Ask A Very Smart Brotha: How Do I Get Him To Deposit His Check Into My Account?

July 30, 2014 ‐ By Raven Carter


Joanswach: Can you have a relationship where you have never met your partner but you chat all day long?

DY: You have to meet eventually. Unless, of course, you want one of those relationships like in the movie “Her.”

Joanswach: What if we are not in tie same country?

DY: Then, you have to make plans to eventually be in the same country, or go your separate ways.

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  • Tyrone

    You lazy h0es need to get a job at McDonalds and stop asking men for money. Nobody gonna deposit their check into a b!!tch’s bank account.

    • Lost Soul

      The woman was saying that her husband was irresponsible with money. She wanted him to deposit the money into her account, then give him an allowance.

      • Tyrone

        You don’t give a grown man an allowance especially if he working his own money!! Some of these “women” (using that loosely) refuse to work but yet want their name added to a man’s credit card.

      • Val

        Well, why she was marrying someone who wasn’t responsible with money in the first place? #sideeye

    • Live_in_LDN

      Learn to read. Whilst I disagree with the woman’s standpoint, nothing in her query suggested she didn’t have a job. Quite the opposite.

  • The international catfish and stupid girl were bad enough,but O-o at “how do i get MY HUSBAND to put his check in my bank account was the kicker, what???

  • NOPe

    “Also, being “good” doesn’t get people in relationships. It’s definitely good to be good. But, for someone to want to be with you, you have to bring something other than being “good” to the table.”

    Exactly, which very few people seem to be able to articulate.

    • Live_in_LDN

      Exactly. You can be the nicest, ‘good’ person on earth but If there’s no chemistry, there’s no chemistry…

  • FromUR2UB

    The one Darlene is talking about sounds like he just wanted to prove to himself that he could get her back, but he doesn’t really want her. A lot of guys’ egos just won’t let them accept a woman walking away from them. They’ll do everything to get her back, but won’t do everything to keep her. So, you end up walking away again, unless he walks away just to get even.

  • Kylie

    Ha, I gave the title a side eye, but I see now. And Idk why, but I kind of like the idea of just talking to the person and never actually meeting.

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