Ask A Very Smart Brotha: We Just Found Out He Has Newborn Twins, Should I Try To Work It Out?

5 comments
January 30, 2013 ‐ By
Source: iStock.com

Source: iStock.com

Jazmine: I just found out that the person that I’ve been wanting to start a relationship with has NEWBORN TWINS! He claims that he didn’t even know and that the female lied and said she was pregnant by someone else. He wants to have a sit down and air it all out but my past relationships leave me hard to trust/believe him. Should I give him the opportunity to plead his case? He claims he loves me just as much as I love him but I’m guarding my heart with an iron fist. Suggestions???

DY: Your man’s name isn’t Tom Brady, is it? Anyway, it is possible that he was unaware of this situation until recently. In fact, I’m going to give him the benefit of the doubt. Still, you both need to take a big step back from this relationship—him because he needs to figure out how to feed two mouths, and you because nothing about “my new man has twin newborns by a different woman” is hot in the streets.

I mean, if the roles were reversed and you were knocked up with twins and didn’t know who the dad was, do you think he would stay?

More from Styleblazer

More from Mommynoire

MadameNoire Video

Comment Disclaimer: Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed 200 words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section. XOXO-MN
  • Pingback: Ask A Very Smart Brotha: We Just Found Out He Has Newborn Twins, Should I Try To Work It Out? | Very Smart Brothas

  • kierah

    To Rachael – ask your husband what you can do to make things better. Read The 5 Love Languages. You may be doing everything you can think of, but that doesn’t mean he’s programmed to respond to it. Find out what his love language is and speak it daily until you become fluent.

  • kierah

    “Still, you both need to take a big step back from this relationship—him because he needs to figure out how to feed two mouths, and you because nothing about “my new man has twin newborns by a different woman” is hot in the streets.

    I mean, if the roles were reversed and you were knocked up with twins
    and didn’t know who the dad was, do you think he would stay?”
    **************************************************************************************************************
    ALL OF THE ABOVE!!

  • anonymouse

    If you have to ask should you work it out with a man who claims that he just found out that he has newborn twins, then you are a damn fool. That’s all

    • wizdom

      Lmao. EXACTLY.

No thanks