“I Refuse To Succumb To My Flesh:” Keke Palmer Talks Sex, Men, And Becoming The Youngest Person To Host A Talk Show

May 1, 2014  |  

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Twenty-year-old Keke Palmer is notably one of the most successful child actresses who transitioned flawlessly into adulthood. With hit television shows and movies under her belt, Palmer will become the youngest talk show host in the history of television, this upcoming summer. With the announcement of her new talk show, The Keke Project , MadameNoire got a chance to catch up with Keke about her latest success. In the midst of our giggles and Keke preaching to the choir, she gave insight on her dating life and how she plans to change television, and, truth be told, she is wiser than many double her age. Jump into our interview to read her sage advice.

How does it feel to become the youngest person in television history to host a talk show?

“It’s unbelievable! When I started the process of the talk show, I did not consider how young I am. It was a dream I was trying to achieve and to get recognition on top of that is the icing on the cake!”

What can you tell us about ‘The Keke Project” and your plans for the show?

“It will be a fun show for my generation, where people can have a place to respect ourselves and our skills: whether it be fashion or getting ready for college. For me personally, I will be dealing with living on my own and not having my parents around. I will also discuss men and the pressure of sex. I want to touch on everything young people go through.”

How do you manage to stay grounded in the entertainment industry?

“I stay close to my family, friends and God. I am extremely close to my parents and I have a great support system. I always make sure I am prayed up. My focus is not on the materialistic things around me. I never wanted to get caught up in the Hollywood stuff because that is not what matters. What matters is my purpose and spreading God’s love around the world.”

What do you think of reality television shows and the backlash they receive?

“I think people need to know the difference between entertainment and reality. People get caught up with the circumstances in shows like Basketball Wives or Teen Mom; people say if young girls watch these shows, they will want to emulate these women. I say no! It is not a television show’s fault if your child wants to behave in a certain manner. This means your child is not being taught the difference between what you should and should not do. My sister watches Teen Mom but she never says,’I want to be a pregnant teen.’ If anything, my sister tells me it is what she does not want to become. People take reality shows too seriously and the are usually not even real. Every thing you watch does not need to become a part of your personal life.”

What can you tell us about abstinence and the dating scene?

“Both men and women pressure each other for sex. We’re young, live your life and enjoy yourself. My thing is, people need to be with those who respect you. At the end of the day, whoever you spend your time with make sure they value you. If you feel over the course of time they are deserving of whatever it is you would like to give them, fine. My twitter rant [about sex] was for myself; I find myself dating guys who I do not talk to anymore because, I assume, we have not had sex. [Sex] is the number one topic in the conversation with these men and I’m like ‘uh no, I do not want to talk about that all the time!’ I do not know why there is so much pressure being built when you are dating someone. It’s like they have a ticking time clock on you. It is not about the time, it is about making sure this is the right person. I always use my Twitter as an outlet. It’s like my therapy. I feel like my talk show will allow me to do the same self-expression. People are going through these same burdens. My priority is not the sex. I refuse to succumb to my flesh. I will not offer myself up to someone who does not know my spirit.”

As a celebrity, how do men approach you?

“They don’t approach me. Sometimes they do but then they will back off because they think it is too much. I am very confident, independent, silly, goofy and sometimes, too nice. I think what happens is I speak my mind so much guys may think, ‘I don’t know about all of that!’ They psyche themselves out a lot of the times because of what I write on my Twitter. But it is really simple, in order to date me, be a gentleman. Be kind, take me out sometime and be sweet. But it seems like that is a lot to ask for these days. Sometimes it is hard to make a real connection. It takes a lot of time to find someone who you truly connect with because there can be people who you really vibe with, but there is no chemistry. You can find a great guy but he may not be a great guy for you!”

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  • sarasefree

    am looking forward to keke show….she is definitely a positive young adult that is not caught up in all this Hollywood nonsense…i with her all the best.

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  • Ms_Sunshine9898

    I thought a few months ago she was living with a boyfriend? Maybe that has given her even more perspective?

    • 9Boots

      I thought that too. I was a bit confused, maybe she wised up.

    • guest

      she was. I was a little confused as well. I guess she thought we forgot.

  • enlightenment

    I love Keke Palmer. You may not like her body of work or movies, but you’ve gotta admit, she’s got an amazing head on her shoulders. She’s a great role model.

  • kiki j

    Very intelligence. I love seeing a young lady who knows what she wants out of life.

  • I totally love Keke, she is so wise and funny. I can’t wait to watch her talk show.

  • 9Boots

    You’re a wise young woman Keke, keep it up and I’m praying for you too.

  • aty

    i wish all the luck with her rules,ave noticed many of this young starlets start like this ;

    ”oh we won’t be trashy nor sell sex”,we have jesus and wat nots then bam,drugs,thongs ,nudity on all levels ,sex songs etc is what they eventually transition too,
    maybe vigilante citizen speaks some truth about the entertainment industry and how some parts of it seeks to destroy the sacredness of love and sex
    i pray you stay prayed up boo

    • hollyw

      One thing that should out for me in the interview is that she didn’t mention any particular rules, but just what her standards were and how she was looking for mutual respect… That’s a big difference.

      People get caught up with the rules, b/c when they’re in the moment, they all of a sudden feel arbitrary. Can’t go wrong with seeking respect and sticking yo your comfort level. I think she’s solid.

  • travie andrews

    What a grounded young lady! So refreshing to not see the typical Holly-hood youngster…Keep up the good work KeKe.

  • Bri

    Great role model!! Congrats to her 🙂

  • Just saying!!

    Holy cow she is just like me…thought process and all. I’m 23 and still got my V card baby and I am NOT ashamed! Unless you prove yourself worthy keep it stepping!

  • Go keke,very good head on her shoulders.

  • Wynter

    Keke is a very positive young lady and a wonderful role model. She spoke the truth and as the other commenters stated, her mama definitely raised her right and I too am impresed. I wish her nothing but the best!

  • Kay

    She has definitely grown up to be a woman so many should strive to be. I’m very impressed.

  • To Me

    Wow! Love Keke Palmer. Her momma certainly raised her right. 🙂

  • Gert

    My daughter loves KeKe, she’s a cutie. Congrats to her and all her accomplishments!