It’s So Hard To Say Goodbye But He’s Got To Go! Signs You’re Wasting Your Time

7. You Always Argue

While some men and women avoid confrontation like the plague, others thrive on hostility and stay with people who they argue with day in and day out – even though they know it’s a dysfunctional situation. Don’t get me wrong, all couples argue – at least most “real” couples I know. If you’ve never argued with your mate before, either you’re still in the honeymoon stage and haven’t been together very long, or something else is off. But if you argue EVERY SINGLE DAY over petty, trivial things, that’s not healthy either. It’s one thing to bicker about leaving dishes in the sink, and another to have full-blown arguments over major issues that never seem to get resolved. If you’ve been having the same argument for three years, you’re just being silly and wasting each others’ time. Some folks who grew up in dysfunctional families may think that arguing demonstrates that you truly love someone. Wrong.  It means that you weren’t meant for each other. So rather than staying in a bad relationship because you feel that being in a bad relationship is better than being in NO relationship, think more of yourself and leave before your arguments escalate into something more. You deserve better.