Ask A Very Smart Brotha: I Cheated On Him A While Ago, Should I Tell Him?

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March 20, 2013 ‐ By

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Jasmine: What is the most reasonable time period in which a woman should receive a proposal from her boyfriend?

DY: I don’t believe in an arbitrary set time for things like that. But, I will say if you’re in your late 20s and above, just “dating” for longer than two years probably isn’t the best look

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  • Lina

    I hope I am misunderstanding something, but on the second slide it states that ”a wife comes before everyone else, including children.” Does he mean that a wife comes before children or that the children are included in coming before others? If he is stating that the wife comes before the children…that’s ludicrous.

  • Nope

    “Is abstaining from sex until you find the right guy, my special someone, a good idea, or does it just scare guys away?”

    Yup. Just realize just like you don’t owe him sex since he’s not your man, he doesn’t owe you patience since you’re not his woman. Waiting for, and waiting with are two completely different things. He’ll probably get sex elsewhere in the meantime, just like you’ll probably get attention elsewhere in the meantime.

  • BYG

    Regarding the last one on whether or not she should tell her boyfriend she cheated, I would say no. ” Don’t ask, don’t tell”. Also you have to think, would he told if he cheated on you ?!? I don’t think so !

    • hollyw

      Look smh that is very tit-for-tat… you’re suppose to complement your mate, not meet him/her where they’re at…how else do you guys grow?

    • WHOISBSQUARED?

      I AGREE BUT TO SUM DEGREE……..IF U TRULY LOVE UR MATE AND THIS MISTAKE JUST HAPPENED TO OCCUR, 4 SUM DAMN REASON, THEN I WOULD LET THEM KNOW, YEAH 4SHO………..BUT IF SUMWHERE IN UR HEART U HAVE NO TRUE LOVE 4 THEM………YEAH ME N MY SECRET GON CHILL IN THE CREMATION OR THE CASKET………N THATS REAL……..NOWADAYS U TELL THESE MEN THINGS LIKE THAT AND U MIGHT END UP DEAD, U DONT KNOW WHO’S SANE AND WHO’S CRAZY………..EVEN IF WE’VE KNOWN THEM FOR YEARS…………

      • TRUTH IS

        Your CAPS lock is on….lol

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