Glutton For Punishment? 14 Ways You’re Self-Sabotaging Your Relationship

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Think about this: if you actually believed your partner set out to intentionally hurt you, you wouldn’t be with that person! And yet we often speak to our partners as if they did things meaning to hurt us by blaming and saying “You do x, y and z” instead of saying, “I feel a certain way, when you do x, y or z.” If you want to solve a problem, approach it as such. Don’t jump into accusations.

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