Like romantic relationships, it bothers me when people demand behavior from others that they don’t even exhibit themselves. In a world where we’re quick to call “friend” anyone who likes more than two of our Facebook posts, I’m convinced that most of us wouldn’t recognize a friend if it were Courtney Cox or Jennifer Aniston starring in a 90’s sitcom. Worst yet, we spend so much time trying to figure out who are true friends are, that we don’t take time to see if we’re being one ourselves.
Friendship isn’t about sharing outdated memories on-line when Facebook reminds you it’s your old roommate’s birthday. It’s about truly caring about the well-being of someone DNA says you’re technically not obligated to. Here are 11 signs that you’re playing your part: