How to Move to the Big City

December 4th, 2010 - By Demetria Irwin

1. Visit multiple times.
Movie directors have you thinking that everyone in big cities has amazing panoramic views, splashy sun-drenched condos and anything-can-happen nights every night.   Most people do not live like that.  Most people live “regular” lives in “regular” apartments. Visit your city of choice multiple times before you commit to moving. Get a feel for the energy, pace and options of the place.   See how you feel there. Can you imagine your life in that city?

2.Research housing you can afford.
New York, LA and other big cities have a much higher cost of living than other places.  While you are visiting, be sure to tour apartments that are in your price range. Have a good idea of how much space and what kind of amenities you should expect for an apartment within your budget. Know your non-negotiables (no roaches) and things you’d like, but aren’t essential (hardwood floors).

3.Become an expert on the cost of living in that city.
How much does it cost to get into nightclubs? How much is the rent for a decent apartment? How much does it cost to ride public transit?  Go to the websites of government agencies, talk to people who live there and find other reliable sources to give you accurate answers to such questions.

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  • Brittany

    I'm actually living in Atlanta now and I'm trying to move to Chicago in September and its been really challenging finding a job up there in the food science field. But I'm determined, I just need a change. I've lived in Atlanta my whole life and I know its time to move. Its scary moving to a place where you don't know anyone but I think I'm making the right decision. This list was really helpful.

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    I made a move from Birmingham to London U.K. I'd just walked out of a long term relationship. I had £300 to my name.

    I Had a job lined up. Although it wasn't something that I wanted as a long term career I took it to make ends meet. I stayed with a friend who charged me an arm and a leg to share her bed. Eventually I got my own place. I have had more opportunities gaining work experience in media which is the area that I long to work in in the long run. I just knew that I had to come to London. It's not an easy place to live but I've made the most out of my experience here. I totally agree that you have to visit place first before taking the plunge to move. I think if I thought about the bad things about moving I never would have done it. Within a few weeks of making my decision I set my goal and just went for it, best thing I ever did. I think New York is my next Goal. Life is too short to stay in one place for too long. This article was very helpful.

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    Relocated to Harford County, 10 minutes north of Baltimore. Amazing how differnt a 10 minute drive can be. Not really impressded with the area> Moved to the Raleigh-Durham area six weeks later. LOVE the are!!! Much better-Southern Cities ROCK!!!

  • Allison

    I had the big dream to move to Atlanta & I did.. stayed on my friends couch then moved into my friends apartment for a reduced rent rate.. about 9 months later things have went sour.. lost my job, barely making it then she gives me a 30 day notice.. i move into my own apartment but not able to find stable work.. move out my apartment onto a couch again.. Still struggling to make ends meat & find a job i'm still on the couch but trying to piece things together so i can gather money & a job so i can make a move.. It's hard but positive nature can keep you in high spirits even when lows are still being hit.. I'm still struggling but I'm still going to make it.. Soon

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    There were all common-sense things.

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