‘I Am Not Excited, But I Am Going:’ Mama Joyce Planning To Attend Kandi’s Wedding Next Month

March 17, 2014  |  

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Despite her loud protests against her daughter’s decision to marry fiancé, Todd Tucker, Mama Joyce says she will definitely be at Kandi’s spring wedding, which is reportedly set to take place next month.

“I am not excited but I am going,” Kandi’s mom honestly told RadarOnline during an interview.

Joyce, who has been extremely determined to get Kandi to see the “real Todd” this season, went on to say that she realizes that she doesn’t exactly have a say in who her daughter decides to spend the rest of her life with.

“It’s not my wedding. If she is happy then I am happy for her. If that’s who she wants to marry then I’m happy. As long as she is happy I am happy.”

As for whether or not she truly believes Kandi is happy with Todd, Joyce says she’ll simply have to take her word for it.

“Kandi says she is happy so I just have to go by what she says.”

Oh, and in case you’re wondering if she plans to attend the ceremony just so that she could object, the reality TV mom says absolutely not. Not because she doesn’t object, but because she has already expressed how she feels about Kandi’s decision to marry Todd.

“I’m not going to stand up when they ask if anyone has any objections. I don’t have anything to say. Everyone knows how I feel.”

Despite her strong convictions about Todd, Joyce adds that she really hopes that she is wrong about him.

“I hope that I can say ‘I’m glad Kandi didn’t listen to me and this is the man she has been waiting for all her life.’”

Joyce also discussed Kandi’s desire to have more children, expressing that her dislike for Todd will have no impact on how she feels about her future grandchildren.

“Their father doesn’t make no difference to me. If she adopted, had another child with Todd, I will love it.”

Now that the Mama Joyce situation is under control, we can only hope that everything else runs smoothly on Kandi’s big day!

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  • B Cooper

    She should not attend. She has shown how she feels and no use in her making the other guest feel uncomfortable. I wonder if much of her “actions” were for television or if she really went there! How sad for Kandi either way.

  • Let me just say, GOD BLESS TODD, I don’t know too many men who would stick around in a situation where the possible “mother-in-law” is so vindictive like Mama Joyce! Todd seems like a genuine guy who wants to bring the family together, but it’s impossible to do that when Mama Joyce is manipulating the relationship behind the scenes! Kandi seems afraid to address Mama Joyce head on (BTW, anytime Peter is the voice of reason concerning their relationship, you know it’s a REAL PROBLEM)!!! As Peter said, Todd’s patience will eventually run out if Kandi doesn’t intervene, & put her foot down with her mom. Real Talk, I really hope everything works out Kandi & Todd, & they find their “happily ever after.” Mama Joyce, sit yo’ a$$ down somewhere, drink your Metamucil, go have sex, & leave Todd & Kandi THE HELL ALONE (with your jealous, insecure, & overbearing a$$)!!

  • Karen M Gentry-Rilley

    Sounds like Kandi and Todd has a plan. yippie. However, Mama Joyce stated about them having a baby. Her comment was rather bizzare to state I would love IT. Or is this just me. IJS

  • hi-liter

    If I were Kandi, I would elope.

    • Yvette

      I was thinking the same thing and then have a huge reception.

  • OneInFun

    I hate when people in situations like this say, “If she’s happy I’m happy”. What a bunch of junk. Mama Joyce has made it very clear that she is NOT HAPPY!

  • Deborah Johnson

    if any man Kandi gets to close to momma Joyce will not approve, he can be good looking very nice and talk real good but when it comes down to it he can be a dog to her daughter and calling her names , but momma Joyce will think , (well I pick him for you I thought he was nice) so Kandi , if your happy with Todd congrats, momma Joyce have to lay low for awhile and let Kandi live her life, she smart enough to know if he’s not the one for her. Congrats on the wedding.

  • Amir Bey

    She has already embarrassed her daughter enough so needs to be quiet. She could have voiced her opinion without all the ‘ratchetness’. Parents don’t do that to their children. Just sayin!

    All the best to Kandi and Todd, more classier than the rest.

  • Guest

    And she is still talking…sighhhh!! It is disrepectful to tell someone to shut up–but, SHUT UP Mama Joyce!!! Zip it!! And just say NO when a interview is requested.

  • lockstress

    I thought I hated Brandi’s momma…thanks JOYCE!

    What a hateful ole hag.

  • VAgirl

    I’m happy for Kandi and Todd. I really hope that Todd proves Mama Joyce wrong, and that they have a better relationship in the future.