  The pint-sized beauty opened up about everything from her relationship with Tionna Smalls, her feelings for Floyd Mayweather and why she has not cut down her “list.”

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  • Usher/ChilliFan

    We love Chilli. OMG she is so beautiful. Chilli is taking a stand for all women with morals. Its great she has her standards set because once she change that, she will end up with a guy who is hopeless. If Chilli would of came out with this list years ago, I would of never changed my standards to please people and not myself. Chilli is doing the wright thing and I support her 100%. All women need to join her and stop hating on her because she is for all women of all race. Young girls needs to shut up and listen because she's educating you about loving yourself and not settling for anything. People, Chilli is not old and dried up. She look very young. She is a classy, beautiful African American Queen.

  • TINA

    I LOVE U MISS ROZANA. MAY GOD BLESSES YOU DARLING.

  • PlayWithAPassport

    This is why brothas are going outside the USA where women know how to treat a man.

  • G-Manisfesto

    Honey on the left is much finer :)

  • madamesiamese

    40 isn't old at all. I have seen many women in their 40's who look better than many f these younger women who look twice their age. It's always funny to me when people are accused of being too picky, yet when they pick some loser t be with, they get criticized for having no self-esteem in thinking they can't do any better. I have seen some women marry beneath them and they end up divorced because the man can't handle the woman's advanced education and successful career. They are either jealous and not supportive or they are leeching off of the woman getting everything they can out of her and playing on her insecurities. Since when does having high standards mean that a woman wants to much.

  • ARCELIA

    FACE IT…CHILLI IS BROKE, USHER AIN'T IN THE PICTURE NO MORE.
    HE WAS HER CASH COW AND SINCE DUDE STEPPED OFF HER GOLD DIGGIN EYES
    LOOKED TOWARD MAYWEATHER BUT, MAYWEATHER IS TO FLAMBOYANT AND
    SELFISH…HE DON'T HAVE TIME FOR SOME LOW SELFESTEEM CHICK LOOKING TO
    BE TAKEN CARE OF…PLUS SHE HAS A SON TO TAKE CARE OF AND FLOYED ALREADY GOT HIS
    OWN KIDS AND BABY MOMMAS TO TAKE CARE OF,

    VH-1 IS NOTHING BUT THE WELFARE OFFICE FOR
    WASHED UP ENTERTAINERS WHO CAN'T GET A GIG!

    CHILLI WOULD SPREAD HER LEGS TO ANY DUDE
    WHO'S WILLING TO THROW SOME CASH HER WAY.

    YA DIG!

  • Me

    She was too funny…. she was picky when it came to black, but, fell for the white boys, despite their many flaws… Don’t get me wrong, I could care less who a person marries, but, the girl seems like she secretly hates being black…

    Money will get her a white guy… but, the show should be canceled!!!!

    • Emily

      I had a problem with her double standards also, there are many people in the black community who think like Chili, they would date a non-black person who had little to non of the characteristics they want in a mate, but a black person has to have all or the majority of the things on their list for them to date them.

  • wtf!

    All this nonsense about black women exploring their options (Get a white man!) is pure fantasy. What options? White men want white women. Or Asian women. They don't want black women! Period! The few exceptions prove nothing. Less than 1 percent of white men pick a black wife.

    • Jasmine

      You are looking at bw-nbm statistics that are in america, There are more white men and other non-black men who live outside America that are married to black women than white men in America. Why do people always assume when bw want to explore their options it means to get with a wm, well fyi not all black women who explore their options want wm there are multiracial,biracial, Middle Eastern, Latino, Asian, Non-American black, etc men out there for black women who choose to explore their options with. The world is not just black and white.

  • miamac

    Hmmm, why didn't she discuss her rendevous with El Debarge? His known history seems to contradict that strict list of hers. Now that would have been a revelation.

  • http://nu-authority.com Corey Awesum

    Great Interview with Chilli. We featured an article on her and the show at nu-authority.com. She is such a powerful women and more examples of her is need in such a crazy generation!

  • CkVirgo

    The problem with being hungry is that anything will taste good. Chili is on point. The reason why most of you women are with trifling, horrible men is because you settle. Have some dignity for heavens sake and some requirements. Don't make it where any man can have you.

  • hailey

    I don't really know what she is looking for. I hope she finds it.

  • LOL

    She’s an average looking woman who’s extrememly picky so of course she’s single. She’s very delusional and she can’t even live up to half of the things she’s looking for in a man anyways.

    • seek2027

      Well said

  • CCC

    she is way too picky. The ups guy is too average for her. The regular 9 to 5 guy is not good enough. She doesn't seem willing to settle or compromise on any level. So she is looking for another Usher or Dallas Austin. This is the main reason she is SINGLE and will remain so. If a man does live up to her standards she may not meet his. Relationships take compromise. Its not just a list of things you demand and must have. No one is perfect and she is searching for this cookie cutter guy ( who has abs, doesn't eat pork, has tons of money, no kids, blah blah ). Good luck to her but I see her being single for a long time until she changes some of her criteria.

  • Diamonds

    Great Interview!! She's Beautiful, Talented, Funny and very down Earth I love her way of thinking and how the lessons she learned in realtionships brought her to this place of not SETTLING!!. WOW at some of the commets it shows how u will settle for anybody in your lives just to have somone to validate you. NOw .that's living Miserable.You should want someone in your life who's going to give you there best especially if your giving yours. She can he picky if she wants its her HEART..When the right man comes along like she said she would submit to him according to the way he follows GOD..I think that's great most women should want a man relationship with GOD is the strongest first because that covers alot of ground for his MORALS as a person. Her list was basically combined with her wants and needs.. More people like the above comments are focus on her wants which is why they give her flack..

  • Lisa

    She wants another show so she can make some more money. You know VH1 is paying her a lot of money to pretend to look for some man.

    • ccc

      lol true this is the reason she wont pick anyone !!!

    • seek2027

      Thank you for saying that its the truth

  • Mia

    Are you guys serious? Dating shows are scripted and the people aren't looking for love. It's just for entertainment.

  • rene

    Chilli looks great. Believe you me there are a lot of us females who feels like she does. I am glad she didn't give in to that one guy wit the long hair. His true colors really came out when she would not give in to his sexual advances. Good looking out Chilli, and please ignore these player haters. You are pleasing God not human console. Keep up the good work of not letting people intimidate you.

  • rene

    Really Really NOT! Shame on you.

    • seek2027

      Whatever she is really irrelevant its the truth

  • menissance

    they just need to give this b1tch some cats and let her old dried up a$$ wither away…and to the ladies, about her "BE OPEN" advice, she wasn't talking about ur legs lmao

    • rene

      Stop Talking!