Making love, screwing, banging, doing the horizontal mambo—it all means the same thing. Or does it? You can tell a lot about a man’s feelings for you by what he calls the act of intercourse, but if he seems to think the terms are interchangeable, you can still tell by how he goes about it. (So don’t worry: the guy you’re totally in love with who asks if you “wanna bang?” might be totally in love with you too). Here are signs that it’s more than just physical for your guy.