Take Notes: Real-Life Boyfriends Reveal What Makes A Good Boyfriend

August 1, 2014  |  

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By , From YourTango 

What does it take to be a stellar boyfriend? Every relationship is different, but there are a few staple traits that will make you stand out as a great partner.

But instead of getting another study to tell you how to be a better in a relationship, we decided to collect some advice from — you guessed it — the best boyfriends ever. Get ready to take notes, fellas.

 1. Have Patience

“It takes patience to be a “great boyfriend,” patience within yourself to teach your partner new things and patience to learn. Also keep in mind never to use our experiences with past relationships to base our current ones. We can use those memories to grow and mature, but never compare the current lover to someone from the past. All human beings are different entities.” — Sean M.


2. Show Interest
“It always helps to be conscious of how your partner is feeling, and ask questions about a person’s day, show interest. Another thing is just about constant, open two-way communication.” — Sam G.


 3. Take Note Of The Little Things And Use Them Later

“I try to listen to what she is saying and then really remember one or two things. Maybe something she has really been wanting, or something that I know I could buy her that would make her life easier. In the beginning, I asked what her favorite flower is and make a note of it in my phone, this way when it comes time for me to get her some, I know exactly what it is without having to fish around.”— Paul D.


4. Put Her First
“I believe being a good boyfriend is something only a few men can understand. It’s putting somebody else’s life ahead of yours because you want to, not because you have to.” — Justin H.

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