Girl, Take it Easy! 9 Impulsive Moves That Could Ruin a Relationship

2. Sex

The most common thing men and women do too fast in new relationships is have sex. While having sex on the first date might not be as taboo as it once was, there is still something to be said for getting to know someone – and their sexual health status – before jumping into bed. If you want to just release some pent-up sexual energy, then by all means, go for it. But if you’re looking to get into a serious relationship, make sure he’s on the same page so that you don’t become too invested too soon by catching feelings. Women release a hormone called oxytocin when having an “O,” which gives women that “bonding” feeling with the man she has sex with. If she has sex too soon, she could experience the feeling of being “in love” when that may not be the case. Some men also experience a false sense of closeness after being intimate with a woman, so he may also think he’s in love when he isn’t.  Men have chemical reactions to, although most of them released just makes them go to sleep! If you’re looking for a commitment, take some time to get to know each other before having sex so that you know that the bond you feel is based on compatibility, mutual respect and real love for one another. Sex doesn’t create the bond, it only enhances it.