Bridezillas And Hating Bridesmaids: 10 Things You Shouldn’t Say Or Do When You’re Planning Or Participating In A Wedding

April 2, 2013 ‐ By Clarke Gail Baines


I know I’m not the only person who felt enormously stressed by simply being asked to be a bridesmaid in a wedding. The whole opportunity to support my loved one was nice, but I saw a side of folks, including other bridesmaids and the bride, that I wasn’t too crazy about. If you are the one planning a wedding or just trying to take part in one to make somebody else happy, please don’t be the person to do the following:

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Don’t Assume People Are Balling Out Of Control

You might be rolling in dough while preparing for your big day, or as the maid of honor, you might want the bridesmaids to put in big dollars for getaways, spa sessions, and unique ways to celebrate bridal showers and bachelorette parties, but always remember that times are hard. With people having to buy dresses, gifts, pay for travel expenses and more, folks need to be reasonable in what they expect from wedding parties and family, unless you just want to keep things very small. But trust, if people can’t afford certain expenses, I’m sure they’ll let you know reeeeeeeeal quick.

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  • Breeze

    I feel like marriage should be more about the commitment than the pageantry With that being sad this list was pretty good. I seen too many shows and when the bride is picking out Her dress people are unnecessarily brutal when they don’t like something. I know when I get married if people act up during my fitting they’re getting the boot. As far as maid of honor I think people pretty much know who they’re going to choose. They might wait just for drama. The weight loss thing is up to the bride, but you know if you have fat friends. If they been fat for a while the chances of them losing the weight is null and void, so if that’s a problem make them guest not part of the wedding.