Straight From His Mouth: Would Most Men Seriously Date A Bisexual Or Is That Just A Fantasy?

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My life is no richer or poorer having dated a woman who was willing to sleep with men or women, sometimes together. Since I was much younger at the time, I won’t pretend like the thrill of having the option of sleeping with two women occasionally wasn’t appealing. However, life wasn’t all threesomes and Playboy Mansion parties. For the most part, it was a run of the mill relationship. We had our ups and downs like everyone else trying to navigate the world of a committed relationship.

Another kink in the real life versus fantasy life was the fact that you’re not guaranteed to have the same taste in women. As it turns out, this happened a lot with my Ex and I. She wasn’t physically attracted to women I liked and I wasn’t (always) physically attracted to women she liked (I also wasn’t nearly as picky as her). Further, there was no guarantee that the women she or I liked would also like us both. Like most things when it comes to relationships, it was all a game of chance.

In the end, most men don’t have a desire to seriously date a bisexual woman or sleep with two women at the same damn time. That seems to be one of those fantasies that because a minority of men talk about it all the time, everyone assumes all men want to do it. Some fantasies are fantasies for a reason. In reality, I only know a handful of men who actively seek bisexual women or threesomes or who care if they do or do not ever have one. This is different than passing up the opportunity in the rare instance that it organically presents itself. Men like peace, and a night of fun can easily lead to a lifetime of complications if all parties involved don’t walk away from the experience equally pleased. Beyond the sexual benefits – if they can be called that – dating a bisexual woman can easily be thought of as twice the headache. Most men struggle to keep one woman happy, trying to please two or more within the confines of a relationship is not a fantasy in their minds, it’s a nightmare.

Fellas, help me out…have you ever seriously dated a bisexual woman? Was the reality as good as the fantasy? Would you do it again?

WisdomIsMisery aka WIM uses his background as an internal auditor to provide objective, yet opinionated, qualitative and quantitative analysis on life, love, and everything in between. WIM is not a model, a model citizen, or a role model. See more of WIM on his weekly write-ups for SBM, on Twitter @WisdomIsMisery, and Instagram: WisdomIsMisery.

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