Throwing Shade! 9 Signs Your Friends May Be Sabotaging Your Relationships

3. They Offer Bad Advice

Sometimes you need an objective ear to bounce things off of when you’re going through something with your boyfriend. But sometimes, your friends offer up advice that is unsolicited and possibly bad because they’re trying to manipulate you into thinking or doing something that could jeopardize your relationship. If your friends are always encouraging you to dump or cheat on your man, beware. Sometimes ,it’s hard to tell when a friend is sincerely looking out for you or throwing shade, especially if it’s a friend you’ve had for years and whose opinion you trust. They’ll have you always thinking the worst and that you made the wrong choice in a man. But if they’re encouraging you to do something you find morally wrong or unjustifiable, then you may need to distance yourself from these “friends” who want you to do something that you may possibly regret.