“I Felt Threatened”: Porsha Speaks On Why She Fought Kenya, Her Mugshot, And Reveals That Kordell Hit Her

April 28, 2014  |  

It’s been a minute since we’ve heard from Porsha Williams, right? Even after that big fight between her and Kenya aired on Part I of the reunion last week, she kept mum while her castmates all took sides. But what we didn’t know was that on Friday, in LA, Porsha taped an in-depth conversation with Access Hollywood to talk about everything: that fight, her mugshot, her marriage, and more. It was very interesting. Porsha has a second part of her interview airing tomorrow that will touch more on bullying she dealt with as a child, and how that played into her attack on Kenya, but until then, here the highlights from Part I:

On Her Mugshot:

“I had to turn myself in, so I had time to kind of look nice. Wasn’t the best idea once I got in there. Once I got in there I’m all glammed out, and I was actually in jail. There were actually other prisoners there around me and everything. I was trying to make lemonade out of lemons.”

If The Prisoners Knew Her:

“They actually did. It was men, women– we all were together. They were all yelling my name.”

Alleged Domestic Abuse From Kordell:

“The video [“Flatline”] does touch on domestic violence and some abuse I encountered in my marriage. It’s not exact to what I went through, because, honestly, what I went through was a little bit worse in some instances.”

Billy Bush: “What happened in the marriage?”

Williams: “Abuse. Physical abuse.”

Bush: “Did he hit you?”

Williams: “Yeah. There were several different occasions that this happened. When you’re in an abusive situation, it kind of just builds, and it starts to get worse and worse. And people ask me, why didn’t you tell anybody or call the police or what have you? I just thought that I could make it better. I honestly thought after each situation that I would change this or I would change that, and therefore the outcome wouldn’t be the same. It doesn’t work like that. I’m still realizing now that a lot of what happened, it wasn’t my fault.”

If Kordell Ever Admitted To Violence, And Why She Never Said Anything:

“When we were going through the divorce process, we had to sit in deposition hearing, and he didn’t deny it.

A lot of women who are in situations like I was in, I wanted to make it better. I was praying every day. I was cooking. I was smiling. The outside appearance was as if nothing was happening. Even though you’re being abused, you still love that person, you’re just trying to love them through it. And you’re trying to pray them through it and you’re not realizing that you can’t change a person, they have to change themselves.

I never went to the hospital. I never reported anything. There were [visible injuries], but I’ll tell you the ones that have stuck with me the most is the mental abuse. I had so much pride in being a wife and being a mother and what that meant to me was big. So for me to be told I was lazy, and that I was stupid and that I wasn’t good enough and that nothing I could do was right, that was really, really hard for me…When someone is constantly ridiculing you, I’m always trying to live up to what that person thinks of me, it’s hard.”

Why She Called Kordell A “Queen”:

“I call a lot of people queen, honestly…It wasn’t me calling him necessarily gay. I haven’t spoken out on that and I won’t. To me, that’s his life. If he says he isn’t I guess that’s what he wants you to believe. I’m concerned about Porsha, and being better and growing from what I went through.”

On Her Fight With Kenya:

“I see the wand so I’m sitting there, this is a wand, what is she about to do with that. Then I realize she’s using it as an extension of her arm, so I’m like ok cool as long as she doesn’t bring it over here, I’m fine.. I saw the hate. I saw the anger. I saw all of that in Kenya’s eye that moment. And I felt threatened, honestly I did, it was a weapon.

It was so emotional. And when I hit that floor and I started screaming and NeNe was covering my mouth and Phaedra was standing there, it was like sisters. This show is difficult for all of us. They come at me, I come at them, we come at each other. But at the end of the day, we can all pick up the phone and call each other and say, ‘How do you feel today? I know today’s taping was rough.’ Kenya doesn’t have that type of relationship with any of us. So when they saw me on the floor, they knew what I had taken from her, and the bullying she had put me through for two years straight while I was married. Once I got through my divorce, here I am, I’m in the studio, I’ve done my “Flatline” song, I’m feeling successful for once on my own, and here I am sitting on the couch strong, and here she is wanting to tear me down. And so I’m on the floor, and I felt like my sisters were around me. They wanted to make sure I was okay at that moment. And for me, I will never ever forget that. Ever. I don’t care where this show goes for me, I’ll never forget those women for being there for me.

I think they’re backing me, but I’d like to take me out of it. Because I stand for a bigger purpose. It’s not about Porsha. Because I don’t even feel like people have gotten to know Porsha. I think people are standing up for bullying. People are standing up for someone who doesn’t show another human respect.”

Interesting enough, Access Hollywood reached out to Kordell Stewart about the abuse allegations, and he responded, saying:

“It’s not true. I’ve never abused her. Never put my hands on her. Never.”

Check out the clips from both chats and share your thoughts below.



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    Porsha, you are coming off “thirsty” for pity and attention. Your blatant lack and refusal to admit that you played a role in that brawl that took place at the reunion, shows your tru character. Since your divorce, Kordell has shown dignity and respect. If he abused you during your marriage, why didn’t you seek help? Oh I know, you wanted to stay in that big beautiful house, buy weaves/eyelashes and go shopping. I was not there living with you and Kordell, but I find your story unlikely. You and Kenya were both agitating each other. Stop using bullying and domestic abuse as means to make money and keep you relevant, oh and to buy more weaves and eyelashes.

  • DoinMe

    I have always said that Porsha was an abused woman. She has all of the signs.

  • fj

    it’s obvious that Porsha is one big fake liar,just as fake as the hair on her head and big white horse teeth in her mouth.Kordell didn’t hit her and she should be ashamed of herself for lieing on him.

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  • Pamela Sanders

    First of all we will never get the skinny on what happened in Porsha’s marriage or the couple’s next door. We aren’t there, its not us, and its not any of our business. I’m not even going to speculate what could be true and what wasn’t. However, I will say this. Porsha needs sue for Aggravated Assault slander, and defamation of character.She needs to clear her name. Porsha said that she was called stupid, etc., that explains why she snapped after being called a dumb ho on the show. People have stated they would drop the charges if they received an apology. Porsha has nothing to apologize for. Regardless of what happens on the show, she’ll always have an open forum to showcase her talent. If you got on one show without anyone knowing there was a Porsha Williams Stewart then she can definitely get on another one now that everyone knows about Porsha Williams. I wish her nothing but blessings and success she has a big future ahead of her.

  • M.L.

    If it happened, then I feel bad for her. That is a terrible thing to go through. I’m sure she did the interview to shed herself in a better light and to keep attention on herself since she has that single coming out, but I believe her 15 minutes is nearly up. I think she’ll end up fired and disappearing from the limelight.

  • Coya

    Everytime she talks something new comes out. #GirlBye

  • Rob Nero

    Boo. In the way that means, disdain, And not in the cute way they use it (which is dumb also btw pls stop) I wish there was a way that bad and ridiculous behavior of others, does NOT give them ” fame SHAME”, but the shame that leads to behavior correction. Instead, when asked to explain themselves, it becomes a show to which they end up with more fame, more money and the public pays and congrats them with “gotta give it to em…at least they are gettin’ their name out there…” NO! IT IS JUST DUMB PEOPLE DOING DUMB THINGS CONTRIBUTING TO THE DUMBING OF OR SOCIETY…no wonder other cultures progress faster than we, they are creating, evolving, progressing, while we have grown woman fighting for tv and teenagers inhaling cinnamon

  • SweetRitaB

    The comments on this thread are why survivors tend not to speak out and hold things in about the abuse for so long. I hope you all never have to go through that feeling.

    • LAYLA

      She may very well have been abused but don’t going around being violent towards other people. She’s a walking contradiction.

  • Pretty, but dumb.

  • Zhana

    I dont trust this chick number 1 and number two I wish people would stop calling it a fight because all she did was drag her, she had enough time to throw a punch. Kenya knew exactly what she was doing. She wanted to push her too that level so Porsha could kick herself off the show.

  • Full Black Woman

    When I heard Kordell locked her out of her house..I wanted to believe that it was for security reasons…The house is large and lovely and it should be considered a possible target for burglars. However, later when Porsha said she was greeted by a man at the door telling her she was not allowed in, I was like…so you have enough money for security but can’t let in your wife… okay…

    Unscripted lives usually look bad because you are not thinking about “how it will look” to others when you open your mouth. This is what contributes to Nene and Porsha’s negative image. Most of us who sit here and judge do so while they forget or really don’t know about the people in their life who edit them down to their moments of anger or not so brightness.

    If Porsha wasn’t portrayed as stupid (because they could edit that out, let her examine her words, someone in casting could have sat with her to discuss where they were going etc, like the stage manager of Kandi’s play gave her advice) would we be questioning her truth now?

  • Gert

    As soon as she opens her mouth…smh! Sometimes it’s best just to be quiet, I just don’t believe anything that comes out of her mouth…

  • HappyDeye

    I really can’t believe her statements. Why would you CRY to stay married to someone who alledgedly abused you? Why would you BEG to STAY in a marriage where your husband was beating you ?
    He actually filed for divorce and I think that if all she saying was true she would have taken this opportunity to set herself free.
    Is it me or she didn’t really denied calling Kordell gay ?
    She is sweet and all but she is really irrelevant and needs to stop making interviews that are not coherent

  • Yolanda Hinton

    You r no victim to what happens on RHOA u did the aame thing Kenya did…so stop lying tht u felt bullied…u r making excuses for your behavior..own your shit…now u wanna throw in tht Kordell hits u for simpity. ..girl boo

  • sorrell

    I believe she was abused and is coming out. If you can recall, she went to counseling with her ex because mainly he didn’t want her to have a career and a baby. Mostly he didn’t want her to work. He was totally against her coming on Bravo. When she lost that baby he did not give her the support. Even the counselor stated that she knew this marriage would not work. The fact that she had to call him when the girls had a night out on that bus, and remember the girls questioned her and she was hiding the truth. In his own words to Peter, he called her a knuckle head. When you do not report spousal abuse this is what you get – no one will believe you. He may have been physical, I never doubted that too. Kordell tried to controlled Porsha at all cost and when he realized that he was not getting his ways again he filed for divorce. Once she started earning, he realized that she could make her own decisions and stand on her own two legs. Why do you think he locked her out of the house? Treated her like a child. Shame on you Kordell to now deny. The little that we have seen on air said a lot!

  • Tiny 2

    How dare you women get on here and say that Porsha may not have been abused by her husband. You black women got to have the most Jim Crow mental status that I have ever heard of in my life. You can’t even back your black sista after she’s been beaten. I don’t think she is lying because I wasn’t there. I don’t think too many woman would lie about being abused by a man. What is she gaining by lying. She didn’t get money from him when she divorced him. She didn’t ask for a freakin dime. She don’t have a motive at all. I am totally disgusted with my race it’s pathetic. If you’re not killing one another your stabbing each other in the back. If a man beats you and everyone around you didn’t believe it, how would you feel? Domestic Violence is serious! You can call me every name but the child of GOD, I don’t care. You can judge my grammatical errors, I don’t care. I don’t need to be perfect in your eyes in order to reach heaven to be with my GOD. The Jim Crow era is not dead! It’s very much alive!

    • That’s My Story

      I agree!! It blows my mind that so many woman that HAVE NOT experienced domestic abuse want to sit in judgement of someone that says they in fact have been a victim of abuse. Who are they to determine that she is lying about that.?! So what she didn’t report it!!!!! I never reported my abuse either, that didn’t mean it didn’t happen! My ex-husband swore he never laid a hand on me either, and I got very good at dressing up the outter-woman to hide the pain and scars of the inner-woman.

    • Tina

      I have, it don’t have to a physical for you to be harmed, it can be emotional abuse

    • HappyDeye

      I understand your point. It’s just that her story doesn’t make sense. as a woman who was abused, why would she want to stay in this marriage?, she actually begged him when she learned that he had filed for divorce…. Honestly when a man who alledgedly been abusive to you OFFERS you the opportunity to run away…Are you really going to CRY and BEG to stay in the marriage ???

      • belle

        Yes A LOT of abused women would cry and beg to stay in the marriage. The same way kidnapped girls that are raped etc end up loving their abuser. Life is not all black and white!

      • SweetRitaB

        You don’t quite understand the dynamics of domestic abuse. It is so much deeper for many women than, “If he hits me, I will leave. ” You don’t understand how men can hit a woman one second, and then be charming and apologetic the next. DVD is not as cut and dry as most f the women on here are making it seem, which is why survivors have such a hard time speaking out about it. This very that proves that.

  • Tracey Ratchford

    Wow some these comments are disturbing. Ray Charles could see she was abused by Kordell… and any woman that can’t see that must be in the same situation. From Kenya’s first meeting with Porsche she has done nothing but go after her she’s been “shady” to Porsche from word one!!! So in my opinion that’s bullying. And if you don’t see that then you must be a bully too!!!

  • jtrose

    Porcha and Phaedra both have a bad Potty mouth. The both call Kenya all type of H-words. Then when Kenya say it their ready to fight. Porcha is rude and inconsiderate, not allowing Kenya to express her point of view without cutting her off. Then she has the nerve to act like she has done nothing wrong . I am so glad that NeNe finally got kick off DWTS. She should have use them tears at the RHOA Reunion

  • elizzym79 .

    It’s hard to believe anything with Porsha. Her first season on the show she came across as a woman who’s husband catered to her while she spent the money. She didn’t seem to have an issue with him. Once she’s kicked to the curb, she can’t seem to say anything good about him. I didn’t like the fact that she goes to therapy and then starts regurgitating everything the therapist told her as if “she” is revealing something about her relationship.

    He was incredibly controlling, everyone saw that. I think it wasn’t an issue as long as she was a kept person. As far as her being abused, I”m not going to question her truthfulness because I reasonably can’t. I do find it weird that she decides to throw out all these accusations about who he is (implying that he’s gay, etc) after the divorce. If he was that way…why was he the one to leave and not her?

    I think Kenya may have been on to something about Porsha. But again, if Porsha was implying something about his sexuality and stayed….I can’t help but to wonder why she would have done so.

  • EloiseM

    Porsha should not I mean DEFINITELY NOT discuss her marriage, divorce with anyone. It’s over. We saw that she craved to be on television and against his better judgement he consented to go on RHOA with her. Bravo did their very best to edit him to be a monster, Porsha allowed the other women who did not have one tenth of what she had to influence her and she came up on the losing end. So to save face and be on the show she insinuates things about Kordell mimicking Kenya’s treacherous ways. She has the public’s sympathy and admiration now, so she should just keep her marriage out of her mouth and go on. People do not feel sorry for her and her previous marriage because under NOT SO CLOSE SCRUTINY SHE LOOKS LIKE A GOLD DIGGER AND LIAR. Leave it alone. Kordell is not going around maligning her. This will turn out very bad. She should just go on and work in the entertainment industry since that is what she really wants, try to get a mentor to help her speak more intelligently and keep on being America’s Hero since she took the most disgusting female in this twenty first century down on national cable television. Talk about BULLYING not KORDELL. And she shouldn’t let anyone push her into talking about him either.

  • Sylvia Crawford

    Going thru good times or bad times there are just things in a marriage that don’t need to be aired for public viewing. Years down the road will confirm that. If nothing else do not give up all your information from your marriage! This young lady is still a work in progress, because she not only is uneducated as the world saw, she has no idea what it takes to be a newlywed. If she did she would have not been on this show. Also every woman on this show that sat there snickering and laughing when Porsha called Kenya an old lady should have schooled Porsha, and informed her that aging is hard enough on women, and it is not how she should be addressing women who are aging gracefully, in this world because she has the map for the same road trip in the future!

  • mmmdot

    I don’t know how she felt “threatened” when she got up from her seat and said “I will fxck you up” in Kenya’s face but…okay. Anyway, I can definitely believe that Kontroll was using physical abuse to control Porsha…it’s not like he wasn’t using emotional and mental abuse already. He was constantly belittling her and silencing her in FRONT of the cameras. Who knows what he did to her behind closed doors if she didn’t “listen” to him?

  • CAliQueen

    It’s hard to go against any woman who claims physical abuse/violence from a spouse or significant other. However Porsha falls under a different rule in “MY BOOK.” Her accounts of what took place in her marriage hasn’t been credible on the show or off the show. Which is why I stopped reading her interview after these comments” I call a lot of people queen, honestly… It wasn’t me calling him necessarily gay. I haven’t spoken out on that and I won’t. To me, that’s his life. If he says he isn’t I guess that’s what he wants you to believe. Next she will be saying he hit me but he didn’t really hit me. Say what you mean and mean what you say..

  • lisaaatkins

    Porsha has already shown us that she is violent!!! Now, she wants to show us how good she can lie too. She is going around telling this sob story now, because she is in trouble with the law & trying to build her defense. She became angry with Kenya at the reunion & instead of using words or walking away, she attacked Kenya like a wild animal. Porsha is disgusting & I hope she is fired from the show. She will attack anybody, and come up will all kinds of excuses for her behavior, but in reality (no pun intended) her behavior was inexcusable!!!

    • cintron

      she is a sick girl I don’t like her she needs lots of help lie,lie, that what she do .
      she should get fired, she and nene need to leave the show.

  • Sarah

    Porsha, Porsha what are we going to do with you…. Its hard to believe that you were in a relationship where you experienced abuse after the way you were crying when Kordell filed for Divorce! I also recall you denying that Kordell put his hands on you. Stick to one story Porsha !! I can believe that Kordell was controlling but pleaseeee don’t change up your story and say Kordell was abusive when women actually go through worst situations . All the best Porsha ! Once again don’t switch up your story to gain sympathy !

  • arieschic

    There is no truth to her story. I just told my sisters this girl always plays victim. She never owns up to anything. I just can’t deal with this chic. She desperate for fame. Now if kordell puts a gag order on her she will think he was wrong, because that will stop her money flow. She only getting interviews based upon her marriage to him. I am not team Kordell nor Kenya but Porsha needs to stop defamation of character towards the both of them.

    • EloiseM

      She’s getting interviews because she snatched the crap out of Kenya W.Moore. She should leave it THERE and not play into STUPID gain. Stick to what’s important BULLYING.

      • arieschic

        That’s not important Porsha wasn’t bullied to me,she through shade just like everyone else. She came for other people as well,so her excuse about being bullied is irrelevant.

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  • He most definitely laid those paws on her. You can tell from the way he interacted and controlled her on the show. There was a spark of threat one time when they were talking on the basketball court when he said something like “what did I just say?” And the language she used when she was married to him. “He LET me come on this trip.” that’s the language of an abused woman. I’m certainly convinced he molly wopped her a time or two.

    • louvres

      If man said : “my wife let me come to this trip”..he sounds either like a simp or like a loving and respectful husband.
      But the other way around is supposed to be abuse?

      • Let’s not be dense here. “my wife let me come on this trip” is not in it of itself any thing to ring the alarm about but compile that with his treatment of her we SAW on the show and her admission he physically struck her and I would say yes its obvious he waxed that a** on occasion.

  • BabyBlue

    This was a decent interview

  • Tenisha Charmin Cozier

    when asked by the other cast-mates if he ever hit her she said no he shook her roughly couple times and now she is saying this….i can’t anymore with miss Porsha

  • Me

    I’m sorry, but I lost sympathy for this woman, to me all she wants is a pity party. Girl, grow a backbone and move on! Only thing I’m glad she did was whooping Kenya’s behind.

    • joker2joker

      Hair pulling is not a butt whopping. Kenya got right up without a cut or bruise. Hair still looking good and her dress was still looking good.

  • soisaid

    enough of them… damn its been 3 weeks already.. move on to another story

    • mh

      fire all the atlanta house-wives and get all new housewives. those have ran their course. good-by old and bring in the new house-wives.

  • Me

    Porsha is showing clear signs of PTSD. When you’re in an abusive situation like that, you try your best to keep that person happy and off your back. I know that personally to be true. She feels free to speak her mind now that she isn’t bound to him any longer. Abuse is real and I can definitely relate to her actions following the end of that relationship.

    • EloiseM

      If Porsha keeps talking about her marriage she will come off as a STUPID, UNGRATEFUL GOLD DIGGER who is also a vengeful liar. Just saying. Leave well enough ALONE.

    • nesha

      for people who really suffer from PTSD, this ain’t it!!!! So sick of a grown woman who verbally degraded her husband once this were on the outs with him, and she lies saying she calls people queens, since when?? Porscha was just dumb enough to do the dirty work of Nene and Phaedra. Grow up Porscha because a wand and bullhorn didn’t make you come all undone.

  • LaMina

    Well the video was out featuring the physical abuse before the fight with Kenya and in a conversation with Kandi during one of the episodes she alluded to being physically abused. I’m sure someone will release portions of the deposition which highlights or doesn’t highlight abuse. It’s like NeNe said, the weak one is the one you should watch. She had all that built in animosity.

    • Toni Jones

      Well said!!

  • belle

    The interview made me teary eyed. May explain why being called a “dumb ho” through the bull horn was the final straw. I can believe that her husband was abusive… especially mentally – who else would file for divorce from someone in the same house and let them find out through twitter?

  • Christina

    So its everyone elses fault but yours huh? Porsha get it together and take responsibility for your messiness too.

    • Tina

      I’ve seen children get up and walk away. All she had to do is get up and refuse to come back on the set until kenya remove the props.

  • Kells

    Well I said from the beginning she was abuse. Look at how she was scared of him and then not to mention Kenya is a bully and I would have done the same thing as well.

    • lisaaatkins

      Kenya was NOT bullying her!!! Kenya fought back with her words, after Porsha attacked Kenya’s personal life first. Let’s get it right here!!!

  • Kenya was wrong for the bullhorn, & Porsha, you were wrong for saying “her vajayjay was rotten” & calling her a “sl#t from the 90s.” YOU BOTH WERE WRONG!!! If the scepter was already on the floor when you attacked Kenya, how did you feel threatened? As for NeNe calling Kenya out for invading your personal space…. do y’all remember when NeNe got in Dwight’s face about Gregg owing him $10,000 or when NeNe grabbed Kim by the throat & Kandi & Don Juan had to separate those 2 on the tour bus???

    • Lisa

      Did you not say that!!!!! Chile people tend to forget. PORSHA YOU ARE A BAD FRIEND…now these women are her sisters okayyyyyyyyyyyy.

      • EXACTLY!!! NeNe told Porsha that cause Porsha wouldn’t return ANY of her phone calls. The ONLY reason why NeNe is befriending Phaedra & Porsha NOW is because they share a common enemy: KENYA!! Unless you see things the EXACT same way as NeNe she has NO use for you! It’s just a matter of time before she shows her a$$ to Phaedra again, & turns on Porsha’s gullible a$$!

    • louvres

      So you don’t call him Kordellia anymore? smh!

      • I sure did cause he pulled a b#%ch move & filed for divorce BEHIND his wife’s back! All he had to do was be MAN ENOUGH to tell Porsha he wanted out of the marriage.

  • Kristen

    *sigh* Porsha, whatever is/isn’t true, I think the best thing to do is just leave RHOA and pick up the pieces and start fresh. No more interviews, just keep to yourself!

    • uniquefashionista

      I’m with you, Kristen.
      Geeessshh! I think that would be best for everyone.

  • Sweetrose78

    I remember on the show after she came from the deposition she said he admitted things that he never did before; was she meaning this?

    • lisaaatkins

      Girl please…she making this up as she goes along.

  • Alexandrea Desteny Gray-Corujo

    Can we retire Bullying Porsha? You were not bullied!

    • Lisa

      Thank you she wasn’t bullied at all.

    • arieschic

      She wasn’t bullied. And she snatched the thing from her threw it down. Then a minute or two later you feel threaten. She snapped when Kenya brought up accusations of her cheating that’s when she really flipped out. She will expose herself sooner or later, the lies she tell omg.

    • Guest

      She should remember what Judge Judy says about lying. “If you tell the truth, you don’t have to have a good memory.”

      • Alexandrea Desteny Gray-Corujo

        It’s the truth. I shouldnt have to explain bullying if I was truly bullied. Evidence speaks for itself. People trying to say props were a weopen. If thats the case why didnt she hit anyone with the fan last year?

  • RuthM

    I really don’t know what to make of this Woman. I never want to deny a domestic abuse survivor their story but I just don’t think that I can believe her. Now she’s disclosing real physical abuse by her ex? NOW?! Isn’t this convenient. Her true colors are coming to surface, aren’t they.

    • Christina

      I agree with you she’s been caught in several lies. Her story about marriage been sketchy from the start, and for the fact that she wanted to stay with him and work things out if he agreed seemed like she was lying about him being gay and abusive .I’m just saying I believe Kordell’s story more than hers. Porsha.Porsha girl get it together and stop pointing the finger at everyone and take some responsibility for your actions

      • RuthM

        Again, she thinks that dumb pretty girl role is going to get her out of the situation. Did that role work with Kordell? Nope. It gets old. No one wants to take care of a grown a** Woman except a Man that wants to control you…which is exactly what she got.

        You know the saying, ‘if you marry for money, you are going to earn every penny’. And Porsha’s silly behind didnt even do that. She didn’t get one red cent.

    • Lisa

      Not only that when she called him a queen we all know what context it was in. I said it before Porsha was not bullied by Kenya this show like she said is about them coming for each other. PORSHA WAS NOT BULLIED. The show has confessionals where all the women just about shade each other. I really would have believe Porsha if she disclosed this information prior to the Kenya beat down and her possibly being nixed from the show. I do think Porsha is a beautiful woman physically, but her skin is not thick enough for this kind of show.

    • starapple

      You hit the nail right on the head. I think this is simply to deflect attention from her recent behavior.

      • EloiseM

        I personally APPLAUD HER RECENT BEHAVIOR. No need to deflect from that. She should use this butt whipping she gave Kenya as a platform against BULLYING. The consequences of Bullying. And then go on singing or whatever, just leave her marriage alone. Not a good look especially since she admitted on television that originally she wanted to be a stay home wife BUT she changed her mind, like breaking marriage promises should be viewed like breaking a date for the movies. Not a good look.

        • Yolanda Hinton

          Tht makes no sense when she was the aggressor…Kenya didnt hit her

          • ThatOneGirl

            But Kenya did bully her…mental abuse is just as bad as physical!

            • lisaaatkins

              Not abuse…Porsha came ready for a fight!!! She laid in wait, like a predator waiting to strike. The only victim here is Kenya!!!

              • Kenya’s PR is on here

                Kenya is a victim? Bye Brandon. Nobody is buying what you are selling.

            • brownie26

              Not true…She insulted Kenya several times and interrupted her as well. She initiated the verbal and physical confrontation between them. She said extremely vulgar things to Kenya, but she was bullied? She grabbed the scepter and issued a verbal threat (It’s going up your a** b****), but she was bullied? She jumped up out of her seat first, and reached OVER Andy to grab Kenya, but she was bullied??? Oh, ok.

              • joker2joker

                Thank you very much! I said the same thing. The only reason Kenya pulled out the bullhorn was because Porsha kept talking over her. Listen to the tape and you will hear her say that.

              • starnic

                Thank you

            • starnic

              That is her job!!!! Her job is to act up and talk crap and do that… The whole premise of the show is mess… are you serious !?

          • Toosmart2bfooled

            THANK YOU!

          • the world has gone mad

            You are crazy if you think a person can do anything and it is not aggressive as long as they do not make physical contact with the other person. Shouting at someone who is less than a metre away with a bullhorn is pure unadulterated aggression – so is waving a sceptre in someone’s face. Get a clue.

            • cocoa

              EXACTLY…Kenys is a bully. We can say whatever we want but if there is tension between 2 ppl, and one of them becomes the aggressor, regardless the other person would fight back!…I could believe that Kordell hit her because look at the way she was with him, she had 2 ask for everthing and the way he spoke 2 her was very obvious.. not because she didn’t come out meaning that she is a liar, she actually did the right thing as a WIFE..you will protect your husband and your identity…to every Extent!

        • Zhana

          Kenya did that on purpose she knows Porsha was close to a breaking point so Keyna being Keyna she took Porsha to that level so Porsha could bascially kick herself off the show

          • lisaaatkins

            Wild, unfounded theory. Porsha is violent & needs to go before she blacks out again (wink, wink).

        • lisaaatkins

          Your statement is a contradiction…Kenya was the victim here, not Porsha. Porsha was the assailant!!! Porsha’s behavior was criminal and she should be prosecuted & fired!!!

          • EloiseM

            My word!!!!!! CAN’T PEOPLE READ ON THIS WEBSITE? Do they not have the ability to COMPREHEND the English language? Kenya’s consequences for her repeated ACTIONS was justified just like any BULLY’S action should end in teachable consequences. You bully, you ask to get hit, you threatened that if you do you will get fired, you jump up in the person’s face that you have been bullying for two years , you get taken down and dragged; NOW YOU THE BULLY IS A VICTIM? Get serious and please practice comprehending what people write. Same principle applies whether child or adult. NO BULLYING ALLOWED. Comprehension REQUIRED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

            • joker2joker

              Pulling someone’s hair is not a butt whopping! And the reason they fell to the ground was because Porsha’s friend had her by the side and was pulling both of them down to the floor.

        • RuthM

          Call me cynical, but I just don’t believe that once you are past the age of 25 you can say that you are being bullied. If you experience such behaviors as an ADULT, you aren’t being bullied…the proper legal terms are harrassed, violated, battered, etc., but not bullied. It is a childish phrase that should be left in childhood.

          Porsha is a grown 30+ year old Woman. Kenya behaves the same way towards every Woman on that show and they aren’t claiming that she bullies them.

        • starnic

          are you nuts LMAO she wasn’t bullied she was the aggressor…. she lOST control and acted like a fool. These women are payed to provoke and do ignorant things to each other the only rule is DO NOT TOUCH… she is mentally unstable and sound like a big liar to me.“When I’m in front of the camera, I wanna act, but then once the camera’s on I’m Porsha…But for Kenya, she looks at this as a job. It’s a show to her; it’s just entertainment. So she doesn’t take anything seriously…And so for her I’m like the complete opposite because here I am living this real life and here she is portraying one.” THIS IS OUT OF HER MOUTH! THIS IS WHY PORSHA SHOULD BE FIRED!

      • Toosmart2bfooled

        Of course it is. Yet she tells everyone that she’s been through so much. Well, you brought it on yourself. Thinking you cute, trying to play Kordell, only to bet beaten at your own game. Yea, anyone black person who thinks the “underground” railroad was a train being driven is a total AIR HEAD!

        • starnic

          and her GRANDFATHER was a civil rights leader!!!

  • Ebby

    I really don’t know what to believe, one minute she says one thing then the next it’s something else in her marraige to Kordell. I don’t think she will be on RHOA either.

    • NeaJ

      I agree! I won’t be surprised if Kordell tries to sue her for all the money she doesn’t have. Calling someone an abuser & them denying it is no joke. She should just stop talking about her relationship with him before it gets her in trouble.

      • EloiseM

        You are so very true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Eri Cad

      I get why she would have protected him and his image during their marriage. I get why she would protect herself. Its not easy to come out with all these details about your marriage. I think if Kordell had broke the news of their breakup in a dignified way things would be far different. I think when your in a relationship u want to be uber protective of it but when it ends especially how this one ended theres nothing to protect. I wouldn’t put it past him to hit her. Of course he’s gonna deny it Ike Turner denied beating Tina. Wife beaters are never going to admit it.