‘It Was A Calm, Quiet Interview:’ Michael Vick’s Alleged Mistress Talks Being Confronted By His Wife

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July 8, 2013 ‐ By Jazmine Denise Rogers
Source: WENN

Source: WENN

A few weeks ago, media outlets lit up like charcoal grills on the 4th of July with reports that a woman believed to be the mistress of Philadelphia Eagles player Michael Vick was penning a tell-all book about her decade-long relationship with the troubled athlete. That woman turned out to be an entertainment blogger who goes by the name Bella Escritor and although she confirms that she is in fact writing about her relationship with Vick, she claims that she’s been inaccurately portrayed in the media. In a recent interview with Mara The Hip Hop Socialite of 4UMF, Bella dished on how her relationship with Vick came to be and her encounters with his now-wife, Kijafa (pictured above).

On meeting Mike:

“I met Michael in Atlanta, and I didn’t know who he was when I met him. Everyone with me knew, I just didn’t know. I wasn’t really into sports; I didn’t know anything like that. I didn’t like celebrities; I don’t like the whole celebrity thing. So when I found out who he was, I wasn’t really impressed, but he pursued me. So what happened that night, you know, it was suppose to be kinda like a okay, I met him, he seems cool. I don’t know if he was impressed with the fact that I had no idea who he was and when I found out, I didn’t care, but that night, we kinda hooked up. I’m just going to be honest, we straight up hooked up. I went back to his house, we hooked up, and he told me, ‘You know we going to do this forever. We going to be cool like this.’ And I’m just like, ‘Whatever. Obviously you’re a celebrity, you’re an athlete, whatever.’ You just got some, so I’m thinking, okay, you’re not serious. I go back to my house; the next day, I get a call from Mike. The next week, I’m getting calls from Mike. The next month, I’m getting calls from Mike. And it went on and on like that for years. So it was true. I thought it was a joke, I agreed to it. I’m like okay, yeah right. We’re going to be cool like this forever, blah, blah, blah. But then as time progressed, he turned out to be serious about it, and as I got to know him, it got serious for me too. So when you’re around somebody through hard times and good times, and when you met them, they were up, and then when you see them go down, I have the kind of heart where I’m not going to leave you just because you fell down. So that drew us closer, and that’s when the life thing became more serious.”

On on finding out about Kijafa:

“I’ll tell you something that the world does not know, and I’ll put it out there. When you asked me did I know about Kijafa, when I met Michael, he didn’t have a girlfriend. He had her before he met me, I mean, he knew her, and he had women before he met me, but when I met him, he was single.”

“When I found out about Kijafa, I found out he had a 10-month-old that he didn’t even know about. He told me he had a 10-month-old daughter that he didn’t know about, but he knew who it was from, and he knew about the girl, and when he found out he had a child with that girl, he took her in. It was no ifs, ands, or buts, and that’s Kijafa. So when I met him, no, he did not know, as far as I was concerned, this is what he told me. I’d never seen her before; I’d been at the house before so much, I’d never ran into her, until I started seeing clothes in the closet. I started seeing things, and I’m like, ‘What’s going on?’ And he’s like, ‘Girl, I gotta baby.’ And I already knew he had a son, but he’s like, ‘I gotta baby.’ And I’m just like okay, and he explains the situation. And I’m like, ‘Oh okay, so you knew her before me.’ And he’s like, ‘Yeah’. So I was like, ‘So you know it?’ And he’s like, ‘Yeah, that’s my child. I knew her, we were together.’ He took responsibility from the point she told him he had a daughter. I don’t know how that came about, why they broke up, why they weren’t together when I met him, but from what I was told, that’s how Kijafa came into play. And that’s why I didn’t consider it as serious when he said that it was cool, everything was cool, because I just thought he was just taking care of his responsibility.”

On Mike getting engaged to Kijafa:

“I never wanted to marry Michael. The only conversation we had about marriage was if he was going to marry Kijafa. He would tell me he was not going to get married for about 10, 20 years. He said that he was engaged, or that he’d be engaged forever, but he was not planning on getting married. That’s the only time it came up, because I said once you do that, it’s not going to be for life [with her and Michael] because I need to move on with my life too. If you get married, I need to get married. And between each other, we became friends and family, like so close, that it was like, okay, you’ve got your life, I’ve got my life, when we’re together, we have our life, you know what I mean. And Kijafa, that’s the only subject of marriage. I never wanted to marry Mike, ever. That was not the point. He used to ask me, ‘Why do you like me?’ And I would answer because you’re cool, because your’e my boy. It was never I wanted to marry him. Michael is a good person to know, and a bad person to know, and I know both sides. And for my life, that’s not what I wanted, and he knew that.”

On being confronted by Kijafa:

“She basically called my phone, this was 2011. She called my phone and I saw her calling, and I text Michael. I’m like, you know, ‘Your girl is calling my phone. What do I do?’ And instead of texting Michael, I text her back. And so she’s just like, ‘You know what, come on, answer the phone.’ So I keep telling him, she’s calling. And he’s like, ‘Yeah, she went through my emails, she saw your emails. She’s tripping, that’s just her and her girl acting funny right now, but she’s cool. She read your emails, and she’s like, oh, ya’ll cool?’ So I’m like, if she’s so cool, let me answer this girl’s call. I answer the call, she ain’t cool. When I finally talk to her, it’s like an interview. It was a calm, quiet interview. She had questions for me, I had questions for her, and that’s how it went.”

On she and Kijafa being around Mike at the same time:

“Oh yes I would, yes I would. In the same VIP section. Like at a birthday party or club or wherever he wanted us to be. I mean, he’d be like, ‘Oh, I’m having a birthday party in Atlanta. You coming?’ And I’m like, ‘Not really, I don’t want to go.’ ‘Come on, come on.’ And I’m like, ‘Alright.’ And all of a sudden, Kijafa would show up, and he would say stuff like, ‘Oh, I didn’t know she was coming, but she’s here, so it’s cool.’ I was like, ‘Whatever.’ And that’s just how it happened. I’d be with my girls, and I guess she came with her girls, and we didn’t coincide, but we were all in the same section, and it happened more than once.”

Sounds messy.

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  • Hatemessybitches

    How about this lady just hang herself

  • Pimp c

    RON MEXICO

  • Chris

    ok so Mike is married now why is this chick talking whats the point…ya’ll had a thing or whatever so move on….he is married wow….if I were Kijafia i would do a S and D on her so she can stop the madness running her mouth….whats the phrase now please have several seats!

    move on ..damn lol

  • Nymeria

    Self deception is a terrible thing…

  • Barbara Codner

    He lied and she wanted to believe him. #theend

  • sammi_lu

    I was lost after the 50th ‘like’ and ‘whatever’.

  • MeMe

    No harm; no foul. Did she mess with him “after” he got married? That’s all that matters. Dating, Engaged, My Man … ain’t jack, till you get that ring. Carry on.

  • Things That Make You Go Hmmmmm

    Soooooo…you didn’t know who he was, but when you “found out” you slept with him. You never saw her (Kijafa) before, but you partied in the same VIP section. *super duper side eye*

  • rainydaze80

    Maybe my English is getting bad being outside the US, but this is the 2nd incomprehensible piece I’ve read today on MN. “…we became friends and family, like so close, that it was like, okay, you’ve got your life, I’ve got my life, when we’re together, we have our life, you know what I mean.” No, I don’t get what you mean honey. So the wife is cool with Vick stepping out on her? When they met, it was like an interview? Partying in the same VIP section with Vick?

  • famousamos

    Disgusting article. The girl sounds silly, and is okay with being a toilet. He has a wife, no matter how much he downplays it..(thats what all cheaters do) Continue to be shi**ed on maam, Karma is no joke…no, eff Karma, the “WORD” is no joke. Keep playing with fire. You shall get burned.

  • Ragga

    Not buying this story AT ALL. She didn’t know he was a celebrity? Ahhh…ok…lmao. You didn’t know you were a side piece? Ahhh…ok (delusional). Some women will do anything and subject themselves to the most shoddy treatment around just to be with a celebrity. Very sad!! Women need to have more respect for themselves and stop prostituting themselves out for miniscule doses of money and fame.

  • Sarah M. Hart

    First of all I would never get involved with someone who wasn’t honest and open and upfront just not the kind of person that I would be attracted to. Yeah you didnt know okay but then when you knew you decided to stay anyhow. If he wasnt truthful about the other woman that just degrades and disrespects yourself I have no clue why any woman would do that just to say they are with someone no matter who it is. You must value you more than anyone else first then you can have a good mature healthy relationship. Otherwise your just causing your own heart ache and pain. I have no time for that! God bless!

  • nita46

    not true….lol but if it is she the fool!!!

  • Gimmeabreak78

    I have always said that there are three types of women–ladies, prostitutes, and h0es. Ladies and prostitutes know their roles. A lady knows she is the apple of her man’s eye and as a result enjoys many benefits and priviledges. A prostitute knows that a man only wants one thring from her, and as a result never shows up to his home or job unannounced, or expects to be introduced to his friends, family, and colleagues. She does what she’s called to do, then goes about her business. A h0e, on the other hand, is a woman with an identity crisis. She is a prostitute who thinks she is a lady. The man only wants her for sex and silence, but she thinks that she’s supposed to get the priviedges of a lady and then gets mad when her real identity is revealed to her. Bella Escritor is is neither a lady nor a prostitute. SMH.

  • Gimmeabreak78

    I have always said that there are three types of women–ladies, prostitutes, and h0es. Ladies and prostitutes know their roles. A lady knows she is the apple of her man’s eye and as a result enjoys many benefits and priviledges. A prostitute knows that a man only wants one thring from her, and as a result never shows up to his home or job unannounced, or expects to be introduced to his friends, family, and colleagues. She does what she’s called to do, then goes about her business. A h0e, on the other hand, is a woman with an identity crisis. She is a prostitute who thinks she is a lady. The man only wants her for sex and silence, but she thinks that she’s supposed to get the priviedges of a lady and then gets mad when her real identity is revealed to her. Bella Escritor is is neither a lady nor a prostitute. SMH.

    • For Realz

      Beautifully put, well said!

    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

      Dang you broke it down. Quoted for truth!

  • LenBoo

    Chile…

  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

    “Nah I mean, I didn’t want to marry him, nope I was cool being his sidepiece/something to do yep I was cool with putting in work on the dizzle while he took his time and love and yes means home to his wife and family. I wasn’t tripping or jealous, and I have a real valid reason to sell out my ‘boy’ that has nothing to do with me being salty.”

    ^
    ^
    The delusion this chick sells herself so you she can sleep at night.

  • nj2

    She was the side chick and seemed to never want to be anything more…until now. I guess you could say that she played her position until she felt disregarded; not a forever position.

  • Child_Puhleez

    Gosh, I miss the days when side-pieces didn’t speak & knew their place. smh

    • Suchalady

      Seriously. I don’t know what this world has come to but mistresses are way too proud these days.

      • Child_Puhleez

        Last days, Suchalady. (Lovers of themselves & lovers of $$$.) smh

      • Child_Puhleez

        Last days, Suchalady. (Lovers of themselves & lovers of $$$.) smh

    • PleaseDOBetter

      Right. “She has questions for me and I had questions for her.” What possible questions could you have had for her? HOT A$$ MESS.

      • Child_Puhleez

        IK,R?! smh

  • Gimmeabreak78

    My question is once this woman found out she was #2 (or even further) on the depth chart, why would she continue to subject herself to dealing with someone who is only willing to keep her in the “rotation”? I have never understood women who were willing to be the side chick. SMH.

    • Guest

      She said she never wanted to take things further with him anyway. Seems like he had his place in her rotation too.

      • Gimmeabreak78

        Yes, you’re right. That’s what she said. But she also said that she started questioning him when he saw women’s clothing in his closets. I’m sorry, but to me, it sounds like she’s just fronting. If she didn’t want to take things any further, it would seem to me that she wouldn’t be concerned about competition.

        • TheVictor

          I didn’t get the impression that she was “concerned about competition” but it would be a natural question.

    • Kenedy

      I’m starting to think that there are universities out there that offer degrees in groupieology & that some of these chick are graduating with honors

      • Nia

        Lol! Right? And they must learn in Groupie 101 to always act like they don’t know who dude is. Girl please.

        • TheVictor

          I didn’t know who he was before the dog thing. If I saw him on the street and he said Hi I still probably wouldn’t recognize him.

      • Gimmeabreak78

        Exactly. It’s so strange to me. I guess both genders cheat, but I always notice that when a man is a side-guy to an otherwise attached woman, he doesn’t feel the need to grant interviews, write tell-all books, or otherwise throw it in the main guy’s face that he’s porking his wife/woman the way side chicks do. I’m a woman and I find this completely baffling. Why would someone want to advertise their life as a concubine? SMH.

        • Child_Puhleez

          Truth!

        • guest5

          Because the man is living a dream! lol.

        • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

          Because 90% of women do not want to be just someone’s side piece/bootycall. This chick included. Which is why she’s fronting like they had this deep bond and friendship despite him using her as a trick.

          Some ‘friend’ she turned out to be.

      • Barbara Codner

        LOL!!

    • MonicaT

      I agree with why would a WOMEN knowinly subject herself to dealing with a man who is dealing with other women. They both were dealing with a man who is dealing with other women regardless of what rotation. Side chick main chick whatever at the end of the day it doensn’t change the fact they were dealing with a man who is cheating on them both. They both stayed in that situation for their own insecurities. A man will only do what you allow him to do! Also why marry a man knowing his history of cheating. We only know her side and she could be making this all up, but anyone cheating whether man or women it doesn’t stop once you get married or have children.

  • siarasheree

    I half way believe her…. I can believe that Mike made it seem like his girlfriend wasnt any big deal… But she not really knowing he was a celebrity athlete when they first met —*side eye*… ..yeah right!

    • Candacey Doris

      It could happen. I didn’t know who Michael Vick was until all that mess with dogs blew up. Not one bit. But these days when you start dating a guy you start looking him up! So that was partially her fault.

      • Child_Puhleez

        I didn’t know who he was, either until the dog abuse episode, but you’re absolutely right: when it comes to dating, Google is your friend! smh

    • LenBoo

      I can definitely believe he tried to downplay the situation.

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