Girl You Thirsty! 15 Signs You’re an Overbearing Girlfriend

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February 12, 2013 ‐ By Ashley Page

Sometimes in a relationship you’ll find that you are doing everything possible to make sure that things continue to go well. And while your intentions are nothing but good, sometimes becoming overbearing and overstepping in a relationship can do more harm than good. Though it may sound crazy, there are times when you may be doing too much. Here are 15 sign’s that you’re an overbearing girlfriend who is probably coming off as just a tad parched.

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You’re in touch with him 24/7

Every morning there’s a text on his phone. During your lunch break you run to your car to call him. At night you make sure you call him to wish him good dreams. Staying in touch around the clock is a big no-no, and it shows that you’re becoming really needy and clingy. Guys tend to hate when a girl becomes clingy, so definitely cut back on the communication.

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  • Babydoll 70

    I only reached page 5 but these seem more like codependent traits than anything.

  • Ididn’tdoit

    The girl in the pic looks like a xhubby Rhianna

  • Kahekili

    Two words I wish would stop being used as slang, ‘thirst’ and ‘ratchet’.

  • Kahekili

    Two words I wish would stop being used as slang, ‘thirst’ and ‘ratchet’.

  • NO-EL

    A third of these things on this list is what a woman is supposed to do…cook, going out your way for him, open communication? wth?

    • Kahekili

      No woman is ‘supposed’ to cook or go out of her way for a man.

    • Kahekili

      No woman is ‘supposed’ to cook or go out of her way for a man.

    • Na Na

      girl wives are SUPPORTED to cook. Girlfriends are supposed to make sure she eats and if he happens to be around while you’re eating there’s no harm in making him a turkey sandwich too.

      • Kahekili

        ‘girl wives’? Are there boy wives out there somewhere?

        If the girlfriend is eating, you think she should stop to make her boyfriend a sandwich?

  • NVAdamzz

    I went out on a date with a guy who was kind of like this. Every single thing I did he felt like he had to help me. He got out of his car and walked up on my porch when I was coming out of the house to walk me down the stairs, every single time I wanted to get out of my chair he was standing next to me with his hand out to help me out of it. I’m like dude, I’m not 85. I can make it, I promise.

    • NO-EL

      Where is he. That’s the type of gentleman I would like in my life.

      • NVAdamzz

        He’s here in Michigan. I’ll give you his number! Lolz!! I mean it’s one thing to be a gentleman. Doing things like holding the door open for me or things of that nature, that’s cool. However, I feel like he was trying too hard. Why would I need your hand for me to get out of a chair each and every single time I get up? I like a more laid back person I guess.

    • Kahekili

      That would get annoying fast. It’s one thing to be courteous, but another to treat someone like they are handicapped.

      • Babydoll 70

        I think it’s classy for a man to actually act like a gentlemen. I’d rather have that then have someone let the door slam in my face.

        • Kahekili

          That’s fine. I personally don’t care for all of that.

          • NVAdamzz

            Right, me either. The guy that I’m seeing is a gentleman but he doesn’t smother me the way the other guy did.

        • NVAdamzz

          I agree with @MorningRain:disqus. Just because I don’t like for someone to treat me like I’m decrepit doesn’t mean that I want or would allow them to be rude to me either. Be courteous, be polite, but give me my space too. There’s a balance and he just didn’t have it.

    • Kahekili

      That would get annoying fast. It’s one thing to be courteous, but another to treat someone like they are handicapped.

    • Babydoll 70

      That’s called being a gentlemen. It’s what men are supposed to do and it has nothing to do with an age.

      • NVAdamzz

        I agree that men are supposed to be gentlemen. In my opinion, he was just trying way too hard and what he was doing just was unnecessary for my personal taste.. I guess we just have different opinions of what a gentleman is.

  • http://www.thedeuce.co.za itumeleng

    girlfriend does most of the stuff here, its annoying

  • E.C. from D.C.

    The overbearing one is not the girlfriend then (me lol)….it’s the boyfriend.

  • Thatgirl2013

    I actually like this list and agree with a great majority of it. Girlfriends act too much like wives these days. The thirst is real!

  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

    Its called being d*ckmatized.

  • Ms. Kameria

    Some of these points aren’t “overbearing”, they’re just stupid and senseless.

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