Are They Back Together? Kirk Reveals The Real Reason He Asked Rasheeda To Get A Blood Test

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June 28, 2013 ‐ By
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Well, well well. What do we have here? Kirk and Rasheeda sitting down for an interview…together. Just as their marriage is unraveling on our tv screens every Monday night, the two are hitting the interview circuit. They sat down with an radio program in Atlanta, Streetz Morning Grind, and discussed why Kirk asked Rasheeda to get a blood test and why Rasheeda thinks he really came at her sideways.

Then in the second part of their interview, the two speak on whether they’re together right now and whether or not they want to be married to one another.

First Rasheeda explains why Kirk came at her the wrong way.

“It’s like we’ve been in a marriage for a long time and you know how it can get. It can get bad. And unfortunately ours played out in front of the world. He’s said some stuff that made me want to go in, in in. But I’m looking at it like, I’m in a place in my life where I’m so secure– for him to come at me in the crazy ways and say some of the crazy stuff he’s said. I’m really looking at him like ‘You need to deal with your issues because it’s you.’ A lot times when men come at you sideways with them crazy little remarks and little smart comments, it’s their own insecurities and something he needs to get straight.”

Then Kirk explains how he felt about Rasheeda’s mom confronting him.

“It was one of them things where I was saying what was on my mind. Then Rasheeda mom all in the marriage. She was going off on me like she was my mother. But she don’t know what I know. She don’t be where you [Rasheeda] be. She don’t know where your joint be.”

Rasheeda responds…

You know what– cuz he sounds like a fool.

Kirk explains why he asked Rasheeda to get a blood test

Three years ago, all of a sudden, I get a phone call. Somebody says yo I need you to get a blood test, I think this child may be yours. SO another man is raising a child. I go take the little swab test, it’s my son. So I found out I had a kid three years ago. For me as a guy, you can’t always believes what a woman tells you.

Rasheeda responds…

If that scarred you, I’m sorry that that scarred you but don’t come at me sideways like that. Something wrong with you.

Then in the second part of their interview, they get down to the current state of their relationship.

Are ya’ll good now?

Kirk: I’m working on it. That’s what I can say.

Rasheeda: I ain’t did nothing. I’m very pregnant and trying to stay focused and stay strong and stay stress free so I don’t have any problems during this whole little term.

Do you still want to be married?

Kirk: Of course. I’m working on it. I’m trying to find myself back in a decent place. But I’m not going to be working on it and somebody telling me, ‘Go do whatever and You do you.’ I’ma try but it gotta be both people.”

Check out the interview in its entirety on the next page. 

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  • jules

    Rasheeda as well as Tina from Mary Mary have very LOW SELF-ESTEEM. Kirk and Teddy committed the highest level of disrespect any Man could do to a woman and they both actually still speak to these parasites called men. Kirk sleeping round on Rasheeda with the cameras rollin and Teddy got caught in their bed with their neighbor. What’s wrong with these women and its not something either woman can fix cuz their men have no regard for them even as a person forget about being they’re wives. It’s ridiculous now

  • watcher

    I think they had to add the drama because last year they seemed too much like a happy loving couple – with renewed vows and all that. It there is no drama, you have no reason to be on the show. Other reality shows have eliminated people for being too tame, so Kirk & Rasheeda figured out a way to stay on the show and keep stacking paper.

  • Moe

    Kirk is Gay I don’t care what he or Rasheeda say. When he come out of his closet that’s when he will be happy with himself.

  • why

    Still trying to decide who’s more foolish out of the two…

    • brooklynarcher

      my thoughts exactly! I’m just looking at Rasheeda like she sounds like she’s intelligent and she’s beautiful but….something seems off. Like i get a really insecure vibe from her. Because the way he still talking to her is crazy! Ya’ll are married! If he telling her to get a blood test then he should’ve been asked her if she was creeping in the first place. Then to tell her to get it “taken care of” the way that he’d done, is just outrageous and all she can say is, “you sound like a fool,” or “you sound crazy.” Something ain’t right. IMO i believe that Kirk is the type of man that always accuses Rasheeda of doing something to keep her insecure and to make her go above and beyond to prove that she isn’t. I believe he does this because he knows she basically can leave him and be alright. It’s seems emotionally and psychologically abusive.

    • mlw1924

      lol..

  • Yvette

    So Kirk “found out” he made a baby with another woman 3 years ago which clearly means he cheated on Rasheeda and he has the nerve to say he can’t trust what a woman says implying that Rasheeda is at fault and can’t be trusted? Really Kirk? Then wanted Rasheeda to get a blood test and/or abortion? I don’t understand why she is still dealing with him. Kirk seems like he is going through the motions just for the sake of a check and reality TV fame or should I say infamy. SMDH!

    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

      Not necessarily. He found out he was that child’s father 3 years ago. The child could be much older than 3.

      • Yvette

        You are correct. He sure could be. Kirk still gets no pass on his bahavior.

        • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

          I agree. Rasheeda should get while the gettin is good. This man has a habitual precedent of running when his wives/girlfriends/bootycalls get pregnant.

    • Mztisa

      Negative! He said his son is almost 18!

      • Yvette

        If that’s the case I stand corrected. Kirk still gets no pass on his behavior.

        • LaShawn LaLa Harper

          I agree…

    • WHOISBSQUARED?

      ………ALOT OF WOMEN NOWADAYS ARE STAYING WITH THESE MEN FOR THE SAKE OF NOT BEING BACK IN THE DATING SCENE AND FOR THE KIDS…..BUT I WOULD’VE BEEN LEFT THE F*CK AGO….

      • The truth.com

        amen. He has a lot of nerves. Rasheeda would be silly to stay with him the way he talked about her on camera. Get rid of him.