Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Would A Man Want To Have Sex With A Woman Who’s Pregnant With Another Man’s Child?
There’s this reality show coming out about pregnant women trying to find dates. Naturally, these women aren’t with the men that impregnated them and they don’t want to wait nine months before they date and have sex again. I’ve heard from women who’ve been pregnant that their libido is heightened and the sex feels better etc. And I’ve heard several men say sex with a pregnant woman feels better because things are tighter and juicer. (LL Cool J even admitted to having sex with a pregnant woman–not his wife– in his interview with Oprah.) I understand that it feels good and whatnot. But I don’t understand how men are able to completely dismiss the evidence that, not only has another man been with this woman, a part of him is literally growing inside of her. Even though I know having sex won’t hurt the baby, something about it seems disrespectful. So the question is do you know men who’ve done this? And if not can you tell us how you think men might be able to rationalize something like this?
Thanks in advance,
Pittsburgh native Damon Young (aka “The Champ”) is the co-founder of the ridiculously popular VerySmartBrothas.com. Their first book “Your Degrees Won’t Keep You Warm At Night: The Very Smart Brothas Guide To Dating, Mating and Fighting Crime” is available at Amazon.com