Mother Of Meek Mills’ Son Opens Up About Ending Their Relationship And Encourages Women Not To Settle

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October 9, 2013 ‐ By Jazmine Denise Rogers
Source: Instagram

Source: Instagram

Two of the most sickening phrases that women make in reference to their cheating men are “It’s all good, I’m his number one,” or “It’s cool, he knows where his home is.” Mother to MMG rapper Meek Mills’ son, Fahimah, recently took to her Instagram page to discuss finally walking away from their relationship for good and why women should stop settling for being a number in a man’s life as opposed to being his only.

“I walked away from a rich n***a bcuz I wasn’t satisfied with being #1. Cuz the side chicks and groupies was getting the same treatment as me! Everybody called me dumb and stupid for leaving even my friends and family but a year later I’m happy as ever and I got my self respect from HIM! But most ppl will stay and fake happiness bcuz they think they #1. #YeahIJusGaveYallALilBit lol,” she wrote.

She went on to promote self-worth and encourage women to stop selling themselves short.

“As a woman how could u accept yaself as #1 or #2 to a man! It’s no difference in who come first or who was there first bcuz the reality is u both getting played!”

“N****s do the same stuff wit u as he doing with the next chick. What about being the only one? That’s called self respect! That’s why n****s do what they wana do now bcuz chicks are so content with being #1.”

No arguments here. Thoughts?

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  • JANICE COOPER

    I LOVE HER FOR BEING A WOMAN ABOUT HERSELF AND LIFE!!!! OWWWW…U TELL EM’ GIRL…GET YOUR GROWN WOMAN ON, NOW PLEASE WRITE A BOOK SO ALL YOUNG BLACK WOMEN CAN READ AND HOPEFULLY UNDERSTAND, THESE MEN ARE LIKE THIS BECAUSE WE ALLOW THEM TO BE!

  • Sian Rose

    We need more women and more articles like this. All the $$$ in the world isnt worth your self esteem.

  • Ms. Kameria

    I just find it funny how all these “rapper/DJ/Producer/athlete” baby mamas all are giving the same type of advice: “how not to settle”, or “how not to be enemies with your baby daddy”…..
    More than likely she knew (just like the rest of them know) what kind of situation she was getting into before having his child. I understood what she meant, but it fell on deaf ears.

    • Alexandrea Desteny Gray-Corujo

      I’m pretty sure she was with him before he was famous. I use famous very loosely btw : )

  • vanelle22

    Love it! Being the only one is better than being number one!

  • sunny

    I keep telling people MAN did not write the Bible from his own thought process… and why God said get married before breaking your virginity or conceiving a child!!!

    Because that courtship should take enough time to not only KNOW you the ONLY, but figure out how DISCIPLINED the two of you really are regarding one another feelings and union.

    Notice they ain’t married and he considered her his #1!

    She was VERY MATURE to walk AWAY!

  • JMO

    Smart woman. I don’t blame her for walking away from a man who has fame and money, but can’t keep his manhood in his pants when he’s around other hoes. Thank you for having self worth and other women need to take note.

  • charesse

    She said it best! People probably told her to stay and stick it out for the money and fame. Meanwhile, popcorn hoes get the same treatment as you, the woman who.stood by when he was broke as hell. I applaud her for finding her self worth. 10 cool points for her taking a stand. Self worth is worth more than fame and money!

  • chu’

    Somebody forward this article to Karreuche. #sorrynotsorry. Some of us women need to know that.

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  • FeelsGood

    Glad she didn’t put a dollar sign on her self-worth! His bird looking tail will be back.

  • 1Val

    Preach!!!

  • MISSSSS

    GOOD FOR HER! BECAUSE WHAT SHES SAYING IS THE TRUTH. HE WILL BE BACK FOR HER BEGGING WHEN THIS 15 MINUTES IS UP, HES NOT RICH, JAY-Z AND KANYE WEST ARE RICH….HES A YOUNG FOOL

    • hollyw

      Exactly. AND she’s raising his son, who else is going to teach him how to respect women??

  • 20candycane13

    If only more women practiced that!!!!!

  • Yamine

    Well said!