True Love Is Verifying Your Boo On Twitter, And Other Random Things We Learned From The “Love And Hip Hop” Reunion Part II

April 16, 2013  |  
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And it’s finally over! The season of Love and Hip Hop in New York ended yesterday after airing their final reunion episode, and boy did the absolute most happen. Joe Budden got punched in the back of the head by Consequence, Erica admitted to having sexual relations with Tiffany, Yandy opened up about the currently incarcerated Mendeecees, and basically, the ratch came out of pretty much everybody. Here’s a recap of the mess that we couldn’t help but be confused by last night.

Consequence Is A Punk…Basically

Sorry if it sounds harsh, but I can’t get down with another man that punch/slaps another man in the back of the head when he’s not looking and had no idea you were feeling froggy enough to jump. And to be so proud of it makes no sense either. Where they do that at!???

“I do NOT tolerate disrespect…”

Well Cons, we don’t tolerate violence and foolery from grown men. But can we also take a moment to laugh at the fact that the security guard could literally pick him up like a child when he tried to go for Budden a second time around? Tossed him like a rag doll…

Rich Dollaz Says The Small P*nis In Those Leaked Pics Of Him Aren’t Him–Erica Disagrees

In the earlier part of the episode, a photo was shown of an alleged leaked picture of Rich Dollaz taking a selfie, showing off his abs and his manhood. He claimed that the abs were indeed his, but as for the small p*nis, he said the lower half was altered. But Mona Scott-Young asked Erica if she could confirm whether or not it was Rich (Ooooh the shade on Scott-Young’s part), and she replied, “very much so.” Ouch!

Yandy Is Keeping It Positive About Mendeecees

Watching the flashback clips of Mendeecees and Yandy together, did anybody else feel a little sad for her? They really are cute together, no matter how lost Mendeecess likes to act from time to time. Of course, he’s currently in jail trying to see what will happen with his drug charges (the situation about sex with the daughter of his ex was settled–not guilty), so their engagement is hanging in the balance. However, Yandy is keeping things positive no matter what. So when Scott-Young tried to ask Yandy what she would do if Mendeecees ended up in prison for a long time, she said “I’m not going to even address that hypothetical, because I believe in speaking all good things in existence.” Kudos to you, boo.

The Rat Came Out Of Raqi And Rashidah

If I said it once, I’ll say it again, I really don’t understand why Rashidah was on the stage so much during both reunions, as though she was the guest therapist there to drop knowledge. She was just there to bicker with Raqi, and we all know Raqi wasn’t about being the bigger person. At one point, after Rashidah told Raqi not to claim that she was Muslim because she is a disgrace, the two women went at it. Rashidah even found a few seconds to slip off her glittery stilettos to have proper footing before trying to box, but thankfully, they were pulled apart quickly. Raqi left the stage and said she was done, while Rashidah was basically scolded by Scott-Young, as she told her to put her shoes on and “cut it out.”

Lore’l Is Has A Good Conscience

During the conversation about race, aka, the shady things Consequence and Jen The Pen have said throughout the season, Mona Scott-Young brought up those infamous lyrics Consequence wanted to put on Lore’l’s track about light skin being the right skin. He basically said that your lyrics don’t define you and that she shouldn’t have tripped since they were his words and not hers. Luckily for us, Lore’l had a conscience and enough good sense to know that the lyric was wrong and that she didn’t want to disappoint young girls of all colors who might be listening to her music. Oh Cons…decisions like this are why Yeezy kept you in the background for so long…

Erica Did Mess With Tiffany, Because “She Was Easy”

So after all that beating around the bush, Erica confirmed that she did mess around with Tiffany, allowing Tiff to allegedly go down on her when they first met. She of course was proud of this, trying to make Tiff look like the fool she is for falling for both Erica and Rich’s game. But Tiffany stood her ground to let folks know that she did what she needed to, including basically getting the scoop on Erica, because she deeply cares for Rich. But the unanimous thought on Twitter last night was that she was low down and got played like a fiddle.

Rich Defines Love As Verifying Erica on Twitter; Calls Tiffany His “People” Instead Of A Love Interest

Clearly Rich Dollaz was hurt by Erica’s behavior, because in the middle of the sit-down with her and Tiffany, he ran off a list of all the things he did for Erica that showed his devotion. This includes getting her the song “Where Do I Go From Here,” buying her a car, and even verifying the girl on Twitter…

Hey, you show your love your way, he does things a bit differently. What can we say? But when Mona Scott-Young asked Rich about his feelings on Tiffany and what their status was (after she replied, “We’re going to be what we are forever”–whatever that means), he hesitated, pointed at her (as if to say, “Who??? Her???”) and said, “That’s my people.” Tiffany was clearly disappointed.

Joe Is Calm, Even In The Midst Of Drama…Maybe TOO Calm

Did anybody else feel like at any minute in last night’s reunion, Joe Budden might literally explode and take out everybody in the room? His speech is often so clear and calm at times that you would think he would raise his voice, that it comes off a little crazy. Or very crazy. For instance, the moment video was shown of Consequence punching/slapping him in the back of the head, as Joe was held back by security, he calmly smiled, eyes lit up, and he said, “That’s what I like…”

And when he told Mona Scott-Young that if Consequence didn’t get himself together that he would have to “approach him in a different manner,” a clear threat, his voice was barely raised, but he had that flicker in his eyes again–plain ‘ol cray.

What’s In The Future For These Ladies?

Erica – “More craziness.”

I wouldn’t be too proud to say all that, because she’s had enough drama in one season to last for the rest of her life.

Yandy  – EGL (Everything Girls Love, her blog), working with her new client Lore’l, and she says no matter what you hear, Mendeecees is coming home soon.

Raqi – She’s doing DJing now. If you weren’t aware, it’s like the new trend for bored people.

Lore’l – Putting out new music on her own label, and of course, working with Yandy.

Olivia – You can still buy her song, “Where Do I Go From Here” on iTunes, and she claims she has a new album coming out soon. No specific release dates or other singles though…

Jen – She says she’s finally in a good place, and she plans to bring her blog back soon.

Rashidah – “My man put a ring on it.” So yeah, that’s what she’s going going on, she’s getting married soon.

Tahiry – More acting, more music, but as for more love with Joe…she ignored that question. But we know they’ll never leave each other alone.

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  • I agree about Joe. Personally I feel like everything that comes out of his mouth is BS, but yea I saw that crazy in his eyes and I was like yep he’s certified lol!!

  • Get IT

    I wish i could say that i watch love and hip hop but the whole show is staged and fake so the drama isnt even real. To be honest i dont know why theres such an obssesion when the whole show pretty much isnt even real.

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    I thought it was hilarious they were calling each other out about being
    real Muslims when no one on that stage displayed characteristics of a
    devout Muslims. Cons had a baby out of wedlock with a non Muslim woman.
    Raqi and Rashida are no virgins and don’t wear modest clothing.

  • shango

    Lmao, i remember when black females were complaining about their “portrayal” on these absurd shows…………now same fools are still watching and discussing them.
    Hypocrisy can be defined as the behavior of the average black woman.

    • hollyw

      …and eternal shade can be defined as the behavior of the average Black man, case-in-point.

      • shango

        Lol, typical chicken head lingo,”eternal shade”.

        • hollyw

          …along w/ degradation, as now I become the “chicken head” lol smh. Though I won’t insult respectable Black men by grouping them all in with your like by calling you typical, i still maintain that you are “average”, i.e. stereotypical…I’ve (or you’ve) made my point, so good day, sir.

          • shango

            Lmao, trust im not your “average” black man……..definitely not “African American” either. But i like sites like these because you people are tragically hilarious.

            • Courtney

              So do above average men such as yourself troll websites to see what “hypocritical women” they can find for fun since they’re “tragically hilarious”? Is that what makes you above average? Wouldn’t someone who was above average have better things to do with his time?

            • hollyw

              Great. Feel even better. You’re just a racist. And a troll…and veeery pathetic lol. The only kind of person who would go on a site for the sole purpose of degradation and to derive satisfaction over the poorest examples of another race/ethnicity is a truly tragic individual. So you’ve in fact defined yourself…again 🙂

              You’re really not worth anymore time, I’m already sorry for the time I wasted. Now i see you’re just a troll. Hope your life gets better!

  • Katrina

    Lmfao I thought Erica confirming Rich pics was funny. I want to feel bad for Yandy but I cant. She knew the type of dude she was dealing and when you do the time you have to do the time as simple as that. That man is brought up on FEDERAL charges which is very serious. Mama didn’t raise no fool, well maybe so because most likely she will be a single baby mama and her son will grow up with his father in Prison. She’s no better off than a lot of project broads I know. And Joe is too dang calm about everything. From the hit by Cons to Tahiry tossing the table. He must be on that good good. Cons needs to stop. Joe confronted you in YOUR OWN INTERVIEW and you did nothing now when his back turn you want to get froggy #boybye

    • LilScrappy_w/his_irrelevant_az

      They already dropped the charges on Manfeces. He’s out now

      • Katrina

        The raped charges were dropped. I haven’t heard anything about the 2.5 million dollar drug charges being dropped. So yes that man will be in jail for decades if not life if those charges still apply. He need a great lawyer and I do mean GREAT to get his time reduced or dropped completely. He’s a regular dude for the most part so I doubt he has enough clout to just walk away from them charges.

  • Facts or Opinion?

    It’s not a real relationship if it hasn’t been validated on Twitter. I thought everybody knew this…lmao. A damn shame.

  • LilScrappy_w/his_irrelevant_az

    Man, as ratchet as Erica is, I felt sorry for her. She really is in love with Rich and seemed like she was trying to do better for him. Cons is a punk. How you gonna hit somebody when they not looking? Im glad Tahiry hit that buck toothed horse looking roach in the face. I wish Tahiry and Joe just got along because they obviously still care about each other

    • Breeze

      Did you not hear the lie detector results when it said Erica cheated so how was she trying to do right by him? No shade because obviously he isn’t a saint either. They both were playing games. I’m mad they still gave Jen a pass about her racist comment to Raqi. How would she feel if a white person got a job over her son simply because of his skin color and not qualifications? Very ignorant statement to make when you have a child that will be considered a black man. I thought it was hilarious they were calling each other out about being real Muslims when no one on that stage displayed characteristics of a devout Muslims. Cons had a baby out of wedlock with a non Muslim woman. Raqi and Rashida are no virgins and don’t wear modest clothing. So neither one has room to talk. Really it was rather boring thankfully ATL will be on next Monday. I miss joselyn and stebbie!

      • LilScrappy_w/his_irrelevant_az

        I said she was “trying” lol. Yes this was very boring compared to ATL. Raqi, Rashida, and Cons are all disgraces to the Islam community. They probably did go in on Jen a little more but you can tell it was edited so much that all the juicy stuff seemed to be let on the cutting room floor. Mona needs to stay behind the scenes and leave the hosting jobs to others. Wendy Williams would have had a field day with this

        • Breeze

          Nuh Uh there is no such thing as try when it comes to fildelity. Either you let somebody stick you ( lick and stick you in Erica’s case) or you don’t. And if we was in Iraq or Pakistan Cons Raqi ans Rashida would all be stoned for their actions. Location Loacation gotta love it lol. Mona does need to stay in her producer lane though. She did have some good question but allowed to get away with bs answer instead of making them elaborated. It also seems rushed to me

          • LilScrappy_w/his_irrelevant_az

            You right. It seems just because she already knows everything that happened behind the scenes, she isn’t that interested in hearing the stories all over again which makes it boring. Is there a part 3 to this or was part 2 it?

        • Courtney

          I totally agree, Wendy Williams or someone else should have hosted the reunion. As a producer, she’s too close to the action, and she seems like she’s always trying to defend all the made up story lines and drama that she produces on the show by saying things like “we couldn’t make this stuff up.”

          Yes you can, it’s call “soft scripting” and Mona is the queen of that. She needs to just stay behind the scenes and let the drama play out with no apologies or caveats. She’s a puppet master acting like these folks’ parents rather than a producer.

  • Only Ho’s Stroll

    Not scrolling through this. I’m going elsewhere to get the scoop!

    • Why that name though? LMAO! I’m too through!