Jada Pinkett Asks Why Heterosexual Women Are Choosing To Be With Other Women As A Last Resort?

March 8th, 2013 - By Brande Victorian
Source: Facebook

Source: Facebook

I wonder if Jada Pinkett knew the firestorm she was going to set off when she posted a rather interesting and controversial question (along with the image above) on her Facebook page earlier this week. Concerned about the state of relationships between men and women, and about the intimacy choices of a few women around her, Jada questioned why women are seemingly choosing to be with women romantically in response to negative experiences with men. Rather than editorialize and run the risk of misconstruing whatever insight she was trying to gain, let me simply  lay her question out the same way she did.

Before I begin…I want to make one thing clear. It’s important that you know that I believe love comes in ALL forms. I believe a person should love WHOMEVER…HOWEVER they choose. But…I do have a question.

In the last month, three women, in their 40s, coming out of long term relationships with men have confided in me that they now feel that their last resort for companionship is that with a woman. These are women who have never engaged in or even desired to be in intimate relationships with other women. Now these women feel as though they have no other option. It seems as if there is a spike in same sex love all around. What is changing in which how men and women are relating to one another, that is creating same sex love as a LAST RESORT for heterosexual women?

You…tell…me.
J

Well, what do you think? And have you noticed this “trend”?

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  • shame on you

    100% AGREEMENT…

  • shame on you

    Jada…where is Will these day’s and how is it that a married women of 16 or more years have an answer to that with out experience or so…four years i’ve about an open marriage…Jada are you trying to tell us…????

  • http://shockya.com/ Monique Jones

    I haven’t seen this trend around my parts, but I’ve heard of it before. I’m not surprised.

  • Senait Ashenafi

    I”m pretty much done with black men, but women will never be an option. A woman could never give me the kind of love I was searching for. It’s better to be alone than to settle for something that you don’t really want.

  • QueenOfLife

    I think some woman are tired of certain personal issues they’ve had with men (i.e cheating, lying) and feel that maybe a woman can relate and empathize with them more. Im not really sure. Maybe it is for the sake of trying something new, who knows. As long as your happy *shrug*

  • NiHi

    Jada needs to ask why her son was in a club with Justin Bieber instead of at home in the bed? She has some business and gay women isn’t it and NO I am not gay.

  • IllyPhilly

    Who gives a sh!t how these grown men and women find happiness. No kids, no animals involved. Let them be.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003505135257 Ramone DeCurta

    This is the credited response!!!! TITCR!!!!

  • chanela

    NOT THE Y!! LMAOOO thats a good one!!

  • Kahekili

    A woman who chooses to be with another woman is not heterosexual.

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