Mom Of Dwyane Wade’s Son Has Two Kids By Another Famous Fella, And He’s Speaking Out

January 2, 2014  |  

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When news broke about the identity of the mother of Dwyane Wade’s newborn son, Aja Metoyer, it also came out that she has two children from a previous relationship with another famous man. It has been revealed that the father of her other two children, both little girls, is comedian/actor Damon Wayans Jr. That’s right, the son of Damon Wayans and the funny fella from shows like the recently cancelled Happy Endings and Fox’s New Girl. Wayans, Jr. has actually briefly spoken about all that has come out about the mother of his two daughters, and he told TMZ Sports that he doesn’t want all that’s going on to have a negative effect on his kids.

“I really have nothing to do with Aja’s situation. We both live completely separate lives, aside from co-parenting. My concern are my daughters and that they don’t get hurt in any of this.”

Wayans went on to say that the newborn, Xavier Wade (born on November 10), is a big hit with his daughters though, who “love their little brother and that’s all I care about.” But he just wants to make sure his kids don’t get dragged in all the drama going on with Metoyer and Wade.

According to Heavy.com, Wayans and 30-year-old Metoyer were high school sweethearts, and we know from Entertainment Tonight’s original report that Wade had also known Metoyer for years, even publicly shouting her out on Mother’s Day in 2010. As for Wayans, I respect that his main concern is his children and that his statement kept it positive and honest. We hope the best for all involved, especially the kids in this situation.

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  • I_am_a_Gladiator/Scandalista

    *In my Wendy Williams voice* Messy, messy, messy….

  • Lala

    There are a few of these women out here who seem to have a full time job procreating with famous men. Ok I get that damon wayans jr was her high school sweetheart, but then everything lined up (being on a break, birth control failure) for her to have a child with wade seems coincidental.

  • gcon48

    If Gabrielle Union has any fight or dignity left in her,she should just give D.Wade his ring back! Because if she marries him,the situation is only going to get worse,he will go and visit the son and then probably end up in the bed with that woman again and they probably will conceive another child again. D.Wade and this woman don’t care who they hurt because neither one have a since of loyalty to love anyone. I am sorry that the courts let D.Wade have primary custody of his sons from the ex-wife,because those sons are very impressionable and they will do everything daddy is doing and this will be a disgrace if this kind of behavior continues.What happened to morality? This kind of behavior causes a whole lot of problems.What a mess! I only hope that Ms.Union will make wise choice and bounce! Don’t worry about perks that come with being with sports star,you only suffer later!

  • Taneesha Culture Clash Thomas

    i bet most of the women on here that’s mad as hale calling this chic a ho & a gold digger got kids with different daddies.. y ya’ll so mad? lol

  • bitchsbrew

    Classic case of “if he cheats with you, he’ll cheat on you”.

  • VickyW

    Why are people mad about this woman getting knocked up by someone famous?! Everyday dumb broads are having 4 and 5 babies with 3 different daddies, with no job and/ or stability! I can’t deal. Aren’t there other things to worry about?

  • SONshyne

    Sadly, there are specific females out there who want to live off of the money they can get from having a baby with a celeb. And they set out to do this. And you have those SAME celebs, who you would think was smart in life as they are in business, to KNOW the difference between being used and what’s REAL. I don’t feel sorry for them anymore….the way I see it, they get what they ask for…..

  • MAR

    LIFE IS LIKE THAT, PEOPLE BREAK UP – NOTHING LASTS FOREVER, ONLY SALVATION. PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES, SOME LEARN BY IT, OTHERS DON’T SO THEY END UP REPEATING, AND IN THE LONG RUN HAVE A MISERABLE LIFE AND MAKE THOSE AROUND THEM MISERABLE TOO. IF YOU CAN’T HANDLE IT, JUST WALK AWAY FROM LOVE.

  • MAR

    YOU ALL END UP EVEN CURSING EACH OTHER OVER SOMETHING SOMEONE ELSE DID, WHATS GOING ON, MARVIN GAYE ASKS. WAR IS NOT THE ANSWER, CUZ ONLY LOVE CAN CONQUER HATE.

  • MAR

    I JUST HAVE TO LAUGH WHEN I SEE HOW MUCH YOU ALL HAVE SO MUCH OPINION ON THESE PEOPLE LIVES, PASSING JUDGEMENT AND NEGATIVE WORDS. I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A PERFECT LIFE GOING ON, YOU NEVER CHEATED, OR TOLD YOUR PARTNER A LIE, NEVER HAD CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK. GO TAKE THE PLANK OUT OF YOUR EYE, BEFORE TRYING TO TAKE THE BEAM OUT ANOTHER PERSONS OWN. GET A LIFE–STOP EXISTING AND START LIVING.

  • Justthetruth

    If you look at DWades past he has done nothing out of the ordinary. Probably why Gabby is still by his side aside from loving the man she is with. And who’s to say she didn’t know about this WAY before the news broke to the public, or better yet, before he proposed to her. Either way, I hope he is a better man to her than he has been to other women in the past. Otherwise he is just wasting time – his and hers.

  • BabyClover

    I aint saying she a gold digger but she aint messing with no broke nigga……lol….. this girl keeps cashing in with her kids. Does she av a job besides breeding for celebrities? SMH

  • Candace

    Aja Metoyer (her name sounds creole to me) seems to support herself via
    child support checks. She has not worked in years according to her last
    appearance in court trying to get more money from Damon. Have mercy. One thing that is clear to me is that Mr. Wade absolutely does not deserve a woman like Gabby. Gabrielle, get away from this mess and leave his a zz in the filth that he created.

    • Kristen

      I read in an Essence article that Gabrielle said everyone thinks that she has the typical “girl next door” personality but she’s really a B who talks a lot of crap and gets extremely jealous when she is passed over for acting gigs. She even admitted that she had to change a lot about herself to live up to what ppl think of her. She’s not 100% right in the head herself. She’s a jealous sourpuss and this is evidently what she wants. I think her and D Wade are perfect for each other lol..let the crazy people have each other!

      • Candace

        I’m well aware of her self professed mean girl persona. My understanding also is that she was working on herself and trying to change and that that persona is what she USED to be. But, even if she has not changed, no one deserves this. I don’t know her, but personality aside, it is a fact that she is educated (has a degree from UCLA), she has her own career as a working actress and spokesperson for various products and causes. She is a beautiful woman who is independent and who seems to have a lot going for herself. She survived a brutal rape and now helps other women who have experienced something similar. Crazy or not, she has a lot going for herself to have to put up with this messy ish that Wade is dishing out. He out slinging it everywhere and with chicks who have ZERO going for themsleves but collecting child support checks from dummies who can’t/won’t wrap it up. He deserves these basic b*****ches who only want to lay up and take his money, not someone like Gabrielle. That’s all I’m saying.

        • Kristen

          I don’t disagree with you, but she’s gotta find it in herself to be better and want better. Until then, IMO, this is what she wants/deserves.

  • Taneesha Culture Clash Thomas

    why would ur daughters get hurt in all this?…boy sit down & stop trying to get attention ain’t nobody thinking about u…why are u trying to get some recognition off this, it has nothing to do with u…what a clown!

    • me

      Oh they most certainly can … You must not have seen too many baby mama/baby daddy scenarios play out. Kids can witness and overhear terrible things in situations like this. It’s all too common. Too many high emotions and a lot of ego make for an explosive combination with sex and relationships.

      • Taneesha Culture Clash Thomas

        oh i have no doubt about that that’s y these kneegrows need to stop going around making babies with everybody all willy nilly because when you don’t stay with the momma you have no say in what or who she does.

    • Autumn

      You’re a complete MORON if you CAN’T see how his girls would be negatively affected by this!!! It’s truly a shame that you could say something so stupid, especially being a woman. Damn shame.

      • Taneesha Culture Clash Thomas

        you’re clearly one of those people who believe everything they read on the internet so i’ll type this slowly…i think he’s happy to have his name in peoples mouth’s again…he didn’t have to say anything about this…all he had to do & his first priority should be looking out for his kids

    • ericamissamerica

      LOL Funny as hale! But their mom being called a groupie and home wrecker could be negative for them. I don’t think this chick is a groupie and I do believe the dynamics of her and Dwayne’s relationship. They were friends and he felt comfortable enough to go without protection and I would be a little worried if I were Gabby. They obviously have a connection and I would just walk away from the whole situation. This relationship just seems doomed. I hate to say it…seriously I do because they are cute as a couple. Hasn’t Gabby said in the past that she does not want kids? I know Siovaughn is somewhere snigglin’

      • Taneesha Culture Clash Thomas

        i absolutely agree with everything u said…i just know this nucca somewhere happy that we’re talking about him lol

      • Drea

        “Comfortable enough to go without protection”<—-dumbest thing I've seen all day. NOBODY should go without protection during any sexual encounter unless you're married and you both want children. Celebrities and normal folk need to use the sexual technology that has been developed for humanity's protection against disease and pregnancy. Everybody can afford condoms, they are free at certain clinics and Planned Parenthood. So celebrities even more so have zero excuses for this continued Tom foolery. They have plenty of staff on their "teams" to go buy them some condoms.

        • ericamissamerica

          You are right, no one should. But it happens. We are talking about what has already happened Sista Souljah. I get that you want to be the voice of judgment and safe sex, but it is what it is….and that is a baby after not using it. Is it safe? No it is not, but you need to calm down.. getting your pressure all up typing in caps and whatnot. LOL The question was about Damon and his seeds and somehow you turned this into a public service announcement and sending word jabs. I can just see your nostrils flaring while you type all riled up SMH

    • Snoopykk

      Maybe he is referring to ensuring that a track of men arent paraded around his daughters.

  • WHOISBSQUARED?

    ALL I CAN SAY IS DAMN….LIKE BROAD DO U EVEN HAVE A JOB? I MEAN IT JUST LOOK LIKE JUST PRODUCING KIDS FOR SOME KIND OF FINANCIAL STABILITY IN A WAY…..*SIDE EYE*

  • confused

    I don’t understand why someone would want to be with some chick who was ran through and passed around. I just don’t get it … especially to the point of having a child. A mess. This stuff disappoints me because I feel like I am surrounded by black men who work overtime to fulfill the stereotype of being hypersexed and careless. If you wanna sex that I get to a point … people are sexual by design … but why leave kids all over the free world? Just trifling. smh.

    • kimbo246

      I don’t get you people, how has this woman run around? How is she sloppy? You guys heard about here having two men, Wayans and Wade. You don’t know her from Adam and you judge. SMFH. You guys don’t know if she and Wade were carrying on a relationship for a long time and that it wasn’t just a slip. It is neither disturbing or disgusting, it is grown people making grown decision. #StopTryingToLiveOthersLivesAndEnjoyYourOwn

      • confused

        Whatever … she also has ties to Lamar Odom’s crackhead behind. A ran through professional jump off, like I said. #dontgetmadyoumustbeone

      • hollyw

        I get what you’re saying, but at the same time, just the fact they they are grown does not make the results less careless. Usually, people who care about judgment are more careful. With Wade, he was careless at least once; Damon, twice. This chick; three times. That’s a lot of carelessness. After that many times, you start to think it might have been intentional…

  • Angie

    Luda has done the same thing…They kill me when they try to clean it up by saying they were “taking a break” from each other. What if Gabby had gotten pregnant during the “break?”

    • mika_meek

      I wonder if these women even knew they were on a break.

      • Angie

        Good point…

        • mika_meek

          Lol i can hear him explaining now, “We were on a break last night, remember when you hung up the phone on me” Smh at these bruthas

          • Dr. Dubya

            I actually laughed out loud to this comment. I have heard some friends say something similar.

    • Media_Slore_Agent

      Who cares she helped him to cheat on his WIFE plus she don’t want kids I knew that rock was huge for a reason. Why do men always leave their families for women who don’t have kids? The rock watch is on now for luda let’s see how bad he feels.

      • Johansen Peralta

        Dwade is not married, he didnt cheat on his wife, he was on a break with his girlfriend. What people dont understand is that people break up, if they get back together they drop the up and call it a break.

        • hollyw

          That is not what a break is if you are a grown adult.

      • hollyw

        She has reported wanting to have children. Also, if you call a 2yr separation -and only not a divorce b/c the wife is intentionally holding up proceedings b/c she refuses to respect that her husband no longer wants to be married to her- is “cheating”, then sure. Ugly, but that’s what it was. Not Gabby’s fault. People deserve to move on. I would call sleeping w/ someone while on “a break” cheating before sleeping w/someone while closing in on divorce proceedings from them…*shrug*

    • Dee

      True. If Gabby got pregnant during a “break”, would he still take her back and try to marry her? Interesting…

      • Maile00

        He sure wouldn’t….gotta look at that “break” reminder daily

  • Kristen

    This is all quite disturbing and disgusting.

  • Marie Bano

    I DO HOPE THAT MARRIAGE MAKES A BIG COMEBACK IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY. WE NEED TO START SHOWING MATURITY AND RESPECT FOR OURSELVES AND OUR BODIES. OUR CHILDREN DESERVE STABLE HOMES.

    • Taneesha Culture Clash Thomas

      yes agreed 1,000,000%

    • Herm Cain

      Man f**k them kids marriage will never make a big comeback because brothers are no longer ignorant to what marriage is a financial contract a business for a black man who has his coins together their is really no incentive or logical reason to get married and we don’t have to put up with nothing because my girlfriend can be replaced at any time

      • Shawndrea Rachelle

        Why are you here?

        • Ideal4real

          He’s just keeping it 100%

  • Chelsea

    Aja, Dwayne and Damon are just sloppy idiots for this baby momma-daddy drama. When will black celebs get their ish together? The kids are the ones suffering not you, selfish would be putting it nicely.

    • JB#3

      No different than every day people on the streets. I don’t see how Damon is sloppy in all of this. His relationship with her ended some time ago. He didn’t have anything to do with her getting knocked up by Dwayne Wade.

      • hollyw

        She was knocked up by Damon TWICE before she was knocked up by Wade… o.O

        • Ideal4real

          sometimes the punani be THAT good…..o.O

  • FromUR2UB

    I just don’t get it…having a baby with a man after seeing him for such a short time. How does one make that leap from let’s date to let’s make a baby? People act like they live in the 1930s and never heard of birth control.

    • Damn damn damn

      How is Damon sloppy? This isn’t his situation. He and this girl dated and had two children. Broke up and moved on. If anything she’s messy and it isn’t a good look. I’m sorry. I wouldn’t want to have children my famous MEN it’s messy. It looks like he wasn’t making enough money (she’s been asking for increase in child support) and she said eff this let me sleep with a bigger baller. Idk. Just speculation.

      Poor babies tho.

      • Damn damn damn

        My comment is in reference to the one below. Btw

        • Confused

          @chey are you saying that if they were married had those two girls and were divorced now it would be less sloppy? At the end of the day nothing changes they’re not together now and she just had a baby by wade

          Serious question to everybody? Does being married make the situation any different?

          • Chey

            Yes, being married makes the situation very different.

            • Confused

              Please explain the differences. What would make it different? And does that make it better or worse?

              • Chey

                Damon had two children with a woman that he most likely did not have the intentions to marry in the first place. There was no love in that. Comparing a routine break up to a divorce where there are two parties making a sincere commitment to each other and then things happen to go sour…I think it says a lot about a person’s character as well. If you were considering Damon as a partner, would you have more respect for a man who made two kids with his longtime gf, or a man with an ex wife and two children?

                • Confused

                  Honestly if I considered him a partner I wouldn’t base it off whether he was married or not, I’d base it off of his character, how is he as a father? Is he there for them? Are they taken care of? Did he cheat? Why are they broken up? Is he respectful? I’m not gonna not date a guy because he didn’t marry his daughters mother. I just don’t think it’s ok to judge people because they’re not married

          • hollyw

            I get what you’re saying, but it’s also possible that if they had married, they would’ve worked harder at being together, could have happily reconciled, and she wouldn’t have ever even had another baby by D. Wade.

            So it’s not completely accurate to say the situation would be the same regardless when, statistically, getting married derives different results than cohabitation.

      • Chey

        He’s still sloppy for making children without marriage to the mother. Dating isn’t marriage, therefore it’s still baby mama-daddy drama.

        • Damn damn damn

          That’s sloppy? Really? They’re not even together now meaning that marriage would have ended in divorce, y’all gotta stop.

          Marriage is very important. In a perfect world all our parents would be married.

          My parents aren’t married, I’m not mad or holding resentment. We’re still a family married or not. My parents are great and in my opinion as long as you can be great parents first that’s all that matters! Married people go through these same issues.

          • Laine

            The point that Chey is trying to make,is, that if you’re not ready for marriage you probably shouldn’t have children. Of course “accidents” can happen, and I’m not saying that you should get married in case one happened. However, Damon is also sloppy, because he has not one but two children by a woman he was never married to, and probably didn’t have any plans to marry. Like you said, marriage is indeed important, but so is having and raising children. If you don’t see yourself marrying a person, don’t have a child with them either!

            • Chey

              Thank you.

            • IDGI

              So in your opinion if a couple has a child and the couple is Not married, but together until they died, loving caring and great parents it won’t matter because they had a child wo being married? And they shouldn’t have had the child since they weren’t married?

              Or if a couple has a child they get married, they divorce and move on the child is ok because his parents were once married?

              I don’t get it.

              • Laine

                Trust me, I am very open minded. I do believe in different family structures, and I don’t believe that children raised in a “non traditional” family setting are doomed to fail.., absolutely not. Not everybody believes in the institute of marriage as defined by law, and that’s okay.

                However (yes, in caps…lol), a lot of these men say that they want to be married one day, but claim not to be ready for it. That’s fine, BUT don’t go around having children, and do all these “marriage- like” things before you’re actually married. And that’s the case with a lot of these so called young “ballers”. And it’s usually not because they believe in non traditional family settings etc.

              • clwa0303

                Thank you

      • wave

        I agree with you totally good post

      • mikki21

        I am so sick of everyone putting the focus on this woman and her “sloppiness”. Did anyone forget that this Mr. Wade is basically a cheater. Do the math. I’m sure his ex-wife’s allegations of him cheating on her with Ms. Union is the truth as well.

    • Charisse A Hill

      Thats because he is a professional ball player and “somebodies” were being irresponsible and “somebody” was possible looking for a come up.

    • Candace

      It seems that Ms Metoyer has not held down a job anywhere in years. She’s only 30 and her main source of income seems to be child support checks. Don’t think she cared about birth control. Only cared about that check. smh.

      • hollyw

        I was just about to say,”Does this lady have a job??” Because if not, that makes her a Professional Baby Mama…