These Ex-Husbands Can’t Hold You Back: 5 Ways To Move On (Not Just Get By) After Divorce

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May 28, 2013 ‐ By madamenoire

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From YourTango:

The divorce has been finalized, and you’ve arrived at the acceptance stage. You think to yourself, “It’s all done now! But wait … why do I feel so awful and lost?”

The truth is, many women feel this way post-divorce. All of the support they had is now gone, and they’re left to figure out what comes next. This can leave them feeling insecure and depressed. Maybe you feel this way? Having been there myself, I have come up with five ways you can transform the feelings of loss into something positive and make the most of your situation for the future.

1. Do all the things you have always dreamed of. There’s no time like the present. Why not take your new free time to do all the things you never got around to when you were married? Make a list of things you wish you had done, and go for it. After my divorce, I started singing again and decided to paint. It brought me a lot of joy, which allowed me to seek joy in the small things—which, after all, make all the difference.

2. Travel. A change is as good as a rest! I find this to be so true. When I felt lost and scared post-divorce, I decided to take myself to Sri Lanka, which did me a world of good. Travel is an opportunity to meet new people, experience new things, and even get to see how others live—people who have had different experiences, and perhaps don’t have as much as we do. It’s an amazing way to create the feeling of well-being, and it tends to put things into perspective…

Read more at YourTango.com.

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  • Bradley Speck

    This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR OLOKUM have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email:lavenderlovespell@yahoo.com.

  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

    Pretty much get on with your life and do those things you should have been doing for you while you were married.

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