Sure Signs You’re The Girl On The Side

July 12, 2013 ‐ By Ashley Page


No one wants to be classified as the side chick, and no matter how much you want to believe that you are the only woman, sometimes guys can be much trickier than you think. Men will go to all sorts of lengths to ensure that they can juggle as many girls as possible, without even considering his present relationship status. Here are 14 signs that you are the side chick and that you need to leave ASAP! Unless you don’t mind that sort of thing.

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  • Joy Ward

    WHYYY do you have Geena Davis on this list? Apparently, whoever wrote this is young and out of touch. Geena Davis did her thing, she had a VERY successful career!

  • Popeye Olive

    Our relationship ended by him because “I was pettY’. There were soooo many signs and language. It was my first experience and boy was i naive. This site helped to educate me. This is SO ridiculus: He took his life long friend to a b-day celebration to see Diana Ross and dinner. My comment was i feel hurt the the planning for my b-day (dinner when we can squeeze it in) didn’t have the same planning. He remembered 6-days before. He said – Petty why do you always look for problems !! Then LOL he blamed it on the building. The last gift of ending the relationship feels so right. The deception was endless. 1 1/2 years

  • 1DayWeWillKnow

    I’ve been here before, so I’m reading these and laughing while simultaneously feeling salty.

  • ThisIllegalAmericanLife

    Ashley Page must be Chris Rock ghost comedy writer. I swear I’ve heard all this at a Chris Rock concert. Too funny. “He’s too busy” Ha!, HE’S A SURGEON! Look at the picture.

  • ThisIllegalAmericanLife

    LOL. The first picture with the heading “His House is a Mystery”. Ok, if that was a white girl in the picture, believable. What black man has a house? Unless he’s living with his mother.

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  • E McArthur

    I took the dude I’m talking too off of FB because it’s too early in the relationship and I do not have the energy to question every single ‘like’ they get right now especially because dudes do the same with mine and it means nothing….what’s done in the dark will come to light either way I feel…so I do not believe in that social media rule because there could be drama caused from nothing because of those sites….Anyways, I got to keep on reading….I met his friends and bring up my name while he was on the phone with his friends so I take that as a good sign so far…

  • Ouch*Dee*Thats*Bottom!

    Side chick. Chick from the side then…

  • Moya Oneilla Rose-Miller

    if u have to ask then you are

    • Tamia

      but 99% of black men have side chicks and cheat. So ask yourself that right now. If you with a black man than u are being cheated on, simple.

      • Jack Nebula

        you are an idiot.

        • Tamia

          sounds like u are a side chick. lol

  • Mark A

    Daumn, women do the same thing! I got played by this woman they same way. This happen to me, and I felt foolish cause I thought I was in love, yet I had to let her go, cause it was getting more than I could handle. And yes I did love her and lust for her, but I finally realized one without the other makes things right, along with the disrespect that was also realized, I made a move to tell her to kick rocks. She did and now when I see her I get an impression that she try her best to duck and dodge me. I’ve moved on, but it’s seems that she think I’m goanna step on her neck, lol1

  • Sdot

    More stfu…sometimes u dont know if ur the side chick. It happens hence the article

    • Machone

      After a period of time, you will know if you’re the side chick! Never meeting his family is a big sign!

      • more

        WRONG!! lmaooo! my brother stay introducing me to side chicks.Matter fact i have had men who NEVER WANTED anything serious introduce me to their parents. Of course i saw the BULLsh*t a mile. Thank god i played my cards right

        • Tay

          And what did u do when he introduced you to the side chick(s)? And you know your brother´s wife/ girlfriend, right?

          • more

            Yes i me and my mom and grandma have met a couple of his side pieces over the years. We did nothing because they all know what my brother is about. Hell i been introduced to parents by men who were never really serous about me. at end of the day when you grow up around brothers you see sh*t for what it is. Unlike growing up around woman who seem to live in denial about these things.

    • more

      The truth hurts! U birds love this MAIN CHICK SIDE CHICK NONSENSE! How about aiming for being the ONLY CHICK? Oh i forgot birds dont think like that

  • more

    SOO sick of this SIDE CHICK MAIN CHICK crap!! Not only do i have to worry about THE SIDE chicks health BUT i also have to worry about what type of crap she is passing off !

    • Tamia

      its called condoms and being with a black men u should always use them.

      • more

        Hun ALL MEN have STDS!

        • Tay

          That´s true. But black men (latinos, africans, african americans…) are the shadiest..It´s runs in the color. Dont ask me why..but i´ve seen it around me.

          • more

            ok love go to the aids clinic you will notice a more than just black or brown