“Lord Take Me Noooooow!” 9 Things You Should Never Do, Say Or Wear At A Funeral
Not Choosing Your Words Wisely
When trying to comfort one going through grief, we know it’s a struggle. What can you say to provide comfort? It’s best to just give your condolences, maybe a hug, some food, and let someone know that if they need you, you will be available (but don’t promise that and never pick up the phone…). However, some people say things that make people even more sad, or uncomfortable, or distressed about the deceased, their religion and more. That includes looking a parent in the eye and saying it was in God’s plan (it probably was, but that’s not all that comforting, and you should come to such a conclusion on your own), asking for “juicy” details about what happened if the family hasn’t been forthcoming about it, asking about money and all kinds of awkward things. Stick to the script.