Be Honest: Are You Selfish In Bed?

March 20, 2013  |  
Source: Shutterstock

From YourTango

By Melissa Fritchle

Do you and your significant other enjoy different things when it comes to sex? Do you focus too much on your own pleasure? Are you wondering if you’re getting too controlling in the bedroom? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, sex therapist and YourTango Expert Melissa Fritchle explains that you can still satisfy your sexual needs without coming off as too controlling to your partner. “It’s great that you found a way to  efficiently and you know how to feel satisfied,” she says, “but sometimes, when we focus on , it causes us to miss out on other elements that make sex fun.”

Read Melissa Fritchle’s advice for becoming a more selfless partner on

Trending on MadameNoire

View Comments
Comment Disclaimer: Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed 200 words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section. XOXO-MN
  • Nope

    As a man I’ll say that many women don’t really know their own bodies, and that many women aren’t very good in bed either due to what I just said and/or they’re lazy or out of shape. But of course men get 99% of the blame for both.

  • Dolo

    I def am depending on the person.. If I really like the guy I aim to please. If not I’ll take a massage then the works. After I am going to roll over and go to sleep. In that order.