When Women Text… The Ways We Drive Ourselves Crazy Over SMS

May 20, 2013 ‐ By

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Most of us are women here so I don’t have to tell you that when it comes to communication, we’re different than the men folk. We get very particular when it comes to relaying a message. You would think in this digital age, where there are various vehicles to reach out to someone, that communication would be easier. But that’s not the case. And we’ve seen that time and time again when we’re texting. After conducting a small study, we found that we women can be a bit butt when it comes to sending and receiving text messages just the way we like them. In case you don’t know what I mean, find yourself on this list.

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  • MY SMSTEXT# +63.919.261.6111—-TEXONLY,,NOCALL!!!

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    ugh!! i want him to txt me it’s been 2 days smh!! what is the point in asking for someones number if ur going to to take days to txt lol but ya i’m over it

    • Lovely

      He’s has other chicks so doesn’t feel the need to text you right away. I would relegate dude to friend category

      • more

        LOL THANKS

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  • Melissa

    Yep on the majority. Especially with checking my spelling. I’ve even closed my message and opened a dictionary to make sure I was spelling it correctly, sometimes I don’t trust the auto spell check lol 🙂

  • Dina

    Yall are cray with this textn social media stuff lol ! That’s strange because when I text I say what I mean, and convey it exactly as I intended. That’s what they have periods vs exclamation points for & caps, “( )”, ” ? ?? “, “etc”, lol, gthoh, :)(…you are going to feel me be it i’m trying to sound intelligent, cool, mad. As far as waiting on a response I text and forget ! Then again Im probably not even textn you if you didn’t text me therefor I shouldn’t have to worry about you not responding.

    I can’t keep up ! So if you unfollow someone, follow a X, block, don’t text back in a certain amount of time, etc etc it’s the ultimate diss ? That is so funny to me !

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  • Yes i am one of these people. I’m glad to know I’m not alone. But my main problem is reading to deep into a text taking it the wrong way. You can’t read emotion through a text so i prefer a convo. I always find myself saying, so what was that supposed to mean lol.

    • Sasha boguie

      Yes that’s me omg. I once dated this man from NYC and began having feelings for him Long story short he would text Hey love Wyd love I didn’t know if he meant he was having strong feelings or if it was just an expression because he was from NYC. Lol I was over dramatic to embarassed to ask so I would fwd all my guy friends for opinions

      • Lol been there!

      • Lovely

        Just assume it means nothing. A lot of guys use text like that on purpose to sound like the are really into you and play on their words.

        I was just researching the WYD text, because I kind of hate it. It’s so lazy and not really personal, so it could be sent to 10 different women.

        This guy is from the South and keeps calling me Babe and Baby. I’m just like whatever do you boo. Already told you I didn’t want to date you.