The Struggle Is Real: Siohvaughn Funches Sits On Chicago Street, With Sign, Rants About Dwyane Wade

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July 19, 2013 ‐ By Clarke Gail Baines

Siohvaughn Funches

If you didn’t know that Siohvaughn Funches was fighting tooth and nail to keep her home, her cars and her lifestyle, and get what she feels Dwyane Wade owes to her, this might be the most obvious sign that things are more dire for her than ever. Funches tried to sue Wade just last week for almost $2 million dollars:

According to court documents, Siohvaughn is alleging that Wade is in direct breach of a 2008 agreement, which requires the shooting guard to to fully deposit funds from his endorsement deals into a joint bank account that they both have control over. Siohvaughn is claiming that her ex-husband has been endorsed by four companies recently, but she has yet to see the money because he and his financial advisers have concocted a scheme to get around the agreement. She also complains that she has been unable to pay her mortgage, home owner’s insurance and car insurance. As a result, she’s claiming that she’s owed at least $1 million. In total the suit claims $2 million in damages.

But when things fell apart, she dropped the suit just days later. She’s done numerous interviews, even speaking out about her situation on Dr. Phil of all places, and now she’s taking her issues with the father of her children (he has custody of their two sons if you weren’t aware) out to the streets.

Deadspin just posted a photo that someone sent them of Funches in Chicago this week (possibly today), sitting down with a friend (or family member), with a sign that says “NBA Miami Heat Star Mother Of His Children On The Streets.” As they put it, Funches was ranting to strangers coming up and taking pictures of her about Wade’s $90 million dollar contracts and “houses on the water.” He has all that, but yet she’s struggling as she’s told many people already.

I really don’t know what to say about all this, it’s just disappointing. I don’t know what her financial situation truly is and what agreements she had with Wade that he is or isn’t living up to (shame on him if he’s not, but shame on her if she’s just living off of him), but literally sitting on the street badmouthing that brotha isn’t going to fix things. Siovauhgn has a lot of work to do. Literally and figuratively…

 

Photo courtesy of Deadspin.com. 

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  • amir bey

    To embarrass him, why else!

  • guest

    As a divorced mother of three i understand the hurt and pain to loose your husband, i couldn’t imagine losing my kids too. It’s easy to sit in judgment of someone else when u r on the outside looking in. I don’t believe she is crazy but do believe she needs help to understand her truth. I remember when wade was at Marquette. His attitude was very different then toward his wife and her mother who was there for him and the only family he had. Its amazing how money truly reveals the person you always was. Wade should show some compassion for the mother of his kids and what she once meant to him. He will pay for his choices as well as she hers. She is just going thru hers now. The best thing we can do is pray that she get the help she need and understand that she doesn’ t need a man to define who she is…she has to set that standard. The sooner she can do this the better off she will be for herself and her boys. Praying for you

  • BeenThereDoneThat

    Dear Siovaughn, Get yourself together and call Juanita Jordan and ask for her attorney’s telephone number. I pray your kids do not read nor see your video and resent their father. Get it together and get what is owed to you. We do not know the entire story, we all are speculating because the media only provides us with pieces of information. If this is true that D-Wade owes you money and not doing his part per court order, his day will come. There are 3 sides to this story, your side, D-Wade side and the truth. We do not know what the truth is. You were in Miami resently with your boys…get it together girlfriend!

  • VVV

    He lived with you as a teen when he had no place to go…True

    You married him and beautiful sons for him….True
    He cheated….True
    He left your behind for someone who is rich and older and who the black populace adores…True
    BUT

    Girl, get it together, you are not the first and would never be the last woman to be treated poorly by a man. Forget about him, think about your kids and do your best to hold your head above water. Whoever is that family member next you, they are not helping you and they do not have your best interests at heart.

    GET UP FROM THE DAMN PAVEMENT.

  • GymJunkie43

    Let this picture serve as a basis to any woman with a daughter, so she can teach her the importance of “lord, have mercy” rainy day funds. I don’t care how rich your high school Boo is, you need to have your own pennies. If you give a man the power to take you from nothing to something, he can take you from something back down to nothing. Instead of shopping, she could’ve been going to school and by the time he traded her in for a better model, she could’ve been a lawyer, dentist, etc with no school loans! Damm all that high school sweetheart mess, every month she should’ve returned a handbag or pair of shoes and put the $$ in an investment account.

    • KeepingItReal

      I just think her situation is different. She wasn’t his boo. She was his wife. That title alone deserves more consideration. She didn’t marry an everyday Joe. DWade has made probably over $50 million dollars. She deserves more money. One million dollars is not enough. Sorry.

      • GymJunkie43

        Was she his physical therapist? Personal trainer? Off season coach? She was basically a nanny with a diamond ring. Maybe that’s the problem, women need to stop wanting half of an empire they didn’t help create. This is my whole point, rich men can afford top notch lawyers so just in case he wants to leave, either have your own rainy day fund, or be happy with whatever he gives you.

  • Stanley 001

    Can somebody call 911 for her? She needs help.

  • http://www.facebook.com/desiree.williams.731 Desiree Williams

    She just can’t let go of the lifestyle — she had to let go of her “baller’s wife” status. One million dollars will not set her up for life but it is certainly enough for her to start a new life if she chose to. Let go, Siovaughn. He has moved on. Get your life.

  • toobadsoosad

    when my husband and I decided to divorce he had money, I wanted none of it. Not because I was angry at him or anything like that. But I just didnt want anything that he had anymore. Why would I need it? In my opinion when you divorce you completely seperate from the person and anything attached to him. I had my own career. I left with what I came in with and what I earned during the course of my marriage and so did he. It’s because of my attitude about life and towards these situations that my exhusband came to me and asked me if I wanted some money or if I needed anything. Its because of my attitude that his girfriend had absolutely no problem with him making that offer to me. She didnt deem me a threat because I didnt present myself as one. But I said naw im good go live your life, thanks though…If we are all these truly independent, dont need a man for spit, and rah rah chicks, then why when it comes down to divorce its “You can get the hell out, f you and your crew, oh but leave that check in the mailbox though” That attitude is very lame and unnatractive.

  • toobadsoosad

    If you are a good mother, if you are completely doing everything you are supposed to do and can prove it, you would be hard pressed to find a judge who would take your children away. Judges dont make rulings soley on the two people standing before them, they make rulings based on their career’s and no judge wants to be known as unfairly taking away a mothers children, and in the rare cases when it happens, it can be rectified with proof meaning you as a mother need to show that you have the followng: Clean house & clothes, food, doctors appointments (for you and them), making sure you have relationships with your child’s teacher. makeing sure they are getting the most out of school, advising them spiritually,not leaving them unattended, facilitating a relationship with their father and staying in your own business (meaning their fathers actions after leaving your own home is no longer your concern). If you do all of that THEN you should have PROOF of that and bring it to court which would be in the form of household budgets, charcter witnesses, receipts, affidavits, Life insurance, wills, teacher and doctor reports. If she had done ALL of those things then when why did she go on Dr. Phill and not speak on any of that. She never spoke in comeplete sentences, she never provided proof to the situation. No matter her view of Dwade, its her responsibility to take care of herself so that one day she can be reunited with her children, but now if her children google her they will see this picture above. She does not make good choices. She is clearly in a lot of pain and if anyone else saw her on dr.phil, from the look in her eyes she is CLEARLY unstable…and lets be real, (this is based on the comments below) if most black mothers were doing all that I mentioned above we wouldnt have 65% of our middle schoolers reading at 4th grade levels. who’s fault is that? the baby daddy? The mean ole judge? Im a mother and i dont have the right to NOT do everything above and more, and if your attitude is anything less than that, in my opinion you need to step your game up.

    • KeepingItReal

      I don’t believe that’s true. I think those who have the most money can buy the best attorneys and win their case. It happens all the time. She could have been a good mother but DWade’s pockets were fat enough to get the kids.

  • Bubbles

    Never put yourself in the position of depending on any man or woman because things like this are bound to happen. Take care of you, have your own bank account etc. and if anything should occur you will be alright and your money won’t be tight. Dependency is not worth it!

  • Amazed

    I personally know Mrs. funches. She comes from two wonderful parents. I think after the cheating and divorce she lost it. I fell for the kids… Dwayne give her the money and let her live happy after….,

  • Kayla

    This is pure tomfoolery. At some point, you have to move on from a divorce and keep things civil for the sake of your children. This woman got a 1 million dollar settlement and threw it all away ..now she’s struggling.. WELL WHAT WAS SHE EXPECTING TO HAPPEN?! How about get this thing called a JOB???? Dwayne has his own life, he is not obligated to take care of her LAZY behind. Antics like this are why she doesn’t have her children now. Actions have consequences people.

  • 1Val

    The man and his money are gone. Of all the problems to have in life for a woman/man to be crying over being rejected seems trivial. Her attention seeking stunt mocks homeless people. I’m truly disgusted by this lady’s antics. Perhaps Oprah and Iyanla can pay her to appear on Fix My Life.

  • Niko

    This woman is full of crap. Their divorce is public record and easy to read. She’s a liar and a terrible mother. She used to leave the kids at home with no food, for days at a time while she was out being a groupie hoe for other rich ball players. That is why Wade fot full custody. He gave her a million + dollar settlement when he was not obligated to and she blew thru it like an idiot.

  • HOUSTON

    SHE NEEDS IYANLA TO FIX HER LIFE

  • Bits

    “siovaughn”….that is a ugly azz name!

  • Jaidore

    Like most of you have rightly said…I am not privileged to all the facts in this matter…but from what I have observed, how can a mother who says she loves and care for these kids not think this will in some way affect them…what she is doing will most likely not effect Dwade in anyway, but her kids obviously will be affected by her actions, especially if they are not strong individuals, since this whole drama unfolded I have not heard Dwade said anything negative about his ex-wife at no time, anyone can correct me. I think she needs to get HELP!!!!

  • helado31

    One day the boys will have their own stories to tell. Parents have no idea how what they do and say will affect their kids. There is always more to the story.

  • D L Jones

    Get with Shaq’s ex and become a regular on “Basketball Wives”……I have NO sympathy….she’s crazy/

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  • Atin

    They had an incident last year and she didn’t get her sons back home to Dwayne Wade. I think he takes fatherhood seriously. Nobody really knows what happened behind closed doors. For all we know, he may have custody because she has a mental illness and is unable to properly take care of her children. We get so caught up in stereotypes that we think the mother is always supposed to have custody of the children, when all mothers aren’t fit to be mothering. And it seems as though she wants to live off of his money, or maybe she just isn’t capable of working on her own because of mental illness. We will never really know.

  • FromUR2UB

    Before the movie, ’First Wives Club’, there had been a real group of Hollywood first wives in the 80s, who made the talk show circuit talking about their famous husbands who’d left them for other women. At first, it was easy to feel bad for them, but after seeing them doing the same thing, years later, they began to look pathetic. At some point, you have to stop watching for the sun to rise in the west, waiting for him to feel remorseful about the pain he caused. Even if he does express remorse, then what? I don’t see the point in giving someone the satisfaction of thinking that your life has stalled because they’re no longer in it? As a first wife, I guess I should be able to fully relate to Funches; but her behavior raises an eyebrow. I wonder if those close to her have begun to advise her to get some therapy. Furthermore, I can’t feel sorry for her because she can’t maintain a lifestyle. Big deal! In life, things happen, and sometimes you have to scale back to survive. I’m not convinced that she’s really concentrating on law school, since she devotes a great deal of time to this kind of activity. In time, she might be able to recover some of that lifestyle if she focused on rebuilding her life instead of trying to elicit public sympathy and defame Wade.

  • guest

    Main reason i don’t like D. Wade. I think he is REAL fake! Not that his ex doesn’t have a part in this as they are both acting crazy! However, it’s been reported and true that when D. Wade was in high school and college that his ex wife’s family took him in for a period of time when they were together and his mom was on drugs. IMO he main point for getting custody was so he didn’t have to pay a lot of money to his ex wife. Many more male celebs are starting to do this. Not that they don’t care about their kids but it’s in spite of their ex when they mainly have nannies to care for their kids when they can be with one of the parents most of the time. I get that she is very hurt.

    Not only did he cheat but then to just kick her out then take her kids and bring Gabby to play mama when she was there since day one when he had nothing?!! It’s easy for us to say just to move on but i know i’d probably be mad as h3ll too! However, D. Wade is going to get his so she has to try her best to get herself together for her sons b/c they will come to understand the true story about their father so he may have them now but who is to say how they will feel about him in the future!

    • KeepingItReal

      I agree 100%. There has to be something to say about loyalty and commitment. She was there when he was in high school. Her family took him in when his mom was in the streets on drugs. No one could have ever dreamed he would be an NBA star. In addition, she probably stayed home to care for her kids versus abandoning them and having a career. I just think he owes her more. He doesn’t want to give his ex-wife and mother of his kids $2 million dollars but I guarantee his attorneys and financial advisors are getting more than $2 million, each. Take the high road. I’m sure his sons don’t want to see their mom distressed. This side of D-Wade shows a mean-spirited side…which I don’t like. Black athletes have no problem giving money to charities that support white people, give money to white attorneys and white accountants (who are ripping you off) but want to play “hard ball with your ex-wife and mother of your kids? Smh

      • Tanisha

        he lived there for about 6 months and when he taken in he was one of the best in his age group so why not take him in? also provided for everything when he got to college and the nba. gave her 1 MILI after their divorce and the main thing isnt that he doesnt want to pay. the main thing is that he is a good and loving father.
        i know both of them very well but sio needs to stop being so angry this aint about the children its about her not spending the money she had and that shes still in love with dwyane.
        her family are also the one keeping her acting crazy

  • Kam

    I have never tipped my hat to the kept woman, and this one of the reasons why. I don’t care if your married to Bill Gates, or Bill the fishmonger as a woman you should always be in a position to take care of yourself in the event your spouse is no longer willing/able (through death, divorce, or disability) to help take care of the household. Ms. Funches needs to get over this situation and move on with her life. If Dewayne Wade is truly a shifty man as she insists then in due time he will find himself on the short end of the stick. In the mean time she needs to do the work necessary to remain in her childrens life.

  • Cha Cha

    Instead of crying, ranting and raving on the streets… being mad at the new girl and all this unnecessary stuff, get your life together… How will this behavior help you get your kids back or even be in their life? People lose spouses, money, houses, friends and whatever all the time… You pick yourself up, downgrade to what YOU can afford, get a job and handle your business… If you couldn’t afford the lifestyle that your ex provided for you, then it’s time to create your own lifestyle… This is why I’ve always had my own money, own place, own car, etc… I never wanted to depend on anyone for anything… these days people don’t stay in relationships like my grandparents for 60 plus years… just like with anything else… in the event of an emergency, you prepare…

  • Big P Bastard

    Don’t know the whole situation but if he has custody of the kids, what is she doing to help him support their children (not that he needs her help but she should help with their financial needs however small it may be?) if she would spend less time worrying about his business and relationship(s) and get herself together, she could then look for a damn job!

  • GA Girl

    Ladies, we have got to start investing & caring about our lives just as much as we do our spouses. We get so wrapped up in their lives that if the relationship fails we don’t have backup plan. My dad taught me to always be self sufficient so things like this don’t happen. He says always pay yourself first & divide the money between a saving & a FU account. So if my spouse began treating me badly I could say FU & leave. I wouldn’t have to beg & take s*&# from a man to be able to survive.

    • KeepingItReal

      That’s why American families (black and white) are dysfunctional. Someone needs to stay home and care for the kids. But, women no longer trust men to be “men of their word” when they get married so it’s like two people with two separate agendas playing “house”. The woman has to invest in her own career because…deep down…she can’t count on her husband to be the provider. It doesn’t work. Meanwhile…no one is raising the children. If a wife cannot rely on a husband to be a financial provider so that she can concentrate on caring for the kids and the home….you have nothing. And, ladies, do not respond that you are a single mother and a provider. Because, I guarantee you, at least one of those jobs…if not both…you are not doing well. Look at kids today in our society. Their behavior didn’t come out of thin air. You may be a single mother….you may even being doing the best that you can…but, that’s still not enough. Kids need two parents. Unless both parents learn to care about their kids more than having one upped their exes…kids will continue to live in peril.

      • guest

        Not all women want to stay at home. I want a career and not because I can’t count on my husband, but because that is where my heart is. My husband is currently taking care of everything while I continue to work towards my degree.

        • Guest360

          Life does not line up with what want. God forbid something happened to your husband where he couldn’t or didn’t want to be the breadwinner what then? Trust is not going to put food on the table or pay ever expensive doctors bills. There is great value in a stay at home mom. But I can not in good conscience advocate depending on a man that I ciuld never be self sufficient on my own. Life happens all too often for you to be caught up in what you want versus making preparations for what could happen if you don’t get want you want.

          • KeepingItReal

            You stated “in good conscience you would not advocate depending on a man….”. Why would you marry someone you can’t depend on? I’m just curious. Thanks.
            P.S. My comments are based only on married couples not baby mommas/daddies, jumpoffs, etc.

            • Guest360

              I could ask the same of you? Why would marry a man with the sole purpose of kicking your feet up and letting him make and worry about supporting a grown woman by himself? It goes both ways. And wtf? Either you didn’t read my post or you responded to the wrong one. I to was talking about married couples.

              • KeepingItReal

                Ok. I get it. People today have no clue with respect to identifying and/or recognizing a marriage. It’s a foreign concept. Many have never seen a marriage outside of television….have never seen two everyday people work together for a common cause. There was a time when men were expected to provide the financial support. Also, how does “raising children” equate to “kicking your feet up? Oh…nvm…I understand….many women today don’t know how to raise children. Many sit babies in front of tvs and feed them chicken mcnuggets. That’s why you have time to “kick your feet up”… My bad. Thanks for the insight:)

                • Guest360

                  I know full well what a real marriage looks like. I just don’t agree with a woman depending on a man to take care of her when she’s fully capable of doing it herself nor do I agree with a woman being the one to raise children that she did not bring into this world by herself. That is not a balanced partnership. Taking care of the children should be a 50/50 job just as women should be bringing in some kind of income as well. If not to helpher household then definitely to maintain a level of independence that will serve her well if obstacles weee to come up. But I get it.You don’t like when people bring up points that run contrary to what youbelieve. Youd rather act like a child than acknowledge you might be wrong about some things. You might want to get a handle on that before you talk to others. It might help you communicate better with other adults.

                  • KeepingItReal

                    Partnership does not necessarily mean 50/50…that’s unrealistic. Sometimes one partner has to carry more than the other or vice versa. Your way of thinking is the reason why families are dysfunctional and children are being abandoned. Some one should be HOME raising the kids. Both people should not have to bring in an income. For centuries women stayed at home and families lived off one income. You mean to tell me it can’t happen today? Parents have just become too selfish and it’s an “all about me” mentality. I just hope you aren’t one of those people who wonder why kids today are acting out.

                    • Guest360

                      So you’re saying its the woman who needs to carry the majority of the weight instead of splitting the workload equally? Welcome to the 1950s where women depend on men to survive and put food in their mouths and are better suited for household duties than living a well rounded lives and has no identity other than being a housewife. Congrats on setting us back 60 years. Im sure you’re also a strong advocate for women being popped in the mouth by their husbands if they step out of line, right? Wow….

                    • KeepingItReal

                      You’re mentality is hell bent on seeing everything in a negative light. You’re first statement above totally ignored what I typed. Just an FYI…in a marriage between a man and a woman…MEN are “partners”, too. You just seem to have an anti-man vibe about you. I hope you don’t have kids.

                    • Guest360

                      There you go assuming again. I love men. I just don’t agree that a woman should have to sacrifice any and everything for a man and his kids. If marriage is a partnership no one should be doing more of the work than another. If you’re capable to do so, everyone should have a job. Even if its just part time. And children do best when BOTH of their parents are equally involved in childcare. Not just the woman. Its the 21st century. Women can and should have aspirations beyond being a wife and mother. Afterall, your kids won’t be kids forever and ish happens where you may not be able to depend on a man forever. Just sayin. Ish happens that you can’t predict. Better to be prepared than not.

      • Zaza

        I take your point but it’s a little one-sided- blaming it all on the women for not trusting a man to fully support them, then attacking single mothers as ‘not doing well’ at being a mother and provider.How dare you? Do you think most single mothers are in that position by choice?Most have no choice, a man promised them love and protection then let them down and abandoned them and their children. Breakdown of a relationship or not, a man should still be there for his child and provide financially. My mother was left by my selfish abusive father and did what he would not; raised us well, worked hard to provide for us and got us through college. She is a fantastic parent.

        How are you going to blame women for not trusting men to provide and being single mothers, yet not also place blame on the men who let them down and make them lose trust in men? Or acknowledge that it is men abandoning their children- that make the women single mothers??? Even if separated, you can still co-parent but many of these irresponsible men refuse to even do that.
        Wow. Try a little balance in your arguments because that is dumb as hell.

        • KeepingItReal

          Stating a fact does not equate to “blame”. But, it appears to me that trust is no longer a part of marriages (not typing about baby mommas, etc. but husbands and wives). And, this lack of trust is the basis for dysfunctional families. Both parents are responsible for raising their kids. But, I do believe kids need to be nurtured at home during their formative years…be it by a stay at home mom or dad. Either way, not trusting your husband or wife enough to seriously plan a future that involves someone staying home (and forfeiting a career…even if temporarily) to raise YOUR kids…is sad. Just MO

  • Gimmeabreak78

    Even if D. Wade owes her money, she is totally claless for airing their dirty laundry publicly. It doesn’t matter if one’s spouse is famous or not. A marriage (or an ex-marriage) is a private relationship not to be exploited for public consumption.

  • NJ2

    So, the prevailing mindset is that she was done wrong. Consider that most states place a limit on spousal support in accordance with the length of the marriage (not relationship). Child Support is suspended when custody changes. I am all for men paying their fair share, but being a good steward and getting your own is advisable.

  • slimm

    If he has sole custody, he owes her nothing!!!

  • NYC Gal

    God don’t like ugly! Dwayne Wade will get his karma. I don’t know how cold hearted Gabby and desperate to be with a man who treats the mother of his kids like this. Dwayne needs to give his ex-wife the money she deserves and stop with this bull$h*t!!

    • Guest360

      He gave her money when the got divorced. Why does he need to give her anymore? Is she not a grown woman? Or a fully capable person to get up and work a 9-5 like everybody else? Its not as if she’s got the kids or ailing parent she’s taking care of. So why should he fund her lifestyle?

      • NYC Gal

        Look this woman only wanted to be a wife and mother. She didn’t spend anytime focusing on a career while she was married to him. That was her choice and Dwayne Wade supported that choice at the time. Sihvaugh only wants her fair share of the assets. She married Dwayne bfore he was famous and I think she should be given her fair share. If she wants to take her fair share of those assets and invest it in an education, so be it. But that should be her choice to make.

        • Guest360

          She got her fair share when they divorced. She is not entitled to anymore of HIS assets now that they’re no longer married nor is she taking care of the kids. Your dreams falling apart is not excuse to sit on your behind, lamenting what could have been instead of what is. She is no longer a full time wife and mother and therefore has plenty of time to figure out new dreams and going forward with them. Its the 21st century. Even 80 year old women are going back to school to find and follow their passions. So she has no excuse. Pick yourself up and move on. But for the love of a that is holy, stop looking for someone to take care of you when you’re more than capable of doing it yourself. If she directed all this energy into something productive instead of filing lawsuits and demonstrations on the street, she’d be fine

          • NYC Gal

            I’m sure if she didn’t have her kids taken away from her and if she had gotten her fair share in the divorce settlement, she wouldn’t be in this situation. I hope Dwayne Wade gets his karma asap!

            • Guest360

              She got her fair share and squandered it away on lawyers to try get more money she was not entitled to get. Her fault. She had joint custody until she decided to show her tail. That was reduced to visitation. She had visitation until she decided to forgo legal stipulations on her time with the kids and kidnapped them, essentially terminating her rights. Again, her fault. The way I see it, karma is happening to Siovaughn for choosing greed and revenge over the welfare of her children. And she still hasn’t learnef her lesson with this mesd she just did. Until she lets go and moves on, she’ll forvever have nothing.

              • NYC Gal

                Dwayne Wade should have been paying for her lawyers not Siohvaughn! That’s some BS right there! Siohvaughn is entitled to half of all his assets up until the time they were married. A measly settlement that was used up for lawyers and to pay the IRS does not count as fair share!

                • Guest360

                  And that’s exactly what she got. But instead of walking away with what she received, she wanted more. Unlimited access to money that no longer belonged to her. How is that fair for him to have to pay her bills, her car, her mortgage and they’re not even married anymore? She got more than enough in the divorce that would have set her up for life but instead used it on SEVERAL legal teams (read super expensive) to try to get this man to pay her freakin mortgage to house neither him nor his kids even live in! That is on her. No one else and certainly not a man she’s been divorced from for years now.

                • iammyfatherson

                  he should be paying for her lawyers when she is filling a lawsuit against him are u serious ??

              • guest

                Karma? Really? 360, your warped way of thinking is astonishing. Dwade desacrated his marriage vows by having countless affairs, yet Siovaughn is subject to Karma. Did Dwade think of the welfare of his children when he chose not to honor his marriage? Particularly, when study after study proves the benefits of a marital setting in raising children. Oh yeah, I can see why Dwade would escape Karma. How do you know she will forever have nothing? What are you God? Gotta love sanctamonious people! When her experience is yours, comment. Until then, have several seats!

                • Guest360

                  Well what do you call it? Mind you I’m not the one that brought up karma. I dont believe in it. But its in the convo so why not go with it?….he’s got the money, the kids, the mansion, and a partner by his side. She’s got a hot spot on concrete and a cardboard sign. If you believe in karma, why is he living the dream while she’s living a nightmare? From my understanding of how karma works, it works against women as well not just men

        • xxdiscoxxheaven

          she dont seem to be struggling too hard with that weave in her head.

          • Guest360

            Or from the lawsuit she filed 2 weeks ago. But she’s destitute. Nope! Just greedy and vengeful.

            • guest

              Yawnnnn, another let’s all take the high road no matter how grimy some dude is to you perspective. If she is vengeful, so what? She should be after everything she did for him before the fame and money. In many ways, she played a role in where he is today. Don’t get me started on birthing his two sons that he parades around as his pride and joy, but yet disrespects their mother. Are you serious?

              • Smh

                She played a role in where he is today? You are right. She played a role in WHY he is no longer with her. Career wise tho? HE did that. She can be as vengeful as she wants to be, but guess what?? She isn’t doing anything but making herself look stupid. They divorced YEARS ago. Just because she is crying doesn’t mean that she was the victim in all of this. She has ADMITTED to cheating and partying and lying. Therefore, she is just as responsible as he is for the relationship ending.

              • Guest360

                Since when is taking the high road a bad idea??? I think I’ve heard it all lol. No wonder our community is so screwd up. You got people taking idiotic advice such as yours and its driving them insane. Newsflash, taking tge high road is for your benefit. No one else. The people you like to think youre hurting are out here getting involved in relationships, getting jobs, watching their children grow, getting a great amount of success while youre doing what? Sitting on a sidewalk bashing your ex? You sure showed him! Lol. She hates him so much yet she’s made her entire life about him how you think this is something she SHOULD be doing makes me question your sanity too. No one should be filled with so much vengence its taken over there life. Are YOU serious or being stubborn and facetious?

              • Laine

                “…after everything she did for him before the fame”. Everything she did, should have bene done without expecting anyting in return. That’s real love. She may have played a role, but she received money in the divorce settlement! And what she received was her fair share ! Where is that money?

  • Issa Lopez

    And this is why you do not put all your eggs in one basket

    • NYC Gal

      When I mentioned yesterday that Savannah should have delayed having kids until she had a career. One poster told me some women only aspire to be wives and mothers and if they’re given the opportunity should be able to take advantage of it. I reply by mentioning Sihvaughn’s situation. There’s nothing wrong with being a mom and wife but things like this happens more often than people think. Sihvaughn not only had her kids taken away from her but she wasn’t given her fair share of the assets.

      Sheila Johnson, BET former owner Bob Johnson’s ex wife, she stated that she almost didn’t get her fair share in her divorce settlement. She said that what saved her was she kept records of the investment/contributions that she made into BET and she had to bring witnesses who knew about her contributions at BET. In the early years at BET, Shelia was the one that suggested the name BET and she paid the electricity bills to keep the lights on. Just imagine she helped built BET and Bob Johnson got his shark lawyers to try to discredit her. It almost drive her insane. So I’m not surprise that Sihvaughn is going through this crap.

      • Issa Lopez

        And here is where her back up plan should have come into play, so sitting on the sidewalk crying is irrelevant. If you fail to prepare, prepare to fail. Ladies, it’s called “vex money”. If a man starts acting suspicious you start making a stash.

        • Kam

          I can say nothing else but co-sign! If she think she is sitting in the heat with that cardboard mustering sympathy she is wrong. She is making herself look foolish.

          • Ms E

            And the time spent sitting there on the streets, she could have been sending out resumes. Now no one will hire her after seeing this photo of a mental woman with $1million in the bank crying about her ex-husband. They would be thinking she could snap any minute. Who wants to employ that, knowing she can’t handle the pressure of work or if you ask her to work over-time.

        • KeepingItReal

          I’m sorry but I’m a romantic. You shouldn’t have a “back-up” plan if you are getting married. You really should believe the two of you will be together forever. If you need a backup plan…don’t get married.

          • Smh

            That’s cute, but what happens if they die? You planned on being a stay at home mom and never work, now you are widowed with kids. Someone has to pay bills. Insert…back up plan. LIFE doesn’t always go the way you think it SHOULD go.

            • KeepingItReal

              Wow…I wouldn’t marry you. Someone who has a “back-up” plan to my premature demise? Hmmmm…ok
              At the end of the day…you cannot account for everything. Spouses usually have some type of life insurance policy. But, outside of that…what else do you need?

              • Guest360

                Um….a life insurance policy IS a back up plan. Its great to be a romantic but being a realist is imperative. Life is not a fairytale where you’ll never be tested with hardships and obstacles. To not prepare for them is incredbly naive, especially when children are involved. Romance will not save you from a home invasion. Faith will not keep you immortal. And being a romantic, I’m sorry, is not a guarentee you’ll remain married. Otherwise no one would get divorced. This is life.Those that do well accept is hardships. Those that live in the land of naivete do not as evidence by Siovaughn.

        • Ms E

          Amen.

  • That’s My Story

    You’re joking right? This is a true sign of someone with mental issues. If this is not a manic depressive episode, then I have never seen one in my life. (Work in a hospital with mental patients). If her family truly loved her, they would get her some help and stop trying to blame her issues on her ex husband, any of her 12 attorneys, Gabriel Union, the judge that decoded against her, it any of the other excuses they keep coming up with!!!!!!! She needs mental-professional help!!!

    • Ms E

      This is what happens when you stop taking your meds.

  • Castano

    Are you kidding me??? This is the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN! She doesnt need mental help HE DOES! The worse thing you can do to a Mother is take her babies. He is Punishing her relentlessly. He is DESTROYING HER! Look at her face, what are you going to say when she commits suicide??? No, better yet, what are the children that she gave birth to going to say when the INTERNET TELLS HER STORY of what happen to their mama??? HE COULD HAVE HELPED HER BUT INSTEAD HE LAUGHED AT HER AND TURNED UP HIS NOSE. He may have a karma of finding out his boys, blood of her blood, are more like HER than they are like him! Then what??? It’s so hard to see now when they are young but once they hit adolescence and adulthood they will be more judgmental and have their OWN mind. They will HATE HIM!!! They might even rebel and do everything he doesnt want them to do. He will LOSE control due to OVER control. He better let go of that EVIL GRUDGE, make Peace, HELP HER, let her be apart of the kids lives, before it’s TOO LATE. Stop making it out that this woman is mental or wrong just because YOU dont understand her and all that she does.

    • Guest360

      Siovaughn, girl is that you? Lol. Sorry. It just seems like you’re a little too invested in this. You don’t understand the situation anymore than anyone of us do so chill out. Its not that serious. In other news, D Wade didn’t take her children away from her. The courts did because of behavior like this. And if she really wanted to gain back custody, she’d spend more time trying to find a job and some peace of mind rather than sitting in 90 degree heat trying to stick it to someone who isn’t paying her no mind. Just sayin’. As hot as it is out here, no sane person voluntarily does something so dumb that’s only going to hurt themselves in the end.

      • guest

        A little too invested in this? Folks here are calling this woman crazy without knowing all the facts about her mental state which Dwade clearly contributed to, but she is invested? Right! He may not be paying her any mind, but I bet he is embarrased by all of this. Clearly that was her intent. As for hurting herself in the end, you don’t think the fact that she does not have custody of the kids she gave birth to and has to watch the woman who had an affair with her husband raise them, hurting her more than a bunch of strangers’ perception?

        • Guest360

          So you don’t think it’s crazy for someone to voluntarily sit in 90+ degree heat just to stick it to her ex? And why would he be embarrassed? She’s not his child or his woman anymore. Her actions reflect upon her. Not him. And how is this not hurting her? You talk about how perception doenst mean anything but completely forget that perception is what caused her to lose custody in the first place. If you look like a nut, act like a nut, then what makes you think a judge is going to leave the well being of children with you when you can’t even take care of yourself? Like I said, if she spent more time working on herself then maybe she could back custody of her children. But with antics like these, I wouldn’t give her a hamster to babysit. She’s too focused on revenge she can’t see the forest through the trees.

          • Castano

            360 sit and spin with that IGNORANT crap. You sound like some dude that is resentful he has to pay child support.

            • Guest360

              You should take your own advice. Hard to be “some dude resentful of paying child support” when I’m a female college student with no kids lol. You know what they say about those that ASSume :) Either debate my points or ignore my posts altogether. But I dont do personal attacks. Thats a child’s game. Clearly you never grew out of the sandbox. So with that I say goodnight.

          • NYC Gal

            I saw a white woman who was married to a wealthy man had her kids taken away from her and this woman ran behind a car holding on screaming and crying. She was in the same situation Sihvaugh is in now. Her ex didn’t want to give her any money and he didn’t want her to keep the kids so she could get money.

          • guest

            I am not in her shoes and neither are you, so you can sit on your high horse and judge her actions all you want. You don’t know what he put her through to bring her to this state. Obviously, her actions reflect on her, but he is probably still embarrassed by the entire situation. We are talkin about it, aren’t we? She lost her kids becse he has the money for the best lawyers, influene, and power…period! I am pretty certain that she was a good mother. Maybe she is focused on justice and you are interreting it as revenge. And to answer your question, no I don’t think it’s crazy. I am not a medical professional qualified to diagnose her and neither are you.

            • Guest360

              Your hypocrisy is rich. “What he put her through?” How you can get on me for not knowing what she went through when you’re doing the same thing? “Get off my horse”. Gtfoh! You should probably get off yours before you ever get the nerve to talk about someone else. Because newsflash….unless I’m talking to Siovaughn or D wade, you don’t know what went on between them either. Your opinion is based on facts coming from the media just as much as mine. So have several seats. Your opinion is no more valid than mine.

              • guest

                My hypocrisy is rich? The difference between me and you is that you attached Siovaughn personally, but had nothing to say about DWade as though he is innocent, so yeah, you are on your high horse. You didn’t go through what she went through, so you are not an expert on her state of mind or what you think she should or shouldn’t do. Who do you think you are? Therefore, maybe you should have several seats! Your opinion is just that, an opinion. Stop trying to pass of your thoughts/opinions as facts Siovaughn should live by.

                • Guest360

                  I never said he was innocent. Stop ASSuming and address the points I actually made instead of the ones I didn’t. And why shouldn’t I talk about Siovaughn? What this man did or did not do is besides the point. She’s the one acting a fool in public, looking like sideshow Bob crying and carrying on like she’s got nothing better to do with her time but look like an idiot. Life sucks. But guess what? It happens to all of us. But I’m not going to cosign this woman disrespecting herself and her kids in public. For what? Money? Really? Its important but not enough to lose your pride and self-respect over and yes that’s exactly what she’s doing. Surely no one believes this demonstration of hers is going to get her anything but side eyes and a trip to the looney bin. My point stands. Get a job. Make your own money and leave this man alone. Why focus your mind on a man that’s not focused on you?

        • inessa

          Love this! You see? when it comes to having custody many women say: “she does not have custody of the kids she gave birth to”
          and when it comes to PAY, they say : “it takes two to tango..that are his children..she is the mother of HIS children”” looooooooool I think that what hurts the most is the fact that she doesn’t get any money and that Dwayne is not suffering and enjoys his life with Gabby while she feels miserable..I understand this but she needs to be strong and pray a lot..

    • guest

      Couldn’t agree with you more! I am amazed at all of these women on here giving her a hard time. That man made her crazy! He better know that if it wasn’t for his money or status, Union wouldn’t look at him twice! His ex-wife had his back when he was a nobody. Shame on him to treat his kids’ mother like this.

      • Castano

        Thank You Toni! My point exactly. Now my comments are moderated because of another CONTROLLING type of individual.

        • Castano

          Everyone we just figured out Guest360 is the Moderator of the post! He/She doesnt like it when someone have a valid point- she wont post it! So for anyone still interested, I and others are taking our debate to the other great NUMEROUS sites discussing this! Repost. Nobody has time for a controlling sneaky individual who only post oppinions she/he like on a subject and dont respect other people’s time. Moving Along!

      • NYC Gal

        All of these posters ain’t women!

      • inessa

        tired of women thinking they deserve an award for being with someone when he was a nobody..well she was a NOBODY HERSELF and he stayed with her!!!! Than he became SOMEBODY , she stayed a NOBODY and he stayed with her! So what??!!

        • Ms E

          I like that.

        • PREACH!

          OH LAWD!! SAY IT AGAIN!!

      • Ms E

        I think Siovaughn made herself crazy, her expectations were high, and when her world started crumbling, she fell. You guys keep saying karma will get you, looks like it got Siovaughn. Don’t let this picture fool you, her husband was playing his butt off to take care of his family. What did she do to keep that going? When you start doing underhanded things trying to be slick, that’s when karma comes back and get you. His career has taken off, is that karma for doing good? Yes. Her karma has her sitting on the sidewalk for being devious, and until she faces reality and take responsibility on her part of why the divorce happened, she will continue to sit on the sidewalk,

        • Castano

          Damn you joking right??? How “Slick” was she??? She must not have been very good at it because excuse me… SHE SITTING ON A CURB WITH A SIGN! Let’s see YOUR MAMA out there on a corner with a sign crying then let people who dont even know her like YOURSELF call her things like “underhanded” and lets see how YOU feel then Amen.

  • MissRealuminatti

    Now, I’m staring to understand the drama Gabrielle Union must have went through

    • guest

      Who cares what Gabrielle Union went through? She was having an affair with this woman’s husband!!! No wonder she is crazy now! She stood by him when no one else was there. Peel away the NBA accolades, money, etc. and she was there for him when he was a nobody, even sleeping on her family’s couch. This is the thanks she gets from this guy? She deserves better. She is the mother of his childen, not Union or “Gabby” as folks here call her. Show some RESPECT dwade. What a disgrace.

      • guest 7

        She was sleeping around too. She lost her kids because of things like this. She needs mental help and if you check Dwyane Wade instagram he ain’t got no worries

        • Castano

          YET. He aint got no worries YET. All dogs have their day.

          • guest

            Amen! The wheels of justice grind slowly, but smoothly. If she was sleeping around, it was probably in response to his sleeping around. You say Dwade has not worries like that’s a surprise. Why would he?

        • Serenity

          You people sure know alot about their personal intimate business.

      • Dawna

        Dwayne Wade has stated that when he and his wife separated, he started dating a lot of women. Gabrielle Union didn’t come into the picture until later. I’m sure that having to see your ex on tv and in magazines with a beautiful, famous woman must be difficult, but Dwayne and Siovaughn broke up their own marriage, not Gabrielle and it’s not fair to continue blaming her.

        • inessa

          spare your energy..they won’t understand anything!

      • Tanisha

        he showed respect and was quiet.
        it was his ex wife that tried to make him look bad in the public eye coming with allegations about std then admitted that she lied about it and she even confessed that she cheated.

        Shes broke now? she should’ve saved all that money she spent on her lover.
        he slept on her family’s couch for how long, he lived there for about 6 months.

        people are trying to make it seem like he slept and lived there for 10 years lol.

        Dwyane took care of her in college paying for everything and took care of her for 4 more years after the his nba draft so it aint like he got on and dumped her.

        Dwyane cheated on her but it was probably not with gabby. Sio know the reason why her marriage failed but as scorned woman she decided to blame everything and everyone except herself.
        Shes still in love with dwyane and probably realised that she made a mistak by losing him and his money.

        My brother had the same issue with his scorned ex that cheated on him.

        • Castano

          @he showed respect and was quiet” just because you are quiet about your business Do NOT mean you are respectful. In his case he is just Evil.

          • Castano

            Devil Wade

      • Ms E

        This ex-wife was sleeping around and partying a lot too. Not to say 2 wrongs don’t make a right. But all this drama between the Wade’s were happening way before Gabby Union got in the picture because no one knew there was trouble. Now Gabby is the most famous name either of the two were messing around with makes her more memorable. The Wife was messing around with guys from the club she met, Wade had groupies. Then along came Gabby and people started noticing.

  • unque43

    She has to have some mental issues. I am sure she has gotten money just from being his ex and the mother of his children. He has custody (I think). If she is about to lose everything its from her neglectful ways of handling her finances. It gets me when people men/women marry someone who is rich. They think they are supposed to make more money than the person who actually makes the money. I have never seen her run up and down on a basketball ball court. wearing her knees out. If she is broke it’s because she lives to high on the hog and don’t make the funds to replace it. She needs to get educated on financing.

    • inessa

      And we won’t say this enough!! WHILE you are with this ballers….SAVE! SAVE SAVE!SAVE!SAVE!!! Did I say it??! SAVE!!!!

      • Mia

        And get some properties in your name while at it

  • Barbara Codner

    OMGGGGGGG!! If Dwayne is the bad guy, she is making herself look like the villain and him like the victim. She is truly bugging out!!

    • NYC Gal

      I don’t think so. Remember Steve Harvey’s ex-wife had to post videos on youtube to get Steve Harvey to pay her rightful share of income and she was almost driven to insanity with him trying to prevent her from having anything.

  • Toni

    If what she says is true, Wade needed to handled his business right and set her up like I’m sure he promised her when he didn’t have nothing and she was there for him back then. I’m sure the end of her marriage did effect her a great deal and to be tossed with hardly anything. He can very well afford it. I do think she is going a bit to far with sitting outside with the sign and all…They both need to stop this madness and handle it at least for their children sake.

    • unque43

      Now you know no judge just let a divorce of this magnitude without her getting some money. She needs to get up from there get her self together. and get some help for her children. She needs not to do this. People are not going to look at Dwade any less favorable because she wants to take it to the streets. You clearly know she has issues.

      • NYC Gal

        Look judges have sided with the wealthy men before. Not because a woman was married and had kids with a wealthy man, she automatically gets money. I have heard several cases where the kids have been taken away from these women and they don’t get any money. Remember Sivaughn only wanted to be a mother and wife, she never plan that this would happen to her.

        • Mia

          I saw her on an tv show on the E channel she admitted that she cheated and partied alot. Wade sent her back to Michigan, she had custody of the boys. She thought Wade was going to take her back but like most men they can’t handle their wives cheating, so he moved on and it just happened to be with Gabrielle. She then tried to sue Gabrielle for traumatizing her sons claimimg wade & gabrielle had sex in front of her sons. she lost custody of children for being an unfit mom looking at this picture makes me believe she has mental issues. What she should’ve done is write a tell all or get on the cast of basketball wives, now she’ll probably never get her boys back

          • NYC Gal

            I read that both accused each other of cheating among other things. I think this situation should have been handled more diplomatically. Give Siohvaughn half of all the assets and joint custody of the children and keep it moving. I don’t know if doing a tell all book and acting a d*mn fool on TV for a few bucks will solve anything.

            • inessa

              if the tables were turned around (siovaughn the one making the money and dwayne her husband NOT working and admitting the cheating) , I’m sure you would have said that too (irony). If she was a man , people would have said how she is a pig and a bum and need to get a job..

              @siovaughn Get your life together and held your head up, and FOREMOST don’t let them see you sweat!!.

              • NYC Gal

                Look I’m a fair and reasonable person. If Siohvaughn was in Dwayne’s position the same rules would apply bcos he would have been with her bfore she started making money and is entitled to his fair share of the assets!

            • huh

              give her half of all the assets? are you serious?! your comment is wicked.

              this woman is money hungry! she gets money from dwyane but as usual with these women they dont want to work. she acts like she doesnt get money but she really do get money and its alot. so she can and could affort to rent or buy something..

              She messed up

              • Ms E

                I agree. Just because you were married does not mean you automatically get half of the assets if you divorce. You have to admit, that some women have different agenda’s why they marry who they marry. There are some who will give you kids because they know that’s what you wanted, but in their heads, they don’t even like kids. But they like money, and they know you are heading upward in your career. She gave him two kids to shut him up, but where she lost her mind wasn’t the fact that he got custody of the kids because she know the kids are in good hands. It was the flow of the money that pushed her over the edge. She can’t shop like she use to, she have to downgrade her neighborhood, she have to……get……a……..job.

                • Huh

                  i AGREE

    • Ms E

      Wade gave her $1million settlement, plus paid her lawyers after the ruling. If she can’t start her life over with $1million, something is wrong with her. That’s more than what she came into the relationship with, as long as she don’t try to live the life she had with him in a mansion and all high class shopping sprees. Her College degree is going to waste while she sits on the ground crying about what she lost. She is just proving she was in it for the money. If she gets her act together, I’m sure she could visit the kids. But now it would have to be supervised after publically showing just how unstable and desperate she could get.

  • Sagittarius81

    Unfortunately, I saw this today and it was 95 degrees out. I work at the PNC Bank near the Daley Center where she was at and my co-worker and I was going to lunch and she sat there crying about how her ex refused to let her see her boys and she had no home or a car and her ex owes her. I’m shocked she didn’t mentioned Gabby. I just hope this woman get help for the sake of her boys.

    • fabulous

      Honestly she seems a bit unstable. So what you don’t have access to his account. What happened to get a job??? I don’t know the specifics but if this is any indication as to how she handles her business, I think those kids are where they need to be and she’s getting just what she deserves. Having a temper tantrum does not warrant you millions, ex or no ex. Maybe if she handled herself differently she’d get more sympathy.

    • GymJunkie43

      I dont think it’s mental instability. She used the children as bait to secure continuance of the Mrs Wade lifestyle and the judge saw right through her. Dwayne gave her a 1M severance check, which is pretty nice considering he has full custody, and she wanted more. So she ended up with 0.

  • Drew

    Get your entire life, Siohvaughn. SMH.

  • Guest

    Obviously there are some deep mental issues going on with this woman. This situation is very sad. I hope that she gets the help she needs and is able to be the mother her sons need. I don’t know if the end of her marriage caused her issues or are the reason the marriage ended, but whatever the case, she needs to get it together and soon. She’s going to miss her children’s childhood being caught up in madness!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • NYC Gal

      The law ain’t on the side of these wives. Okay? These players have good lawyers who can work around the system. It samething happened to this white woman who was married to a wealthy man and he took away her kids so to prevent her from getting any money and she was shown on a video dragging behind a car crying.

      • Guest

        He filed for joint custody in the beginning. Meaning, he had no problem breaking her off with a little money as long as she took care of the kids. She didn’t want joint custody. Now, she has to live with the consequences of wanting to be greedy. It’s life and she needs to move on!

        • GymJunkie43

          Exactly!! She tried to play hardball and that ball ricocheted right back at her.

          • Maria

            You really need to have some compassion

    • TheTruth

      It’s unfortunate that you are so ignorant! Obviously you do not have a child…if you are a woman, I pray that one day you don’t have to endure something like this. But just so you know…losing your kids (because your ex wants to be spiteful…not because of anything else!) will drive ANY mother insane. Another woman is raising her two boys ok??? She has NOTHING to lose. You need to think what would drive a person to do this…her heart is bleeding. Have some damn compassion!

      • Laine

        Hmm, sorry that’s not what happened! First of all, she went to court FIRST demanding full custody, so obviously she didn’t think that “losing children” was such a big deal when she wasn’t going to be the one losing. He wanted joint custody, but after she filed for full custody, so did he,and he won. Well, nobody is a winner, but anyway. And the bigger question is, why isn’t she working?? She is a grown up able woman, with some education, why is she not spending her time searching for a job, instead of crying on the street with a sign? She is the one that’s first responsible for herself, not her ex husband!

      • Laine

        And another thing, what about selfrespect? Who wants to depend on a man that cheated on you, hurt you etc etc? He is such a bad person, but she still wants his money?

      • Ms E

        I don’t agree Ms. Truth. She seemed to have had issues before the divorce. And although she lost custody of her kids, she knows that her ex will take care of them and allow her to see them as long as she acts right. He gave her $1million settlement, she could have bought a decent size house, (not mansion), put the rest in savings, and get back to work. Why have a degree and not use it. I mean its nice to have someone “want” to take care of you and all, but when you are a young and able body, with some knowledge, why get lazy. Save that “Take care of me” attitude when you are old and unable to take care of yourself.

      • Guest

        I like how you assumed I’m ignorant and don’t have children. Just so you know, you’re wrong on both accounts. Nothing in the statement I made was ignorant. Obviously if she’s taking her valuable time and sitting on the streets with a sign airing her personal business, she has issues. I can’t think of another case where a woman has lost custody of her children (for right or wrong reasons) that has reacted this way. If she is so easily driven crazy by the actions of another human, maybe she shouldn’t have gotten custody of the kids. MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT EVERYDAY!!! It is not a reason to lose your mind, your children, your home, your dignity and your life!!!! So save the BS you’re talking for the truly ignorant of the world which you obviously are!!!!!

    • inessa

      That just goes to show you two when the law is not on the woman side:

      – The children are like an insurance…if she loses the children then she loses the money and goes crazy
      – many women are just lost when they “lose” their divorce
      -so many men go through this and have to pay in top of that ..
      -we need a new divorce system , a human divorce system that doesn’t let anyone with a bitter taste in the mouth