Can I Get A Hook-Up? How To Flirt At Church

March 6, 2013 ‐ By Renay Alize

couple at church

While you shouldn’t be going to church with the intent to find a man, you’d be hard pressed to find someone who’d argue that you can’t meet somebody in a house of worship. It can be done. In fact, it happens all of the time. The thing is, you can’t use the same flirting techniques you use at the club at church. You must modify it if you want to have some level of success. So, if a fellow church member has caught your eye, here are a few tips about how you should go about getting his attention


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  • I want to say wow …. but shockingly people do find love in church. Head over to Essence and read some of their “Just Engaged” or “Married” and 70% percent of their couples met in church.

    While you shouldn’t go to church on with the sole intention of “finding a man” it wouldn’t hurt to look or have someone find you. Honestly…. it’s better than finding a man at a bar.

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  • OneToy


  • Babydoll 70

    Too much flirting going on already if you ask me. That’s probably why most folk misquote scriptures, they are too busy flossing and glossing in the pews instead of paying attention and studying the word, can’t even find the book of Genesis.

  • Kahekili

    What man is a Black woman going to meet in church when most of those churches are filled with other women?

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  • MsLadyE

    Asking the elder women at church is an excellent idea. Besides giving you information about the man you’re interested in, they can also give you great relationship advice.

    • Babydoll 70

      Some elderly women are the most gossiping hens there are. I would not put them in my business.

  • NO MAM…

    I just think this is a crazy list…i mean We might ALL see someone curte at church but use your common sense like any scenario. I honestly try not to date at my church simply because its a very Young/SMALL church in LA full of actors/actresses/music people. So the crowd is so small people tend to date more than one person in a group which doesnt work for me. I understand things not working out, but you cant be with me one week, we break up and then you dating my best friend. cus then we gon have a problem. I dont like that..I would much rather date someone outside the church that shares my values/beliefs, its just to close for comfort on the inside. Plus as any church romance goes people will be ALL UP IN YO BUSINESS..especially the ones that was next in line…smh. DONT DO IT.

    • Babydoll 70

      Or the musicians dating all the singles ladies in the choir.

  • FromUR2UB

    That male model in the pic is giving off a gay vibe (yes, in the still shot), which is one reason a lot of people don’t hook up at church. Another reason is because people think there’s something EEEEvil about people wanting to meet someone with whom they can share their lives, so that’s frowned upon at most churches.

    • yeppers

      What is wrong with meeting someone to share their lives and what the hell church have you heard this at?? O ok…Girl bye! any dam way. lmaooo dont pastors have HUSBANDS AND WIVES AND KIDS?? mine do…

      • FromUR2UB

        You must be a newbie. Ask somebody.

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  • Meyaka

    Wow you guys…