14 Ways To Fall In Love With Yourself

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September 10, 2013 ‐ By Julia Austin
Fall In Love With Yourself

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If you take a close look, you could probably see that a lack of self-love is pretty much the basis of any problem you can imagine. It could be the reason you feel unhappy in your career, why you aren’t invited to as many social events as you’d like, why you’re struggling to get into a relationship, or why a current one is falling apart. Loving yourself isn’t something you can conquer in one day and then forget about; it requires constant practice. Here are 14 ways to fall in love with yourself, either all over again or maybe for the first time.

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  • Isioma

    I totally agree with self love growing from utilising our talents. I have always been a creative spirit who likes to express with art, words and song. Since everything creative took a back seat to academics, I realised something was missing. Now, I am gradually getting back into things I used to do. Its really exciting for me!

  • L-Boogie

    The lady in the majority of the pictures is from Latoya Forever – she is crazy! LOL!

    • enlightenment

      I thought that was her!

  • enlightenment

    Love this! it’s uplifting

  • guesr

    Great article

  • bluekissess

    “self-love is pretty much the basis of any problem you can imagine. It could be the reason you feel unhappy in your career, why you aren’t invited to as many social events as you’d like” I didn’t know you needed self love to work and go to the club

    • enlightenment

      You’d be surprised, many people will skip out on going to out to social events because they feel too unattractive…or just feel too down-in-the-dumps about themselves to go out. And many doubt their own abilities, so they don’t pursue new business ventures or career paths.

      Without self-love, there’s no self-respect, and without self-respect, you are your own worst enemy…which causes quite a bit of self-sabotage.

      • Brit

        I know because I am that person but I’m working on getting better……..this article was just what I needed to see.

      • monica

        youve just described me to a tee

      • your talkin about ME!

        I avoid going out because I feel to skinny and worry I look a mess. I have a really good business idea that I have been putting off for a year because I doubt my ability to execute it properly! Yep definatlely “my own worst enemy” smh

        • AnonyChick

          “I avoid going out because I feel to skinny”–this used to be me. Eventually, I just had to learn to embrace my size and surround myself with people who don’t put me down. This was hard, considering much of the criticism was from family members smh But, I feel great now. Prayer helps, too :-)

        • Isioma

          I’m sure you are really beautiful:) I know its easier said than done, but try and find ways to embrace your slim figure. Skinny is a negative word (in my opinion, antonym of fat). You said it yourself. Your business idea is really good! The world is full of people who are not fulfilled because they refuse to utilise their talents. I hope you go ahead and take the business plan further than the plan!