From YourTango
When a man calls very last minute to ask you out on a date it’s easy to turn him down. You’ve got plans. You have a life. You’re don’t have time to sit around and wait on him. Fair enough.
But what’s it costing you? If you’re not available or spontaneous to date, you could lose a quality man. It’s a missed opportunity.
Now if you’re thinking, “he should call before” or “I don’t want to seem too available.” I get it. It’s nice to plan ahead. It’s great when he calls in advance.
But there’s something you should know … Men often make last minute plans because that’s how their brains work. Generally, they can only think of one thing at time. So if he’s been working, working, working and finishes, he shifts his thoughts to play and that’s when he thinks about you …
How much fun it would be to see you …
How he’d love to see you laugh …
And that’s when he calls.
And if you’re not available, you risk his asking out someone else. He could see your being unavailable as his not being your priority and move on.
And there’s nothing worse than the thought of the “coulda-been-your-man” in the arms of another woman.
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